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So I think my gf and I just broke up...

resqguy said:
Wow...2 1/2 years potentially gone. I'm not even sure what happened...
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if u are drunk bro just walk away and talk it out when u are sober......both of u could fuck up alot if u try to work it out drunk
 
resqguy said:
Wow...2 1/2 years potentially gone. I'm not even sure what happened...
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what happened? lol..

don't ever think of it as <years gone>. thats bullshit. its an experience, whether good or bad...or mostly bad or good or whatever. you made a decision, thats it.

tons of people stay together because they have "history". thats such horseshit. i did it myself..because i believed i had invested too much to end it, so i dragged out a relationship. it just ended up blowing in my face 20x worse. not saying this is the case with you

who broke it off, you or her?
 
Nah...it's not the history. Actually...we've always gotten along great. Lately, though, we've both been through a lot. I'm going through a career change and she's having some financial difficulties. We've both been stressed. But today, we couldn't be in the same room for more than five minutes without wanting to kill each other. It was weird....
 
resqguy said:
Actually, it happened about 4 hours ago. I'm still trying to figure out what the fuck happened.
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Go to sleep and wait until the morning. Things will probably cool off and be okay.. Unless she was looking for a way out and made some lame excuse to start a fight or whatever. They're good at that shit. What I don't like about women is their passive/aggressive cowardly behavior. I see it on this board all the time.
 
biteme said:
Go to sleep and wait until the morning. Things will probably cool off and be okay.. Unless she was looking for a way out and made some lame excuse to start a fight or whatever. They're good at that shit. What I don't like about women is their passive/aggressive cowardly behavior. I see it on this board all the time.
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I'm hoping everything will be ok 'cuz this girl's a keeper. We rarely argue about anything...that's why I'm so confused about what happened. She's pretty stressed about her money situation right now, and I can't blame her. But, fuck man...she was PISSED earlier...
 
resqguy said:
I'm hoping everything will be ok 'cuz this girl's a keeper. We rarely argue about anything...that's why I'm so confused about what happened. She's pretty stressed about her money situation right now, and I can't blame her. But, fuck man...she was PISSED earlier...
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you are a good bro man.....

if she really is a keeper then she knows that and everything will work itself out
 
resqguy said:
I'm hoping everything will be ok 'cuz this girl's a keeper. We rarely argue about anything...that's why I'm so confused about what happened. She's pretty stressed about her money situation right now, and I can't blame her. But, fuck man...she was PISSED earlier...
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she's projecting all her inner problems at you.........it happens, but she has to drop the little girl behavior. everyone has problems, its just how you deal with them. she's lucky she doesnt have kids etc. being broke sucks, but its usually temporary

i wouldn't even call her until she calls you.
 
jon79 said:
you are a good bro man.....

if she really is a keeper then she knows that and everything will work itself out
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Thanks man.

I hope she's just stressed. Otherwise, I'm going to be a wreck. :worried:
 
calveless wonder said:
she's projecting all her inner problems at you.........it happens, but she has to drop the little girl behavior. everyone has problems, its just how you deal with them. she's lucky she doesnt have kids etc. being broke sucks, but its usually temporary

i wouldn't even call her until she calls you.
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She's always projected her issues onto me...funny you should say that. You're right about everyone having problems...I quit my job to stay here and be with her. Maybe the reality of that is too much for her, combined with her own issues right now. Fuck man...I need a drink, lol.
 
Give her some space to cool off and work the situation out in her mind before jumping - sometimes the closest people to you are the ones who are the unintentioned target of a general off gassing.

Wish you luck :)
 
resqguy said:
I'm hoping everything will be ok 'cuz this girl's a keeper. We rarely argue about anything...that's why I'm so confused about what happened. She's pretty stressed about her money situation right now, and I can't blame her. But, fuck man...she was PISSED earlier...
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wtf is the problem? what money situation? Is she just money stupid or what?

sounds like a heated argument that got out of control.

I know there's times when I can't help but start shit w/ my girl, and the same for her, for no reason. 30 minutes later we are both like what the fuck were we just arguing about?

like bitme said, unless it was some excuse she's been planning for awhile, you should be golden...
 
resqguy said:
She's always projected her issues onto me...funny you should say that. You're right about everyone having problems...I quit my job to stay here and be with her. Maybe the reality of that is too much for her, combined with her own issues right now. Fuck man...I need a drink, lol.
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I broke up with mine too I could use a drink as well. Sorry to hear about your situation, you seem like a good bro.
 
Sassy69 said:
Give her some space to cool off and work the situation out in her mind before jumping - sometimes the closest people to you are the ones who are the unintentioned target of a general off gassing.

