Sisterinlaw. Bullshit!

[Daisy_]

1st of all we live in the same town and she hasnt even come to see our new place, nor has she called.
2nd she is having a birthday part for my hubbys brother and she hasnt called to invite us, but has invited everyone of our friends.
She is just a rude bitch and it bothers me so much and I dont know how to make it not bother me.
End of rant.
Thanks.

 

[chesty]

ignore her.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

that sux

 

[EnderJE]

Wait...wait...I think I've seen porn episodes start off this way...

<gets popcorn>

 

[awittyusername]

Chicks are like this. She is probably to jealous to come see your nice house. And, your ass is probably smaller than her's, and she doesn't want you to steal her thunder.

 

[EnderJE]

Call her up and start off the conversation with "What's up, fatass?" You've got nothing to lose.

 

[Daisy_]

yeah I know I should ignor her but it is really hard. I guess I will have to learn to deal with it...

 

[Daisy_]

Call her up and start off the conversation with "What's up, fatass?" You've got nothing to lose.

Haha Holy crap that would be hallarious. But she would start so much crap up with the family.. I have already called on her once for sayin shit behind my back and that started this family fued. She was emailing me crap saying I had to apologize to her and when I didnt, she emailed me again, saying
"taking the first step"
She is Crazy I tell you

 

[Daisy_]

Chicks are like this. She is probably to jealous to come see your nice house. And, your ass is probably smaller than her's, and she doesn't want you to steal her thunder.

My ass is totally smaller then hers...
LOVES IT~

 

[awittyusername]

Haha Holy crap that would be hallarious. But she would start so much crap up with the family.. I have already called on her once for sayin shit behind my back and that started this family fued. She was emailing me crap saying I had to apologize to her and when I didnt, she emailed me again, saying
"taking the first step"
She is Crazy I tell you

Rule number 1. It doesn't matter if its your sister-in-law, friend, girlfriend, etc......All bitches are Crazy!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[BUBBLES]

Ignore her...

 

[Daisy_]

Ignore her...

its so hard/

 

[EnderJE]

Then ditch the family. After all, it is the family - in - law. If they love your hubby, they'll stick around.

 

[BUBBLES]

its so hard/

try to eliminate her out of your life as much as you can and do not tell her anything about yourself, she is probably jealous

one day she will come to you for help............

 

[Daisy_]

try to eliminate her out of your life as much as you can and do not tell her anything about yourself, she is probably jealous

one day she will come to you for help............

I was thinking about going out tomorrow night and she just might be there, so do you think maybe I shouldnt do that? I want to look all hot and stuff. Give her something to be jealous about!

 

[BrothaBill]

I was thinking about going out tomorrow night and she just might be there, so do you think maybe I shouldnt do that? I want to look all hot and stuff. Give her something to be jealous about!

WHy not just be an adult and try to mend fences no matter how it feels, dont be reactionary and dont treat your sister like a junior high classmate that said some gossip about you. No wonder you two dont get along with this nonsense youre talking about. If you learn how to communicate effectively with her you could gain a valuable relationship back with her. I mean cmon, you call her a bitch and want to make her jealous sounds uberjuvenile, really, what does that gain you

 

[BUBBLES]

I was thinking about going out tomorrow night and she just might be there, so do you think maybe I shouldnt do that? I want to look all hot and stuff. Give her something to be jealous about!

Yes, do it. You and your man should look your best and do not say one wrong word to her be friendly, look happy and enjoy yourself tomorrow night. hah

 

[Daisy_]

WHy not just be an adult and try to mend fences no matter how it feels, dont be reactionary and dont treat your sister like a junior high classmate that said some gossip about you. No wonder you two dont get along with this nonsense youre talking about. If you learn how to communicate effectively with her you could gain a valuable relationship back with her. I mean cmon, you call her a bitch and want to make her jealous sounds uberjuvenile, really, what does that gain you

WOAH!... I have never ever said anything mean to her. EVER! Someone told me that she said something totally false about me and I Called her on it, not being rude or anything. I never apologized because I had nothing to apologize for. Get it???
I am not being uberjuvenille what so ever. Me calling her a bitch is an understatement the way that she treats me. And me going out and looking hot, fuck yeah why not. It might not gain me anything but a night out having fun.. sounds legit to me. So I dont get how I am being uberjuvenille?

 

[BUBBLES]

WOAH!... I have never ever said anything mean to her. EVER! Someone told me that she said something totally false about me and I Called her on it, not being rude or anything. I never apologized because I had nothing to apologize for. Get it???
I am not being uberjuvenille what so ever. Me calling her a bitch is an understatement the way that she treats me. And me going out and looking hot, fuck yeah why not. It might not gain me anything but a night out having fun.. sounds legit to me. So I dont get how I am being uberjuvenille?

Daisy, you are definately not unberjuvenille and I know where you are coming from that is why I say go out tomorrow night look your best and have fun just don't fight with her. Your sister in law not inviting you over yet she invited your friends around is just rude and inconsiderate.

How old is she?

