I'm not saying that at all. It sucks to be pushed out by someone who isn't as qualified as you, there's no doubt about that. But, you have to understand that these private schools survive on private monies, and they can't be blamed for doing what they can to stay in business. These legacies actually pay tuition, and they usually continue to give to the school after graduation.As a private organization, they should be allowed to make this choice.
Conversely, public schools don't get any benefit from being forced to admit underqualified candidates (except more diversity), yet they are forced to do so by law. These candidates usually don't pay tuition, and usually still bitch about the conditions once they have been allowed admission. In this situation, I would be more angry for being passed over.
They're both shitty, it's just that one I can understand, the other I cannot.