SLAT need stripper advice please

[GoldenDelicious]

oh and sorry to hear about your bung leg btw

k. simple question. when you first break into stripper circles and she introduces you to her friends/workmates and youre someone like me (who can be a smartarse on the surface but really, i like to spoil girls) do you go with your usual smartarse self with the friends, or let them see the softer side that the one youve been sleeping with gets to see

i dont want to sleep with the rest of them btw, id rather just have 1 girl per social group and just chill with the rest in comfort than deal with drama

cheeeers bigeeears lol

 

[bigmann245]

bro i worked in a strip club for over a year. these girls have low self esteam and usually have drug problems. they like to use men to get more money, they are always looking for a sugar daddy. most of them have one and then you on the side. DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO THEM, they will rip your heart out. i dated one going against my better judgement and she broke up with me because i didnt like the fact she did coke. believe me bro its a world of heartache and games. not to mention a lot of them have kids and no babies daddy. just be careful bro, keep your guard up and again do not get attached. treat them like you dont care and dont be a pussy they hate that. they like to be treated like shit because its all they know. i for one can never treat a woman like shit no matter who she is i just dont talk to the shitty ones. good luck

 

[GoldenDelicious]

its ok

she knows i have 3 other girlfriends and pick up randoms on the side

plus she has a gazillion more dollars than me

i just want the relationship to stay as it is - no committment, no fuss, she just brings over a bottle of wine after her shows, eat some sweet, then...pounce! lol

 

[jh1]

If you treat her / her friends like a stripper when they aren't in a strip club, she'll get sick of the antics real quick...

Just chill out and treat her / her friends like you do anybody else...

 

[Scotsman]

GD if you haven't worried about what anyone else thinks why should her friends be any different? Besides if you approach with a false front it's more of a shock when your true personality comes through.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[dead_reggin_storage_fashi]

its ok

she knows i have 3 other girlfriends and pick up randoms on the side

plus she has a gazillion more dollars than me

i just want the relationship to stay as it is - no committment, no fuss, she just brings over a bottle of wine after her shows, eat some sweet, then...pounce! lol

man dont date strippers and this is coming from me and ive fucked whores. they will get attached to you and then leave you in a second. Plus dating a stripper she will come home just think how many guys where all over that shit 20 minutes before she is in your bed sleeping?

strippers are one and done hook ups etc and maybe at her place here and there.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

If you treat her / her friends like a stripper when they aren't in a strip club, she'll get sick of the antics real quick...

Just chill out and treat her / her friends like you do anybody else...

i dont know what game face to put on around strippers and so tahts what ive been doing - its just that i dont want to blur into the crowd of leg humpers that tries to get in with them

my current tactic is to be myself, which usually means coming to my house and being spoiled ("sit your tush down THERE, eat THIS, drink THAT, and shush youre a guest dammit!"), but making sure she gets the occasional reminder that there are another gang of girls on the sidelines waiting their turn - but she earned that by just being a really cool chick. the rest of them...they have to work to be treated like that, and i dont want to fuckup just yet

GD if you haven't worried about what anyone else thinks why should her friends be any different? Besides if you approach with a false front it's more of a shock when your true personality comes through.

Cheers,
Scotsman

cos her friends are used to oodles of attention and automaticlly devalue a guy who is genuinely nice as being supplicative. its why strippers usually go for really alpha guys who fuck ALL of them, or they pick a poodle type guy and lead him round by the nose

i could do the first one but...i always feel like a prick

 

[GoldenDelicious]

man dont date strippers and this is coming from me and ive fucked whores. they will get attached to you and then leave you in a second. Plus dating a stripper she will come home just think how many guys where all over that shit 20 minutes before she is in your bed sleeping?

strippers are one and done hook ups etc and maybe at her place here and there.

date?

 

[Tytan]

just bone w/ her and don`t worry about impressing her friends and getting serious w/ this broad. There`s a reason she`s stripping, She likes all the drama that goes w/ the job.

