so how do you know...

[satchboogie]

when enough is enough?

my girlfriend is so fuckin moody.
most of the time she's sweet as they come.
but every day or two she busts out some bullshit ass shit that makes no sense.

i dont think she'll change.

what now?

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

nope, that is probably not going to change.

maybe she needs some flowers or chocolates or something, maybe even though she has been unreasonable if you make a nice gesture it will work out smoothly.

 

[Seashell]

I guess you have to decide if that's something you can live with or not... I don't see it changing. You've pointed it out to her right?

I can't deal with moody people. I tried, it never changed, over time it got worse and nothing I did helped. No more of that.

 

[jerkbox]

that's when you give her the wave goodbye....

 

[satchboogie]

i mean..

at first, i just figured maybe i triggered something.
but after a while i was like what the fuck.. i didnt do anything for this.

now i just glance from the sidelines at how silly she gets.
but dont think i can tolerate this shit.

guess gonna have to cut her loose.

 

[hardrock]

I go through the same shit. I think sometimes it's me too. After a certain amount of time little things can really annoy someone.

 

[PIGEON-RAT]

no point in dealing with that shit if it's completely unprovoked

 

[satchboogie]

example...

so we're about to go out to dinner.
i'm full dressed but wasnt sure about my choice of shoes so i asked her if she thought i look better with another pair.

she said that i look better with the other pair.
but i really didnt feel like switching shoes so i just said fuck it no big deal lets just go to dinner.

so she goes.. 'how would you like me in this sweatshirt' (the one she uses to go to sleep'.

i thought it was a joke so didnt even answer her.

next thing i know she takes off her nice dress shirt and puts on her sleeping sweatshirt.... and she was serious too!

i guess she tried to make a point or some'n.

so i said 'you really dont like my shoes???'

she replies 'your shoes are nice, but why did you ask me about the other pair and then not put them on'

so i explained to her that playing such games isnt necessary and if she felt so stronly about my shoes i would be more than glad to change.

she pursued with more nonsense so i just undressed and came back online to handle biz.

anyhow, its strange i know.

 

[satchboogie]

oh...

and keep in mind that while all this is happening she is totally tripping out. horrible attitude!

 

[from zero]

Dump her. She's also probably cheating on you.

 

[Seashell]

Hmm, seems like uncool behaviour on her part.

If she really wanted you to wear the other shoes, she should just have just said "honey, those other shoes look so damn hot on you, would you wear them for me?".

No need for all that drama.

 

[satchboogie]

so true seashell...

i got way too much shit to deal with as it is with the work and the endless traveling around it.

 

[jerkbox]

she's definitely looney man.....

example...

so we're about to go out to dinner.
i'm full dressed but wasnt sure about my choice of shoes so i asked her if she thought i look better with another pair.

she said that i look better with the other pair.
but i really didnt feel like switching shoes so i just said fuck it no big deal lets just go to dinner.

so she goes.. 'how would you like me in this sweatshirt' (the one she uses to go to sleep'.

i thought it was a joke so didnt even answer her.

next thing i know she takes off her nice dress shirt and puts on her sleeping sweatshirt.... and she was serious too!

i guess she tried to make a point or some'n.

so i said 'you really dont like my shoes???'

she replies 'your shoes are nice, but why did you ask me about the other pair and then not put them on'

so i explained to her that playing such games isnt necessary and if she felt so stronly about my shoes i would be more than glad to change.

she pursued with more nonsense so i just undressed and came back online to handle biz.

anyhow, its strange i know.

 

[Y_lifter]

I don't even have to ask..

I come walking out of the Bedroom dressed, and she says
"that does NOT match, come with me hon"

Usually when she is in these type moods, I just avoid her a bit until she is over it.. Like go outside on the porch or something..

Few women that don't have these moments.
I bet you do some things that are a bit off.

Answer the question "Is this behavior more common than occasional?
If occasional you can avoid / Overlook it
If common, go elsewhere.

 

[MikeyG]

damn bro... I dont know exactly what I'd do if I were you. I've always manged to try to work out through probs with girls-- but if they are ignorant and wont work problems out for you... that's a real tough situation. I'd just do what you conscience tells you to do!

 

[satchboogie]

you know...

i really admire those who can admit when they're wrong.

but one thing i cant forgive is when they try to switch things around.

 

[Y_lifter]

Personally, in the situation she tried with the sweatshirt,
I would have called her bluff and seen if she would have worn it..

 

[TheProject]

You know what my answer is....



taser.

 

[Y_lifter]

She is just begging you to slap her...

BEGGING I say...

 

[satchboogie]

She is just begging you to slap her...

BEGGING I say...

lol..

actually i was gonna check her on that bluff...
but i really am not into bullshit game playing so just let it go.

the thing is that tomorrow she'll wake up like nothing happened.

 

[Raptorex]

get out...get the f#@ out now...believe me I know you don't wanna marry that bia%$...

Repeat..over and over

 

[Sebby]

How long you been with her? Does she live at your place?

 

[satchboogie]

well..

i have a few places.
we switch between places as they're in diff countries.

 

[Seashell]

you know...

i really admire those who can admit when they're wrong.

but one thing i cant forgive is when they try to switch things around..



...the thing is that tomorrow she'll wake up like nothing happened.

OMG. You are dating the female version of my ex.

LOL I'm getting mad just thinking about it. 2 years of that bs, finally I said enough. I'd never date a moody guy again.

 

[The_Ghost]

OMG. You are dating the female version of my ex.

LOL I'm getting mad just thinking about it. 2 years of that bs, finally I said enough. I'd never date a moody guy again.

Thank god I am happy go lucky. You will just love me

 

[RADAR]

Satch my first wifey was the exact same way, its gonna get worse as you get older, mine done me the favor of running around so i kicked her to the curb.......She was 25 the guy she was cheating on me with, was 16 go figure!

RADAR

 

[TC2]

"so we're about to go out to dinner.
i'm full dressed but wasnt sure about my choice of shoes so i asked her if she thought i look better with another pair.

she said that i look better with the other pair.
but i really didnt feel like switching shoes so i just said fuck it no big deal lets just go to dinner."

Dude you sound exactly like my ex GF.

She would always ask me shit already knowing full what she was going to do regaurdless of what my opinion was.

 

[EnderJE]

I don't even have to ask..

I come walking out of the Bedroom dressed, and she says
"that does NOT match, come with me hon"

Usually when she is in these type moods, I just avoid her a bit until she is over it.. Like go outside on the porch or something..

Few women that don't have these moments.
I bet you do some things that are a bit off.

Answer the question "Is this behavior more common than occasional?
If occasional you can avoid / Overlook it
If common, go elsewhere.

Heh. When I get this, I just duck my head down and head straight to my home gym for an extra squat workout.

 

[psychedout]

If there is one and only one universal truth, its that women have illogical moodyness and thought patterns. I am 100% serious when I say EF girls seem to be the exceptiont though. For real, why can't all girls be more like the EF girls?