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Serious question for the guys.........

alexiarenee

alexiarenee

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Say you had a freind who had (who you thought) was a really hot girlfreind. You didn't just think she was hot-- you really wanted to talk to her.
You and this guy freind of yours aren't exactly good freinds, just hang out every so often and talk here and there......
Say she seems interested in you, too........
Would you go along and talk to her/ go out with her?
 
well good friends or not good friends, i think its all a respect issue, if he respects the friend he shouldn't go along and ask the girl out,etc....
 
I am in this situation and don't know what to do..
I NEVER like any men.........never interested in anyone else but my b/f...then WTF happens when we all go out of town to New Orleans...
This is crazy...............
I have met his freind 2 times before.just really quick though....
This weekend his freinds met us up at Mardi Gras and stayed at the same hotel so we could all chill........
I noticed his freind checking me out...nothing else.....
Then, my b/f and another freind go down to the lobby to people watch, leaving me, that guy, that guy's brother, and my girlfreind in the room.
This song came on and I wondered who it was and he said
"Nine inch nails..like that song 'i wanna fuck you like an animal'" and playfully kicked me in the leg as he said that! We were all wiggin so I didnt know what to think..just blushed and put my head in my lap and that was that...
The rest of the night he would sit really close to me and every time we made eye contact it was like that "I want to talk to you but I can't " look...........
I just thought it was weird....
But by the end of the night (or morning) I found myself wanting to talk to him more.
At about 9:45 am I hear knocking at our door. No one answers so I get up and it was him. Him and his bro were leaving and I had left my keys in his room so he was dropping them off......
I told him bye and be safe and once again there was that look......
I thought about him the whole drive home!! And the next day.....
I knew he wanted to talk to me......

I ended up calling him Monday since I knew he had no way of getting a hold of me.....
I got his # from my b/f......I said my freind liked his weed and wanted to buy some...anyway........
We are all supposed to go out tomorrow. me, him, his bro and my freind who think each other are cute..........
I don't want anyone to think that I cheat or that I am a bitch or whatever. I swear I never even think about other guys...that's why I am so shocked that I feel this way about him...I don't know what to do............
 
What you describe in your first post is a violation of Bro Rule #1 ... No matter how naked she is or how far her hands are in your pants or how fucked up you are or all of the above, you DON"T do it.
 
I NEVER REALLY LIKED YOU AND THIS AFFIRMS IT

I hope you cheat on your bf and then he finds out and beats the crap out of the guy so will never think about fucking with another friend's gf.





BTW, DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY :D



DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR.
 
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alexiarenee,


Apparently, there are some new feelings cropping up. There's nothing wrong with that--it's human. I hate cheaters but I don't mind honest people. Take some time to see if it's really worth it to pursue this any further but please, o please don't do it behind your boyfriends back.

If he's been faithful to you, you owe him the simple favor of telling him you need time apart to see other people. Date the guy and see if sparks fly...If not, then see if your boy will date you again. Remember, it is a risk but if you find your heart really wandering, its' best you find out now.

No one wants to be with someone that doesn't want to be them. Just be honest with yourself and him. If you don't, you'll either wind up resenting your boy or cheating on him. However, decide if this is more than an infatuation and worth losing your boyfriend.
 
:(
This is really eating me......
I feel horrible for thinking about it...
It's just gets me so much because this never happens......ever.
I can't stop thinkinng about this guy........

My b/f probably would beat the crap out of me.....
Funny thing is, towards the beginning of the night- after he already hit on me but I hadnt yet figured I felt the same way- I asked my b/f what he thought about one of the guys hitting on me.
He said he didnt care as long as they weren't trying to steer me away from him.........
 
Boach said:
alexiarenee,


Apparently, there are some new feelings cropping up. There's nothing wrong with that--it's human. I hate cheaters but I don't mind honest people. Take some time to see if it's really worth it to pursue this any further but please, o please don't do it behind your boyfriends back.

If he's been faithful to you, you owe him the simple favor of telling him you need time apart to see other people. Date the guy and see if sparks fly...If not, then see if your boy will date you again. Remember, it is a risk but if you find your heart really wandering, its' best you find out now.

No one wants to be with someone that doesn't want to be them. Just be honest with yourself and him. If you don't, you'll either wind up resenting your boy or cheating on him. However, decide if this is more than an infatuation and worth losing your boyfriend.
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:)
You are right........
I love my b/f. But I am not attracted to him, nor am I in love with him..
I ve been with him for so long I think it's more of a routine/comfort issue...I'm soo used to him........
 
alexiarenee said:

:)
You are right........
I love my b/f. But I am not attracted to him, nor am I in love with him..
I ve been with him for so long I think it's more of a routine/comfort issue...I'm soo used to him........
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I'm in the same situation....however, it was the fact that she cheated on me and I took her back, that made me fall out of love with her...now I think i'm just staying cuz i'm comfortable and it's just easier not to look for someone else. I feel like garbage though since it isn't fair for her.

