Screw Me! Girlfriend says, "NO MORE!"

[busdriver1]

I have been dating this girl for about a year. She knew about my steroid use from the beginning. She just kinda ignored it and learned to put up with it I guess. Now she tells me that if I do another cycle she will leave me. She says she is tired of the mood swings, the agression, the depression that i get when I come off, she is even tired of me wanting to screw all the time while on(she feels like that is all i want to do while i am on), I dont know what to do. I want to do a few more cycles, there is no way I can stop now. There is also no way I can hide being on from her. Damn I really like this girl and would like to keep her. i dont know what the hell i am going to do! Hell , thats one of the reasons i began to like her so much, because she didnt seem to have a problem with my use. I guess there is only so much a girl can take.

 

[Andre9]

Hey, maybe you could use gear that causes less of the side effects you mentioned. The way you describe it, she's ok with the gear use, she's just fed up with the sides.

Andre

 

[alien amp pharm]

A girl is getting upset at mood-swings???? Ha ha ha, tell her that's payback for their constant mood-swings.

Are you sure the whole reason for her threatening to break up is entirely juice? Are you sure she's not just looking for a way out and using juice as a reason?

Trust me bro, I was in a relationship where my girlfriend was constantly trying to tell me what to do. This was with everything. I was constantly pissed and depressed. I could never break-up w/her because loved her too much. Well, long story short, she ended up breaking up w/me even after I tried changing everything for her.
Now I'm not saying your girl is like that, but one person shouldn't control another. It's your choice and she should be more understanding. Stop blaming yourself.

 

[finabomber]

i'm having the same problem bro, ya see i like her and i like the sauce but a relationship wont get you big so i lean toward the gear!!


FB

 

[liquidmuscle]

you may love her but i am willing to say that you love gear more due to you asking "what should i do?" do it anyways and when she leaves you and see you later w/a finer chik she will double think her decision

 

[alien amp pharm]

you may love her but i am willing to say that you love gear more due to you asking "what should i do?" do it anyways and when she leaves you and see you later w/a finer chik she will double think her decision

EXACTLY !

 

[Andre9]

What would Jesus do?

Andre

 

[ROLGOR]

This post will probably get me flammed off the board but I gotta say it. First a little bio. I'm 42 years old. probably to old to be cool or know what is really going on right? up until 15 years ago my motto was sex drugs and rock n roll. I drank like a fish and sold and used large amounts of cocaine. One of the things I have noticed since coming here is how a FEW of the people here sound more like drug addicts than athletes looking to improve themselves. weather it's beer, cola or roids they all have the ability to make us feel great. They also change our mood and perception of reality. There is one rule with substance abuse. If it starts fucking up your personal or professional life, You got a problem. I have friends in their 30's and 40's who are VERY sucessful and are raising familys. They still do a little cola, smoke some weed. in moderation. Busdriver, I won't presume to tell you how to handle this. A man choses his own path and follows it where it takes him and lives with his choices. I will point out a couple things. I don't hear you denying your girlfriends complaints.
I do hear you trying to decide if the woman you love means more to you than drugs. All I can say is like most things in life; You control it or it controls you. Good luck my friend.
Now there will probably be some here who don't like what I say. Go ahead and flame me but please do us both a favor. ask yourself why my words make you so angry. Denial is the beginning of destruction.

 

[alien amp pharm]

This post will probably get me flammed off the board but I gotta say it. ..........Now there will probably be some here who don't like what I say. Go ahead and flame me but please do us both a favor. ask yourself why my words make you so angry. Denial is the beginning of destruction.

Whoa, slow down there, you're being harder on yourself than people here would be.
I agree with what you said, however where do you draw the line between caring about what someone and controlling someone. I just know that I will never let someone control me again like I did in that one relationship. Now we don't actually know if Bisdriver1's girlfriend is trying to control him or is sincere about his roid usage, only he does.

One thing though, from the story, she knew he did juice before they started dating, so she should've said something then or should've stopped the relationship.

You are 100% right, ROLGOR, people can be successful and still use things such as drugs. It is very easy, however, to mess up and become addicted and destroy many lives over it.

 

[drveejay11]

Do what "feels right" bro! Listen to TYOURSELF! It's YOUR life!

Good luck and hope everything works out

 

[FatChops]

Did you help her pack her bags??? j/k my buddy has the same issue and he ain't goin' to stop. It's up to you, if you think she is worth then stop, just remember don't stop just because you don't want to loose her, do because you want to. Good luck

Chops

 

[kbrkbr]

Bro, a buddy of mine was given the same ultimatum by his gf. He admitted to having extreme mood swings, especially on tren and clomid, which made hiding his use impossible. His solution? Switch to var. No mood swings, no massive gain of weight, but mad strength gains which he easily kept post cycle. His HPTA was virtually uneffected on eight week cycles, so he used clomid only for a week post. And a tiny bottle of tabs is a lot easier to hide than vials, pins, etc. He just kept the var in aspirin bottles; onein his car, one at the office. Funny thing is, every time I visitited him at his office, I got a headache.

 

[PatBateman]

Get her juicing, then she'll be cool with it!

 

[sigweed]

in my opinion, there are 2 bottom line factors here

1. Do you love her enough to marry her? If so, quit the gear.

2. Are you a professional athlete? Do you rely on gear to earn your living? If not, quit the gear.

thats what I think.

