no, I'm way more simple than that. I can not want to be anywhere near someone and still admit their good qualities.
Like my ex is not a good lookin dude...and he's relatively immature but he's good natured if not entirely sane...he's also kind to animals an excellent carpenter and someone you can call to lend a hand in a pinch... I just can't stand to be in the same room as him for more than a cpl of hours (he divorced me to be fair).
yeah I pussed out...we did the therapy thing for a short...
then we didn't and I took good advice to heart, stuck it out.How do you not give shit another shot when your entire life is entertwined with theirs and you have children? Things have been markedly better...it's still a work in progress.