So if you've beeen married before,

[velvett]

once, twice - whatever - and you are now divorced, divorcing and/or *oh so over it all now*.... (edited to add....) or widowed.


would you ever re-marry?


1 - Would it depend on you?

2 - Would it depend on another person?

3 - What if there are children (yours/theirs) involved, what would you do then?

4 - What if you thought your friends and family would roll their eyes at you behind your back - (*oh look at the new one he/she's gonna hook up with*)

5 - Have you just had it with the whole idea of marriage?

6 - Been taked to the cleaner one time too many?

7 - Would you re-marry for the desires of your new mate?

8 - Or are you simply clueless as the answer until you have to face that sort of bridge?

 

[Warik]

Is this hypothetical or are you only posing this question to people who have in fact been married before?

If it's hypothetical, then......

1) Yes.
2) Yes.
3) Her children must like me first, and my children must like her first.
4) Then I wouldn't care.
5) Maybe if my first wife was a real bitch I'd conclude that all others would be.
6) I'll have to see at that time.
7) Only if my desires were compatible.
8) I'm sure it won't be as simple as a little checklist if I ever got to that bridge. I'm hoping I never will, though.

One thing is for sure, if I'm single because of the death of my wife, whether it happens after 60 seconds or 60 years, I will not re-marry. That's set in stone.

-Warik

 

[velvett]

One thing is for sure, if I'm single because of the death of my wife, whether it happens after 60 seconds or 60 years, I will not re-marry. That's set in stone.

OMG! I feel the same way.

 

[Code]

I'm widowed.

I'd consider re-marrying, but in no rush.
Not presently dating anyone steady.

I have a 2 year old little girl (turns 3 in July).

 

[smallmovesal]

I'm widowed.

I'd consider re-marrying, but in no rush.
Not presently dating anyone steady.

I have a 2 year old little girl (turns 3 in July).

and she's sooooo darn cute. they're so much fun at that age.

 

[SofaGeorge]

I'm widowed.

I'd consider re-marrying, but in no rush.
Not presently dating anyone steady.

I have a 2 year old little girl (turns 3 in July).

I'm a widower too. My wife died one month and two days after we were married. I honestly don't have a clue as to whether or not I would remarry... but I do find it cool that my current g/f doesn't give a hoot about the fact I still wear my wedding ring.

 

[Code]

I still wear mine from time to time.

But for nearly a year afterwards I wore mine all the time.

 

[pushing_fe]

I'm divorced and if I ever get married again it will probably be to my exwife.



Shocking but true.

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

i guess, i will marry again eventually
and it wont be a disaster the next time.
but until i find a more than worthy guy, the thought won't cross my mind

im finding it hard to have a reason to even get married again

 

[big4life]

If I had been through a divorce I might be more careful before getting married again, but I would give it another chance with someone else.

I am not sure where to draw the line at how many times. I know this guy who is 35 and he has been married 5 times.

 

[Code]

Well, there's a tax break.
There's frequent, often consenting sex
There's a mutual support system.

But if you ask me, it's more about tandem wiccan blood rituals. Or was it the fun of a tandem bicycle, I forget.

 

[velvett]

True story...

I had met someone once (previously married and divorced) - compatible, nice, honest, kind and great in bed even (blah blah blah) but he stated that under no certain terms would he ever get married again I was both hurt and stunned by his feelings and by my reaction to them.

While I could be quoted many times during the course of my life as to have said, "I'm never getting married" - it was having the option taken away that made me start to re-think my possible future with this person.

That said - I guess experience, time and decisions all go hand in hand.

 

[decem]

code and sofa - sorry to hear of your loss.. i had no idea..

do you mind me asking a question? how'd they die? just curious i guess.. if you don't want to talk about it.. ignore this.. and i'm sorry to have brought it up..

 

[decem]

once, twice - whatever - and you are now divorced, divorcing and/or *oh so over it all now*.... (edited to add....) or widowed.


would you ever re-marry?


1 - Would it depend on you?
2 - Would it depend on another person?
3 - What if there are children (yours/theirs) involved, what would ou do then?
4 - What if you thought your friends and family would roll their eyes at you behind your back - (*oh look at the new one he/she's gonna hook up with*)
5 - Have you just had it with the whole idea of marriage?
6 - Been taked to the cleaner one time too many?
7 - Would you re-marry for the desires of your new mate?
8 - Or are you simply clueless as the answer until you have to face that sort of bridge?