Wish you luck :)
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Thank you. :) She said she wanted to work on things, but she wanted space. I told her to call me when she's ready to talk. For some reason, though, she's afraid I'm going to go out and hook up with random women. :worried: That's not me. I'm too old for that, lol.
 
resqguy said:
She's always projected her issues onto me...funny you should say that. You're right about everyone having problems...I quit my job to stay here and be with her. Maybe the reality of that is too much for her, combined with her own issues right now. Fuck man...I need a drink, lol.
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it definetely is that bro...

be careful man, sign of bad things to come. my ex girl used to do that ALL the time. I burdened the weight of all our problems(financial, emotional) yet i was often the "cause" of all her distress and everything. She'd go out and party and get drunk, and i'd stay home because we had to save money for bills and her piling medical expenses. She insisted that she was only miserable around me...yeah, of course. i was the manifestation of all the stupid decisions she made and bad luck she had. some women are so dumb, and ungrateful.

maybe she feels like you made a bad choice...let her cool off. if she's not strong enough to handle this, then you need a new girlfriend. as hard as it sounds. you find out the true colors of a person when you're at your lowest point
 
chewyxrage said:
wtf is the problem? what money situation?
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She has a VERY expensive apartment in Newport Beach, CA and her roommate is leaving unexpectedly. Additionally, she's going to have to get new furniture because the majority of the furniture in the residence belongs to the person leaving. It's not life-threatening, but it's huge to her...
 
resqguy said:
Thank you. :) She said she wanted to work on things, but she wanted space. I told her to call me when she's ready to talk. For some reason, though, she's afraid I'm going to go out and hook up with random women. :worried: That's not me. I'm too old for that, lol.
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this kind of shit makes me sick when it happens to me.....

one time i lost like 10lbs from not eating......i just could not eat ....just drank malox....lol
 
resqguy said:
Thank you. :) She said she wanted to work on things, but she wanted space. I told her to call me when she's ready to talk. For some reason, though, she's afraid I'm going to go out and hook up with random women. :worried: That's not me. I'm too old for that, lol.
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that's good she's afraid of you hooking up w/ other girls....don't let her think otherwise...

how old are you?
 
resqguy said:
She has a VERY expensive apartment in Newport Beach, CA and her roommate is leaving unexpectedly. Additionally, she's going to have to get new furniture because the majority of the furniture in the residence belongs to the person leaving. It's not life-threatening, but it's huge to her...
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lol dude.....your girl needs a reality check.

why the fuck is she living in such an expensive apartment with almost NO belongings? To maintain the status quo?

She should be living in a fuckin studio....building up some money and doing things the right way.

its her own fault for making immature decisions. if shes taking it on you for this she's not a keeper...at all.

dont get me wrong, everyones problems are relative. but in the grand scheme of things, she needs to learn how to deal with that shit asap. life only gets harder....
 
calveless wonder said:
it definetely is that bro...

be careful man, sign of bad things to come. my ex girl used to do that ALL the time. I burdened the weight of all our problems(financial, emotional) yet i was often the "cause" of all her distress and everything. She'd go out and party and get drunk, and i'd stay home because we had to save money for bills and her piling medical expenses. She insisted that she was only miserable around me...yeah, of course. i was the manifestation of all the stupid decisions she made and bad luck she had. some women are so dumb, and ungrateful.

maybe she feels like you made a bad choice...let her cool off. if she's not strong enough to handle this, then you need a new girlfriend. as hard as it sounds. you find out the true colors of a person when you're at your lowest point
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Your ex-girlfriend sounds like my ex-wife. :)
 
resqguy said:
Thank you. :) She said she wanted to work on things, but she wanted space. I told her to call me when she's ready to talk. For some reason, though, she's afraid I'm going to go out and hook up with random women. :worried: That's not me. I'm too old for that, lol.
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She's obviously feeling like she's losing control of some basic parts of her life - finances are a scary one , esp for women who NEED that as a point of security. Let her know you're there if she needs to vent, needs a break from thinking about it or just needs a hug as well. Takes some of the impersonal feeling out of "call me when you're ready to talk" and I think helps remove that immediate fear of "omg he's gonna go out and fuck around now"....
 
resqguy said:
She has a VERY expensive apartment in Newport Beach, CA and her roommate is leaving unexpectedly. Additionally, she's going to have to get new furniture because the majority of the furniture in the residence belongs to the person leaving. It's not life-threatening, but it's huge to her...
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wow

such a small deal

don't let that be her excuse

a couch and other is like what, $500-$800 max, unless she's a brand whore, then it could be expensive....
 
chewyxrage said:
that's good she's afraid of you hooking up w/ other girls....don't let her think otherwise...

how old are you?
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I'm 33...and until recently, this was a completely normal relationship...
 
calveless wonder said:
lol dude.....your girl needs a reality check.

why the fuck is she living in such an expensive apartment with almost NO belongings? To maintain the status quo?

