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SHE IS MAKEING ME CRAZY...help

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ok so my ex sends me a card tday...and an email...and now its like a wound all over again.

the card is a boat out to sea with a dock in the background

she writes...

I went to the Met M of Art on Sunday. And I saw this painting. It reminded me of my crazy life. The ship getting lost at sea. Never finding where it truely belongs. Just getting washed away by the rain and becoming part of the sea. Will it ever make it back to the docks were it belongs, or does it even belong there. Where will it end up. The future in nothing but a blur.

then emails me...

hey,
its good to hear that your meeting new people , getting involved in school, and doing well in school. i'm happy for you kevin, i know that you will be a great sucess in life. you have everything going for you now. i hope that our relationship taught you more about life and helped some how with your past. because that is what it did for me. you will always be the person i call if i'm in the hospital, for you are the only person that i know truly loved and cared about me. i mailed you something. check your mailbox soon.

what the f........... :mad: im so hurt these days
 
This is exactly why I've been single for so long. Too much bullshit out there.

Sorry to hear about your problems dude.
 
What a cunt! Return her cards and block her email address. She is only trying to rub it in and mess with your head! Bang her mom and go on the Jerry Springer show and give her a little pay back!
 
I've been down this road.......several times. Can't say I like where it leads. It is pretty presumptuous of her to assume that you're the one she can always call. It is her way of keeping you in the wings. In case of emergency, break glass to get Kevin. If she ever finds herself alone, she can always jerk your leash.

My advice (which costs nothing, so that's exactly what it is worth), is to cut all ties NOW. No calls, cards, letters, meetings....nothing. It is a hard thing to do, but it must be done.
 
Bro,

Control+Alt+Delete this girl. It is for the good of your mental health. Don't let this girl screw with you like she is doing.
Go here www.askmen.com and look up 'ex-girlfriends' in the search.

Be strong. if you met one beautiful woman, that should give you confidence to meet many more. 'member, you are still young.

Peace
 
do yourself a favour before you drive yourself insane and stop reading her emails or mail. She's clearly got issues to deal with and for some reason she wants to drag you down with her. Don't let her ruin your life just because she can, try and distance yourself and keep busy, pretty soon a few months will have passed and you'll have moved on and forgoten about her.
 
Come on bro, we've talked. You know you've gotta cut this girl loose.

Listen, you HAVE to accept that things will NOT get better, as painful as it is, things WON'T be as they were.

You're only torturing yourself, email her and ask her to please stop contacting you, it'll show you have balls, and make you feel a bit better.

Move on brother.
 
Just ignore em and get on with it.

Then they either want you more so you can rub it in or if they are someone you truly want well you know the rest.

There are 6 billion people o this earth so there is a few "the one's" out there for you.

And dont think I am talking out of my ass either. There is this one girl I can't have but am very much in love with but c'est la vie.

We are good friends so that's ok, we were friends before. Funny thing is I seem to stay friends with the past few I have been with or wanted to be with. Just takes time to get over the bullshit and mature out.
 
Frackal said:
Come on bro, we've talked. You know you've gotta cut this girl loose.

Listen, you HAVE to accept that things will NOT get better, as painful as it is, things WON'T be as they were.

You're only torturing yourself, email her and ask her to please stop contacting you, it'll show you have balls, and make you feel a bit better.

Move on brother.
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yup. i did the same thing today. i think that the chemicals of love (phenylethylamine, oxytocin) are similiar to the chemical dopamine, and has the same effects as amphetamine.

so what is this? meth withdrawl? i'm serious. i read in a book that phenylethylamine is the chemical of love, and that it is similiar to dopamine & amphetamine. so i assume this is a form of amphetamine withdrawl, what oak & i are going through. so what can be done about it?

you're smart frackal. you figure it out. i have to go to bed.

http://www.oxytocin.org/

http://www.cyberparent.com/love/chem1.htm
 
Bro:

I have experience with meth from a few years back.

I will say that I've never gotten as depressed from meth as I have from a broken heart.

But your point is interesting. You are right about the literal chemical addiction that comes from love.

If it's similiar to dopamine/epinepherine, I would try taking some ephedrine to let yourself come off slowly. Sounds strange huh? It helped me out...I've got to go do some stuff now, talk about this more tomorrow.
 
Frackal knows better? RIGHT! IF it makes you feel better to say that then it's ok. If you only knew..sorry babe, but for God's sake already.
Anyway, she said she would call you if she was in the hospital :rolleyes: so just have someone kick the shit out of her and there ya go, instant contact again. The guys who tell you to forget about her (one particular guy comes to my mind) hardly take their own advice. Giving correct guidance on a one sided story is impossible.
 
that would drive me nuts too...i hate when girls do that kind of shit, it messes with your head and you will not be able to stop thinking about it...fucking girls...


peace
and gl
 
we are girls, we do things like this because we don't know what we want then we start thinking about what we had and we wnat it back, but we still aren't sure if that is right for us. ask puc about his view on women
 
HighIntensity said:
ok so my ex sends me a card tday...and an email...and now its like a wound all over again.

the card is a boat out to sea with a dock in the background

she writes...