If I were to find a good girl to take out--someone who truly caught my attention like this guy seems to have caught yours, I'd jump on it. However, I'd do the right thing and let the current Signifigant other know where they stand. The truth sucks...but it's a hell of a lot better than deceit.
 
It's a scary prospect to have someone in your life for so many years (4 for me) and then suddenly not have them anymore, even though you may not have the original strong feelings or attraction. It's the familiarity and comfort that is so hard to let go of...
 
Boach said:
It's a scary prospect to have someone in your life for so many years (4 for me) and then suddenly not have them anymore, even though you may not have the original strong feelings or attraction. It's the familiarity and comfort that is so hard to let go of...
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This is exactly my situation...4 years..and we have a daughter together........
 
alexiarenee said:

This is exactly my situation...4 years..and we have a daughter together........
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Ultimately, you have to do what's best for you...and your child. And since what's best for you is what's best for your child, you should move on. Don't let your current boy stop being a part of your life, though. He deserves to be with his daughter.

Luckily, I was always on to Mell's evil plan to have me fertilize her demon eggs!
 
Boach:: Thanks for your advice.
The whole breakup thing is scary....
I know that if I do do something with this other guy I will feel so guilty.........
 
huntmaster said:


from what I got from it-----this is what he is doing--yes?
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Well his words were something like :
"as long as they weren't like 'forget him'".or something like that..
Kinda saying he wouldn't blame them for hitting on me or finding me attractive, but he wouldnt want them to talk about him.......:confused:
 
Sometimes you meet someone at the most unexpected times and the draw is so strong you don't know what to do. If your curiousity has gotten the best of you, it sounds like it's time to "take a break" and figure it out.

This happened to me once only, but I believe I truly found a great guy. The guilt would kill ya. Believe me, it's hard to let go of something you are so comfortable with, but it's more empowering to know you did it, and are better off in the long run. No pain, no gain.

Good luck:)
 
Why is this so god damned hard?

You break up with someone before you start something new.

If you want to start something new then that is when you have to look at the situation you're in and realize that its close to over. Nobody ever said relationships were always wonderfull, except hollywood and we know thats all fucked up. 100/100 thats the formula for a good relationship. If one gives 95% then its not going to last.

I say break up with your boyfriend go fuck the shit out of this loser who screws over his friends, find out in a few weeks/months that he doesnt have any respect for anyone and never will then you can think about how "good" your ex really was and maybe start bothering the shit out of him because you never learned how to make the hard desicions. Or... you could think long and hard about what it is that you want out of a relationship then proceed to communicate openly with your b/f and see where that goes. If it goes nowhere then go out and live the life that you want.



##spiderbaby##
 
There are a enough women in the world....hot ones too, who are single, and not with guys I know that I don't need to mess around with that kinda situation.


It always ends bad
 
Your the kinda girl who doesnt look at anyone but your man right? if so then thats the problem,subconciously you get bored and when you see someone who makes you feel like your so did when you first met you are instantly attracted and want them

am i right?
 
alexiarenee said:
Say you had a freind who had (who you thought) was a really hot girlfreind. You didn't just think she was hot-- you really wanted to talk to her.
You and this guy freind of yours aren't exactly good freinds, just hang out every so often and talk here and there......
Say she seems interested in you, too........
Would you go along and talk to her/ go out with her?
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"i" before "e" unless after "c" or when followed by "a" as in "neighbor" or "way".
 
I'm doing well...I stand a decent shot at making Specialist by the time I leave AIT....I'll be heading to Airborne school after that...I have to schedule a meeting with the Ranger Recruiter here on base but it shouldn't be a problem since the Brigade Commander was all for it.

I might try and become an NCO then go back to college after my 4 years and re-enter as an officer once I finish my degree...but Everything is up in the air right now
 
Miss alexiarenee,

Do the job.

Sever all ties ('cept your daughter I guess) with your man and go for it. Life is too short for uncertainty.

As a side note, deception would mix with mayhem nicely in this situation. You could find out if the new guy has any sexual skills, and if not, you can snap his head around backwards and claim domestic abuse. Then your old man might take you back out of pity and/or desperation.

Sing any Whitesnake song all throughout.
 
alexiarenee said:
:(
<snip>
My b/f probably would beat the crap out of me.....
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Regardless of what a cunt any man should think any woman, violence should never enter the picture. Period.

If he's that kind of guy you should have ditched the cocksucker long ago.
 
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