She should be living in a fuckin studio....building up some money and doing things the right way.

its her own fault for making immature decisions. if shes taking it on you for this she's not a keeper...at all.

dont get me wrong, everyones problems are relative. but in the grand scheme of things, she needs to learn how to deal with that shit asap. life only gets harder....
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I see your point, but it's not that easy. She's lived in this apartment for almost 9 years, saving money for a down payment on a house. Shit's expensive in Orange County. Also, her landlord has NEVER raised the rent on anyone in the building, so she couldn't get a studio for what she's paying for her big-ass apartment. I can understand why she's stressed.
 
I've never understand why people live in a place they can't afford by themselves..

That's just an opportunity for stress IMO

if she can't lease a studio for less wtf does she do? waitress?
 
chewyxrage said:
I've never understand why people live in a place they can't afford by themselves..

That's just an opportunity for stress IMO

if she can't lease a studio for less wtf does she do? waitress?
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The thing is..she CAN afford it by herself. That what irritates the hell out of me. She's only upset because she losing extra play money. She works for Pimco. If you have to ask what that is...then don't bother. :)
 
resqguy said:
The thing is..she CAN afford it by herself. That what irritates the hell out of me.
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you're a good guy bro...but seriously, you need to snap out of it.

listen to what you're saying in this thread.

she's not being kicked out on the street, she can afford her living expenses...and she has a good job. she also has money SAVED up....

she can ALSO find a nother roomate. what would that take, 30 days?

yet she's having a crisis? If i were you, i would not even waste one ounce of emotional energy on her, again, little spoiled girl tantrum. give it to her straight, offer a solution, and if she doesn't get over it. oh well
you did what you could

when you have to live off rice and ramen noodles, take public transportation b/c gas is too expensive and have all your credit cards go into collection..then you have problems, and that's not even that bad. and believe me, that sucked..especially for a silver spooner.
 
she's prolly been planning something like this for a long time then and found her opportunity.....

I hope for you that's wrong because it seems like you really love her.

Maybe she wants a ring? who the fuck knows...
 
chewyxrage said:
she's prolly been planning something like this for a long time then and found her opportunity.....

I hope for you that's wrong because it seems like you really love her.

Maybe she wants a ring? who the fuck knows...
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Sounds like she might have been planning it. HOPE not Bro.! My EX-Fiancee did the same kind a S**T, n' was worried about me going to another woman. Well I found out why she was worried, because everyone thinks people think like them, and she was the one sneakin around, but didn't want me to find out in case S**T didn't work out, Like I was a Plan B. Not to worry you Bro., but it's always safe to keep an eye out when shit is unexplained n' out of the blue. I pray to GOD this isn't the case! Me, when my situation turned out bad I kept myself up by reminding myself she's happy n' doesn't give a shit if I'm not, CLEARLY, so why let someone who doesn't give a rat's ass about me control my emotions and my life when they're off having a good ole time. HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST!
 
hate to be blunt but she prolly already has new dude lined up and has been hittin him for a while, needin an excuse to not feel guilty, so she starts a thing with you to make u feel like an asshole and justifying what she is doing, so in her head she leaves with a clear conscious b/c u were the asshole, sucks but thats how shit goes down
 
resqguy said:
Wow...2 1/2 years potentially gone. I'm not even sure what happened...
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She wanted to date an elite resque swimmer.

If she wanted to be with an "average Joe" she'd would have hooked up with Java.
 
hstern said:
thats right he recently quit doing that didnt he
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From "An Officer and a Gentleman"

Worley: Lynette, marry me. Make me the happiest man in the whole world.
Lynette: I'm sorry, Sid, but I don't wanna marry you. I really like you. We've had ourselves some really great times, but I thought you understood. I want to marry a pilot. I want to live my life overseas. The wife of an aviator.

