kidvilla
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i think that the comment that Ylifter may be ambiguous leading to misinterpretation, and maybe clarified might mean
" the girl might be more attracted initially to the tall guy, but if he has flaws in his personality, his height will cease to be an advantage. this would conversely mean that height gets you in the door, but doesn't guarantee you a seat"
as for the attention, yes, i too have learned that height definitely is a factor in attraction and all things being the same, a man who is 5-7 (like me) and if for some reason, he had an exact twin (in every factor but height), who is 6-1, and the only difference is height (i know this is physically impossible, but valid for the sake of argument), and they are the same in every other way including personality-wise, the taller brother would get more women, more attention, and more votes were he to run for president (check the heights of the presidents and the ones they lost to) ..... it seems a sad thing to judge people by their height, but sadly so, i myself have been told by "well meaning" women that if i were a little taller, they would be all over me (trust me, i dismissed them as soon as i heard that, but it's still hard to believe that people like that can put so much emphasis on such a minor attribute).
This is not to mean that some very well thinking and reasoning women don't dismiss height as a pre-requisite for attractiveness, but just like men look at boobs and their size .... so do women look at men and their height ....
" the girl might be more attracted initially to the tall guy, but if he has flaws in his personality, his height will cease to be an advantage. this would conversely mean that height gets you in the door, but doesn't guarantee you a seat"
as for the attention, yes, i too have learned that height definitely is a factor in attraction and all things being the same, a man who is 5-7 (like me) and if for some reason, he had an exact twin (in every factor but height), who is 6-1, and the only difference is height (i know this is physically impossible, but valid for the sake of argument), and they are the same in every other way including personality-wise, the taller brother would get more women, more attention, and more votes were he to run for president (check the heights of the presidents and the ones they lost to) ..... it seems a sad thing to judge people by their height, but sadly so, i myself have been told by "well meaning" women that if i were a little taller, they would be all over me (trust me, i dismissed them as soon as i heard that, but it's still hard to believe that people like that can put so much emphasis on such a minor attribute).
This is not to mean that some very well thinking and reasoning women don't dismiss height as a pre-requisite for attractiveness, but just like men look at boobs and their size .... so do women look at men and their height ....