I went to the Met M of Art on Sunday. And I saw this painting. It reminded me of my crazy life. The ship getting lost at sea. Never finding where it truely belongs. Just getting washed away by the rain and becoming part of the sea. Will it ever make it back to the docks were it belongs, or does it even belong there. Where will it end up. The future in nothing but a blur.

then emails me...

hey,
its good to hear that your meeting new people , getting involved in school, and doing well in school. i'm happy for you kevin, i know that you will be a great sucess in life. you have everything going for you now. i hope that our relationship taught you more about life and helped some how with your past. because that is what it did for me. you will always be the person i call if i'm in the hospital, for you are the only person that i know truly loved and cared about me. i mailed you something. check your mailbox soon.

what the f........... :mad: im so hurt these days
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Bro i know how you feel,my ex still is fucking me up,for example i was out with some friends last nite and they brought some girls i didnt know well after we did the hayride thing we went back to another friends house and were playing pool and what not,well they were all talkin to me getting me to flex and shit and i mean these girls were hott and usually the type i go for but i wasnt really interested,i did get there numbers but only cuz they offered i didnt ask cuz i wasnt interested,its fucking me up still hanging on to my ex,i guess it will take time,keep ur head up and ignore her bro
 
daised said:
*we are girls, we do things like this because we don't know what we want then we start thinking about what we had and we wnat it back, but we still aren't sure if that is right for us.*
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Go fuck yourself. j/k


Babe, you don't know the whole situation with this guy. I've spoken to him privately, and if I remember correctly, his girl was fucking a new man 3 days after they broke up. I don't care about 2 sides to the story if that's true, that bitch needs to go.
 
PS- Frackal DOES know better. You know if what you-know-who had told me had really been true, what would have happened. This girl is fucking with him, and she needs to be cut loose.
 
Frackal said:
PS- Frackal DOES know better. You know if what you-know-who had told me had really been true, what would have happened. This girl is fucking with him, and she needs to be cut loose.
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your right i didn't know the whole situation. i thought it was just a girl who couldn't make up her mind. i am sorry for what highintensity is going through. not all girls are mean like this, i apoligoize for her, since she is a member of my sex.
 
Frackal said:
Bro:


If it's similiar to dopamine/epinepherine, I would try taking some ephedrine to let yourself come off slowly. Sounds strange huh? It helped me out...I've got to go do some stuff now, talk about this more tomorrow.
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weird shit. i took 30 mg pseudoephedrine HCL, and that helped. normally all pseudo does is fuck my mind. now it helped stop obsessive thoughts & feelings of attachment (to a degree).

you reading this oak? why don't you try ephedrine/pseudoephedrine. i seems to work for us. give your experiences. we may be onto something.
 
nordstrom said:



weird shit. i took 30 mg pseudoephedrine HCL, and that helped. normally all pseudo does is fuck my mind. now it helped stop obsessive thoughts & feelings of attachment (to a degree).

you reading this oak? why don't you try ephedrine/pseudoephedrine. i seems to work for us. give your experiences. we may be onto something.
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ephedrine is not legal in canada,i just think i gotta keep busier and ill eventually forget her,its even worse that i work with her so i have to see her

and something i learned Womens minds change like the weather
 
Oak, you can buy ephedrine at 3 different stores just in this rats ass of a city
 
Oak, Ephedra is where ephedrine comes from. ephedrine is legal but not as a diet drug. Like being able to buy plain aspirin, but not Tylenol as a headache remedy. I was just told GNC carries it as a "supplement". Do your research. Overuse is linked to some deaths.

HighIntensity, from the card and email it sounds like she's knows you still have concern and feelings for her, and is using it to maintain a link and control over you. Spend a minute to consider how fucked up that is, using the good in you as evil against you.

We've all been there so don't feel special :freak: , and you guys are at least as tough as anyone else, right? so you'll get past it too. Don't ignore the hurt, but it will end. and do NOT be the friggin backup or a sob sister, you'll lose your own self respect. If she expects YOU of all people to help her through this "difficult time" let her know your hands are full dealing with your own shit.
 
IF SHE WAS FUCKING A NEW MAN 3 DAYS AFTER YALL BROKE UP, WHY WOULD YOU WANT HER ANYMORE??? I COULDNT BRING MYSELF TO BE WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT. I COULDNT BE AROUND HER. I WOULD BE HURT FOR A WHILE DEPENDING ON HOW MUCH I CARED FOR HER BUT THAT WOULD BE TEMPORARY.

KAYNE
 
she was not fucking a new guy, she starting him...a week later
 
ONE WHOLE WEEK...............AND HOW LONG DID YALL DATE??? IF SHE STARTED SEEING A NEW MAN ONE WEEK LATER, SHE OBVIOUSLY DIDNT CARE TOO MUCH!!! LET HER GO!!!


KAYNE
 
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