Screw Me! Girlfriend says, "NO MORE!"

[busdriver1]

I have been dating this girl for about a year. She knew about my steroid use from the beginning. She just kinda ignored it and learned to put up with it I guess. Now she tells me that if I do another cycle she will leave me. She says she is tired of the mood swings, the agression, the depression that i get when I come off, she is even tired of me wanting to screw all the time while on(she feels like that is all i want to do while i am on), I dont know what to do. I want to do a few more cycles, there is no way I can stop now. There is also no way I can hide being on from her. Damn I really like this girl and would like to keep her. i dont know what the hell i am going to do! Hell , thats one of the reasons i began to like her so much, because she didnt seem to have a problem with my use. I guess there is only so much a girl can take.

 

[Andre9]

Hey, maybe you could use gear that causes less of the side effects you mentioned. The way you describe it, she's ok with the gear use, she's just fed up with the sides.

Andre

 

[alien amp pharm]

A girl is getting upset at mood-swings???? Ha ha ha, tell her that's payback for their constant mood-swings.

Are you sure the whole reason for her threatening to break up is entirely juice? Are you sure she's not just looking for a way out and using juice as a reason?

Trust me bro, I was in a relationship where my girlfriend was constantly trying to tell me what to do. This was with everything. I was constantly pissed and depressed. I could never break-up w/her because loved her too much. Well, long story short, she ended up breaking up w/me even after I tried changing everything for her.
Now I'm not saying your girl is like that, but one person shouldn't control another. It's your choice and she should be more understanding. Stop blaming yourself.

 

[finabomber]

i'm having the same problem bro, ya see i like her and i like the sauce but a relationship wont get you big so i lean toward the gear!!


FB

 

[liquidmuscle]

you may love her but i am willing to say that you love gear more due to you asking "what should i do?" do it anyways and when she leaves you and see you later w/a finer chik she will double think her decision

 

[alien amp pharm]

you may love her but i am willing to say that you love gear more due to you asking "what should i do?" do it anyways and when she leaves you and see you later w/a finer chik she will double think her decision

EXACTLY !

 

[Andre9]

What would Jesus do?

Andre

 

[ROLGOR]

This post will probably get me flammed off the board but I gotta say it. First a little bio. I'm 42 years old. probably to old to be cool or know what is really going on right? up until 15 years ago my motto was sex drugs and rock n roll. I drank like a fish and sold and used large amounts of cocaine. One of the things I have noticed since coming here is how a FEW of the people here sound more like drug addicts than athletes looking to improve themselves. weather it's beer, cola or roids they all have the ability to make us feel great. They also change our mood and perception of reality. There is one rule with substance abuse. If it starts fucking up your personal or professional life, You got a problem. I have friends in their 30's and 40's who are VERY sucessful and are raising familys. They still do a little cola, smoke some weed. in moderation. Busdriver, I won't presume to tell you how to handle this. A man choses his own path and follows it where it takes him and lives with his choices. I will point out a couple things. I don't hear you denying your girlfriends complaints.
I do hear you trying to decide if the woman you love means more to you than drugs. All I can say is like most things in life; You control it or it controls you. Good luck my friend.
Now there will probably be some here who don't like what I say. Go ahead and flame me but please do us both a favor. ask yourself why my words make you so angry. Denial is the beginning of destruction.

 

[alien amp pharm]

This post will probably get me flammed off the board but I gotta say it. ..........Now there will probably be some here who don't like what I say. Go ahead and flame me but please do us both a favor. ask yourself why my words make you so angry. Denial is the beginning of destruction.

Whoa, slow down there, you're being harder on yourself than people here would be.
I agree with what you said, however where do you draw the line between caring about what someone and controlling someone. I just know that I will never let someone control me again like I did in that one relationship. Now we don't actually know if Bisdriver1's girlfriend is trying to control him or is sincere about his roid usage, only he does.

One thing though, from the story, she knew he did juice before they started dating, so she should've said something then or should've stopped the relationship.

You are 100% right, ROLGOR, people can be successful and still use things such as drugs. It is very easy, however, to mess up and become addicted and destroy many lives over it.

 

[drveejay11]

Do what "feels right" bro! Listen to TYOURSELF! It's YOUR life!

Good luck and hope everything works out