 

[Daisy_]

WOAH!... I have never ever said anything mean to her. EVER! Someone told me that she said something totally false about me and I Called her on it, not being rude or anything. I never apologized because I had nothing to apologize for. Get it???
I am not being uberjuvenille what so ever. Me calling her a bitch is an understatement the way that she treats me. And me going out and looking hot, fuck yeah why not. It might not gain me anything but a night out having fun.. sounds legit to me. So I dont get how I am being uberjuvenille?

Oh yeah and like seriously I would try and I have, After we had that little spat or whatever you want to call it, she invited me to one of her grammas attick parties or something, and when I left she told everyone she had no idea why I would come and that I wasnt even invited. So trust me brotha its not me playing the junior high crap.

 

[BrothaBill]

I would think that having a good relationship with your sis would be something of value to you, I guess I was assuming too much, you dont have to respond to things and just perpetuate the bad feelings. Most adults learn to accept that people have bad moments and just forgive and forget them and move on, its much happier path ultimately
Going out and having fun, have at it, but you said that you were going to do it to make her jealous, how is that not juvenile

 

[Daisy_]

Yes, do it. You and your man should look your best and do not say one wrong word to her be friendly, look happy and enjoy yourself tomorrow night. hah

Yeah for sure. I would never say anything mean to her. Just like you say. Be nice andenjoy myself, and if I do go out, That is what I am totally going to do.
Love ya Hera

 

[Daisy_]

Daisy, you are definately not unberjuvenille and I know where you are coming from that is why I say go out tomorrow night look your best and have fun just don't fight with her. Your sister in law not inviting you over yet she invited your friends around is just rude and inconsiderate.

How old is she?

She is 30 or 31
I am 23. Not that age matters that I am younger, but yeah she is in her 30's anyways.

 

[Daisy_]

I would think that having a good relationship with your sis would be something of value to you, I guess I was assuming too much, you dont have to respond to things and just perpetuate the bad feelings. Most adults learn to accept that people have bad moments and just forgive and forget them and move on, its much happier path ultimately
Going out and having fun, have at it, but you said that you were going to do it to make her jealous, how is that not juvenile

For sure. I wish that we could have a good relationship and that would be of value to me. She hates me tho. So I dont know how that relationship would ever come about. I have tried and it just back fires in my face.
KAy I didnt mean totally that I wanted to go out just to make her jealous, That would be pointless I am going out to have fun too. I dont understand where the juvenille comes to play

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

so this is how women think

 

[Daisy_]

Dang, I never should have posted this thread. It is giving me a headache trying to explain everything. Oh well anyways. We dont get along it sucks and it bothers me. I have tried nothing works it just always spits up in my face. End of story thanks for cheering me on hera love ya for it.

 

[awittyusername]

so this is how women think

lol

My head would explode if I had to figure out how to dress up and act so another guy would be jealous of how sex I looked.

 

[Daisy_]

lol

My head would explode if I had to figure out how to dress up and act so another guy would be jealous of how sex I looked.

another guy? just kidding I know what you meant. YOu should see what us girls go through to look good for our man.

 

[BUBBLES]

Dang, I never should have posted this thread. It is giving me a headache trying to explain everything. Oh well anyways. We dont get along it sucks and it bothers me. I have tried nothing works it just always spits up in my face. End of story thanks for cheering me on hera love ya for it.

Daisy, from your story I think she should make an effort to help you out integrate with the family a little more instead of making things difficult which if you are not strong enough it may impact your relationship with your husband.

Make sure you don't take the problem between you and your sisterinlaw out on him!!!!!!

 

[BrothaBill]

For sure. I wish that we could have a good relationship and that would be of value to me. She hates me tho. So I dont know how that relationship would ever come about. I have tried and it just back fires in my face.
KAy I didnt mean totally that I wanted to go out just to make her jealous, That would be pointless I am going out to have fun too. I dont understand where the juvenille comes to play

LOL, Im just giving you a hard time haha, I dont get along with one of my sisters either and havent talked to her in a few years. I dont dislike her but its like a total stranger now that I have nothing in common with

Youlll learn that I post BS 90% of the time, just ask Hera

 

[Daisy_]

Daisy, from your story I think she should make an effort to help you out integrate with the family a little more instead of making things difficult which if you are not strong enough it may impact your relationship with your husband.

Make sure you don't take the problem between you and your sisterinlaw out on him!!!!!!

Heck no I would never take it out on my babe. He feels pretty much the same way as I do. It is my honey's brothers wife. They have been married much longer then me and my hubby. I think maybe me coming into the family may have bothered her. It is just my husband and his brother so she was the only "daughter in law" so i dont know? maybe thats why. Whoknows I guess. I just hope that maybe one day I will grow on her and he wont totally hate me. She once told me we will only have something in common when I have children. She doesnt even know me.
I really have to quite letting this bother me tho. Its getting retarded. I justhave to relax

 

[Daisy_]

LOL, Im just giving you a hard time haha, I dont get along with one of my sisters either and havent talked to her in a few years. I dont dislike her but its like a total stranger now that I have nothing in common with

Youlll learn that I post BS 90% of the time, just ask Hera

Ok, I thought you were hating on me too.