Lynette: Damn You! Goddam You! Nobody D.O.R's after eleven weeks! Nobody!
 
resqguy said:
I'm hoping everything will be ok 'cuz this girl's a keeper. We rarely argue about anything...that's why I'm so confused about what happened. She's pretty stressed about her money situation right now, and I can't blame her. But, fuck man...she was PISSED earlier...
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it might have seemed weird or out of left field, etc - but remember: people let things build up without communicating them and then eventually (and usually under stressful circumstances) they blow up and everything comes pouring out. it may be stuff that's been building up for a long while unbeknownst to the other person because it was kept unsaid for so long. it happens.
 
hstern said:
hate to be blunt but she prolly already has new dude lined up and has been hittin him for a while, needin an excuse to not feel guilty, so she starts a thing with you to make u feel like an asshole and justifying what she is doing, so in her head she leaves with a clear conscious b/c u were the asshole, sucks but thats how shit goes down
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lol did this happen to you?

you cant conclude this based solely on what he posted. there are lots of reasons people become unhappy in relationships. "someone else" is not always it.
 
resqguy said:
Wow...2 1/2 years potentially gone. I'm not even sure what happened...
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Wasn't this same thread posted a month or so ago? Like deja vu.
 
resqguy said:
Nah...it's not the history. Actually...we've always gotten along great. Lately, though, we've both been through a lot. I'm going through a career change and she's having some financial difficulties. We've both been stressed. But today, we couldn't be in the same room for more than five minutes without wanting to kill each other. It was weird....
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Ah, sounds like it will blow over.
 
resqguy said:
Nah...it's not the history. Actually...we've always gotten along great. Lately, though, we've both been through a lot. I'm going through a career change and she's having some financial difficulties. We've both been stressed. But today, we couldn't be in the same room for more than five minutes without wanting to kill each other. It was weird....
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lol sounds like somedays with my brother. but in the end when our badmoods are settled, he is still my brother, and my best friend, and nothing can change that.

settle down and talk it out, if you get through it, the next time yall get all fucked up towards eachother will be easier to overcome
 
chewyxrage said:
wow

such a small deal

don't let that be her excuse

a couch and other is like what, $500-$800 max, unless she's a brand whore, then it could be expensive....
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craigslist.com for some awsome hardly used 1/3rd the cost nice ass couches
 
We had a civil conversation...she admits she's stressed and she doesn't want to end things. But she's tired of me being snappy/edgy about my job situation, and feels that I'm taking out on her...which isn't entire untrue. I'm taking her out for brunch...hopefully shit'll work itself out.

Hey Bluta2...if this doesn't work out...we should hook up. Awwwwwww yeah.... :busy: BawchickaBAWBAW!!!! (j/k)
 
resqguy said:
We had a civil conversation...she admits she's stressed and she doesn't want to end things. But she's tired of me being snappy/edgy about my job situation, and feels that I'm taking out on her...which isn't entire untrue. I'm taking her out for brunch...hopefully shit'll work itself out.

Hey Bluta2...if this doesn't work out...we should hook up. Awwwwwww yeah.... :busy: BawchickaBAWBAW!!!! (j/k)
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good for you dude. how are you taking your job situation out on her?

at least now you know how it is and can prepare yourself bro- she obviously has the thoughts there...keep yourself aware of that shit...
 
girls schmirls. sometimes, i feel like chopping my penis off and tossing it in Lake Erie, then joining Shaolin Temple..
 
HumanTarget said:
girls schmirls. sometimes, i feel like chopping my penis off and tossing it in Lake Erie, then joining Shaolin Temple..
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I'm doubting any wimminz are gonna lose sleep over this.
 
HumanTarget said:
girls schmirls. sometimes, i feel like chopping my penis off and tossing it in Lake Erie, then joining Shaolin Temple..
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Waking up every morning and having to walk the rice paper & trying to grab the pebble from your Master's hand is a drag.

just sayin
 
PICK3 said:
Waking up every morning and having to walk the rice paper & trying to grab the pebble from your Master's hand is a drag.

just sayin
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and basically becoming Morgan Freeman in Driving Miss Daisy sucks, also...
 
PICK3 said:
I'm lost with reference :confused:

Never seen that flick.
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well you should, it's got old white people in it, showing you the proper way to treat other ethnicities....
 
HumanTarget said:
girls schmirls. sometimes, i feel like chopping my penis off and tossing it in Lake Erie, then joining Shaolin Temple..
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Sometimes we women hope the same thing for you.
 
resqguy said:
We had a civil conversation...she admits she's stressed and she doesn't want to end things. But she's tired of me being snappy/edgy about my job situation, and feels that I'm taking out on her...which isn't entire untrue. I'm taking her out for brunch...hopefully shit'll work itself out.

Hey Bluta2...if this doesn't work out...we should hook up. Awwwwwww yeah.... :busy: BawchickaBAWBAW!!!! (j/k)
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It will all work out........good luck with her.


I would have rocked your world though ;-)
 
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