1. silly question
2. as in if she'd be good enough to marry or not? well.. yeah..
3. i'd marry.. my stepdad has been the best thing that ever happened to me..
4. tough titty said the kitty but the milk's still good
5. people enter into all sorts of different contracts everyday.. what's so different about this?
6. huh?
7. um.......no.. i'd have to want to do it myself.
8. pretty much clueless as to why your questions don't make a whole lot of sense.. but also clueless partly because i'm married now and never plan on divorcing... but wouldn't be ashamed or anything if i did

 

[Code]

decem you have a PM.

Nicole, it was rough for the first 6 months, and still is from time to time. But we're just two peas in a pod at this point.

 

[big4life]

True story...

I had met someone once (previously married and divorced) - compatible, nice, honest, kind and great in bed even (blah blah blah) but he stated that under no certain terms would he ever get married again I was both hurt and stunned by his feelings and by my reaction to them.

While I could be quoted many times during the course of my life as to have said, "I'm never getting married" - it was having the option taken away that made me start to re-think my possible future with this person.

That said - I guess experience, time and decisions all go hand in hand.

That is too bad that he would let a bad experience, no matter how bad, influence his decision about you or any other woman.

You learn from your mistakes, but you don't let your past, rule your future.

 

[Code]

Oh velvett, you have EF mail with cute pictures. No, they are not of me.

 

[velvett]

Re: Re: So if you've beeen married before,

8. pretty much clueless as to why your questions don't make a whole lot of sense..

Well, I was just trying to cover a lot of different people, in a lot of different situations with the shortest and least amount of questions.

 

[LiLady11]

My father is now married for the third time to a woman whom loves him very much and whom he loves very much as well. This is his third marriage.

My mother divorced for the third time 4 years ago. She swore up and down that she would never date or marry another man, but yet she has found herself in a very loving relationship with a wonderful man.

I used to say that because of my parents background with marriage, I would never even think of marrying. But I have found myself in a wonderful relationship as well, and my mind is quickly changing.

 

[velvett]

Oh velvett, you have EF mail with cute pictures. No, they are not of me.

OMG!
She is so adorable.

LOOK AT THOSE CHEEKIES

AND THOSE CURLS.

Thanks for sharing those....

 

[Code]

The cheeks are always a rosy red.
They get flaming red when she's tired or angry.

 

[smallmovesal]

she's so sweet.

code and i have joint custody... well, we did when we were separated.

 

[The Shadow]

would you ever re-marry?


1 - Would it depend on you?
2 - Would it depend on another person?
3 - What if there are children (yours/theirs) involved, what would you do then?
4 - What if you thought your friends and family would roll their eyes at you behind your back - (*oh look at the new one he/she's gonna hook up with*)
5 - Have you just had it with the whole idea of marriage?
6 - Been taked to the cleaner one time too many?
7 - Would you re-marry for the desires of your new mate?
8 - Or are you simply clueless as the answer until you have to face that sort of bridge?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm................

1 & 2 - It would depend on both I think. If WE believed that we could make the vows ring true...then YES without hesitation.

3 - Being a good father, imo, is WAY more than being a sperm donor. If they were "her" children I would love them as much as possible. If they were mine, I'm sure they would grow to love "wife 2" but I would never, EVER try to replace their mother.

4 - I wouldn't give Two Fat Bastards as to public opinion.

5 - Disillusioned by the concept?? I wouldn't think so. Marriage is a wonderful concept and institution. I would have no regrets.

6 - No.

7 - Already covered that - BOTH would have to want it

8 - Darlin - I'm ALWAYS clueless.

 

[SofaGeorge]

You beat me to it decem--

Sorry for your loss- I wish the best for you and your familys- especially your little girl code.. that must be tough.

Decem Nicole if either of you want the long version of the story PM me your email address. So far only Toga and Star from here have read it... but I don't mind sending it out.

 

[CrimsonKing]

I would not remarry again

 

[The Shadow]

I would not remarry again

Hmmmmm...can't say I'm suprised by tyour other comments.




How's the training going?

 

[rudeboyja]

I don't have to worry abou remarrying because I will never marry in the 1st place.

 

[thelion2005]

However ....
I am so set in my ways, I'm not sure if anyone would have me.

Except .... those beautiful women from foreign lands that seem to have
pleasing a man inbred into their DNA.

The only problem with some of them is .... they eventually want to bring their entire family over to your house from Mother Russia. Oh Boy!!

I better find an orphan. LOL