Nautica - just a thought
Let me get this straight....
You initially kept your gear at your buddies house so your wife wouldn't find out about it. Long story short... your buddy gets popped, sings and you get screwed.
Your wife STILL finds out about it and you get fucked by the justice system.
Do you realize this would not have happened if you were honest to your wife from the very beginning? Sorry, don't mean to be harsh but how can you lie and keep secrets from your partner?
What is your relationship with your wife like now?
Let me get this straight....
You initially kept your gear at your buddies house so your wife wouldn't find out about it. Long story short... your buddy gets popped, sings and you get screwed.
Your wife STILL finds out about it and you get fucked by the justice system.
Do you realize this would not have happened if you were honest to your wife from the very beginning? Sorry, don't mean to be harsh but how can you lie and keep secrets from your partner?
What is your relationship with your wife like now?