 

[Creepusmaximus]

oh and sorry to hear about your bung leg btw

k. simple question. when you first break into stripper circles and she introduces you to her friends/workmates and youre someone like me (who can be a smartarse on the surface but really, i like to spoil girls) do you go with your usual smartarse self with the friends, or let them see the softer side that the one youve been sleeping with gets to see

i dont want to sleep with the rest of them btw, id rather just have 1 girl per social group and just chill with the rest in comfort than deal with drama

cheeeers bigeeears lol

Most of them end up hating guys and becoming lesbians. If you look like their father your in.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

scuse me are yous guys called slat? no

hmpf

 

[jh1]

scuse me are yous guys called slat? no

hmpf

Then bring it to PMs, you fat bitch.

 

[Scotsman]

cos her friends are used to oodles of attention and automaticlly devalue a guy who is genuinely nice as being supplicative. its why strippers usually go for really alpha guys who fuck ALL of them, or they pick a poodle type guy and lead him round by the nose

i could do the first one but...i always feel like a prick

Sounds like you've already answered your own question.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[bigmann245]

Sounds like you've already answered your own question.

Cheers,
Scotsman

he just wanted validation because hes completely head over heals for the stripper.....

 

[Scotsman]

he just wanted validation because hes completely head over heals for the stripper.....

You have no room to talk "mr fly home from columbus", LOL

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[redsamurai]

treat her as you would any other respectable woman.........that's what they want. Yes, doormats get rolled.............so you can't be a complete wuss with them or they'll figure you for a mark. But also don't treat them like their whores, which some of them are............but alot of them aren't. Alot of em make enough money stripping and giving lap dances. I was a manager at a club.........and some of these girls make in one year what a engineer makes in 2-3 years. So why whore when you're making that kind of money? Don't let the lap dances bother you either........they're just hustling. They'll tell every guy that walks in he's the hottest thing they've come across all day............it's all game.

 

[rudeboyja]

bro i worked in a strip club for over a year. these girls have low self esteam and usually have drug problems. they like to use men to get more money, they are always looking for a sugar daddy. most of them have one and then you on the side. DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO THEM, they will rip your heart out. i dated one going against my better judgement and she broke up with me because i didnt like the fact she did coke. believe me bro its a world of heartache and games. not to mention a lot of them have kids and no babies daddy. just be careful bro, keep your guard up and again do not get attached. treat them like you dont care and dont be a pussy they hate that. they like to be treated like shit because its all they know. i for one can never treat a woman like shit no matter who she is i just dont talk to the shitty ones. good luck

Yep and you forgot to mention most also prefer women now.

Truthfully they're porn stars that haven't got in porn yet.. or worse, but i'll leave that alone

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Then bring it to PMs, you fat bitch.

if i did that, itd get lost amongst the nekkid pics QT sends

Sounds like you've already answered your own question.

Cheers,
Scotsman

i have a theory. that guy has the answer lol

he just wanted validation because hes completely head over heals for the stripper.....

dude, seriously, no. its not like that. shes my second favorite fuck buddy, thats it. id just really like to keep her around, and also, learn how to do this right so that if i DID manage to fuck it up, i can replace her and keep doing it properly

treat her as you would any other respectable woman.........that's what they want. Yes, doormats get rolled.............so you can't be a complete wuss with them or they'll figure you for a mark. But also don't treat them like their whores, which some of them are............but alot of them aren't. Alot of em make enough money stripping and giving lap dances. I was a manager at a club.........and some of these girls make in one year what a engineer makes in 2-3 years. So why whore when you're making that kind of money? Don't let the lap dances bother you either........they're just hustling. They'll tell every guy that walks in he's the hottest thing they've come across all day............it's all game.

thanks. but im not sure of how to do that cos i wouldnt really treat what is traditionally considered a "Respectable woman" the way i treat any of my girlfriends. ive been programmed to think that what im doing is wrong - hence asking advice from someone whos seen it all

oh and she isnt a club stripper. she gets down to lingerie at private parties outside of clubs (and no one say "omg youre in denial" or some similar shit as if i actually give a toss - she can whore for all i care - but one of my good buddies who is another pickup guy gave me the lowdown on her in the first 30 seconds. it went like: "shes new to stripping but has known the girls for a long time, she was a high end fashion and magazine model for years, you cant treat her like a regular stripper it wont work, no ones been able to get her yet"

so yah.

at this rate im going to myspace slat this sucks