 

[Silent Method]

I dont know what to do. I want to do a few more cycles, there is no way I can stop now.

Really? Why not? I think you need to think about that statment, then re-read ROLGOR's post.

 

[Digger Dan]

in my opinion, there are 2 bottom line factors here

1. Do you love her enough to marry her? If so, quit the gear.

2. Are you a professional athlete? Do you rely on gear to earn your living? If not, quit the gear.

thats what I think.

Well said!

 

[ROLGOR]

Alien. Thanks.
I know what you mean about relationships where someone wants to control you. I have been there. It's not about give and take. it's just about take. I won't be controled and I despise women who let me control them. BORING... I was not talking about just busdrivers girlfriend, your right we have no way of knowing about that. I was also talking about AS it self. Maybe control is the wrong word. I just feel that if a person finds somthing they can't walk away from under any circumstances they had better run. some things are worth killing for some, worth dieing for. Nothing is worth lost self respect. I'm not saying this well and busdriver is probably just saying." Dude what the fuck, I just asked for some advice" You have a good point. His girlfriend knew about it in the beginning. We can all change our minds after more experiance info ect. Woman in particular. If busdriver isn't planning on competing then maybe they can reach an agreement. one cycle a year or somthing. Or like someone else said. cycles that are not as intense so she does not know or the sides she complains about are minamised.

 

[busdriver1]

Well, I cant stop now because I am almost to where I want to be. i have dreamed of looking a certain way and I am almost there. i have done about 5 cycles and i am not ready to throw all that away. I cant get there doing little anavar cycles. My girlfriend has had the priveledge of being with me thru a couple of fina cycles. fina makes me very irritable and moody. I tried to explain to her that it is the only drug that makes me this way and that i wont do it any more. She will not agree. She thinks that I will act the same no matter what drug it is. She also worries about having kids with me and how it will affect them, birth defects, etc. i try to educate her and tell her that everything will be fine and that I will be clean if we are trying to have a kid. It is just hard to explain to her about steroid use becuase all she reads or hears about is the negative sides of it. I was honest with her about the fina causing my mood swings and temper, That stuff is awesome for gains but damn do I get mean on that shit. I should have never takin it and everything would probably be fine. I am fine on test, dbol and everything else.

 

[buffdawg10]

Screw that, don't change who you are for anybody, if it wouldn't be the juice it would be something else! If she cannot accept it then find somebody else who will accept you for who you are!

 

[beefybull]

in my opinion, there are 2 bottom line factors here

1. Do you love her enough to marry her? If so, quit the gear.

2. Are you a professional athlete? Do you rely on gear to earn your living? If not, quit the gear.

thats what I think.

EXACTLY.

 

[ontheedge]

Don't change for anyone. Get rid rid of her for a while and then get back with her. this time though tell her you quit juicin'. There are some things the old ladies just dont need to know. You shouldnt have told her to begin with. CELL TECH

 

[JayBro]

Just tell her " So I guess i can start seeing other people" and watch her change her tune.

 

[alien amp pharm]

in my opinion, there are 2 bottom line factors here

1. Do you love her enough to marry her? If so, quit the gear.

2. Are you a professional athlete? Do you rely on gear to earn your living? If not, quit the gear.

thats what I think.

Okay, I might get some heat from this but:

1. What does marrying her have to do with it? What if she wants him to cut his balls off, should he do this just because 'it's what she wants' It's obviously important to him. If he feels he can control it (that's the key) and is what HE wants to do then why stop?

2. Professional Athlete? -I don't understand. I juice because I like to look better, like the strength, and play sports such as softball (real popular around here). I am not a professional athlete, but I assure you I get the same benefit as a pro-athlete from juicing.

Again, no flame here. I know you expressed YOUR OPINION, I'm just giving mine.

 

[the_only_sepe]

you put up with her moodiness and irritability, why cant she put up with yours? she needs to accept you for who you are and what you do and what you stand for. She needs to realize that girls come a dime a dozen and there are 10 more waiting in line for u,and you are a gift to her.

 

[mlomker]

I think you should skip the fina and work on the other issues. Frequency of sex and mood swings are things that are under your control. Saying that you can't deal with those two would be a cop-out, imo.

Most relationship problems are due to a lack of communication and understanding. Focusing on the real problems would be better than worrying about the gear.

 

[Dantes]

I think what he is trying to get at is this: Is recreational steroid use more important than a potential life partner. Maybe the girl is the best thing that happened to him (I doubt it) and does he want to fuck it up just so he can "look good". It's all a matter of priorities I guess.

Okay, I might get some heat from this but:

1. What does marrying her have to do with it? What if she wants him to cut his balls off, should he do this just because 'it's what she wants' It's obviously important to him. If he feels he can control it (that's the key) and is what HE wants to do then why stop?

2. Professional Athlete? -I don't understand. I juice because I like to look better, like the strength, and play sports such as softball (real popular around here). I am not a professional athlete, but I assure you I get the same benefit as a pro-athlete from juicing.

Again, no flame here. I know you expressed YOUR OPINION, I'm just giving mine.

 

[MrDbol]

Take a fucken bitcher knife as sharp as a razor and cut her fucken head off. Put her head in a bag, and take it to a taxidermist. He will preserve the head so you can hang it on your wall. Everytime you miss her, you can look at her head on the wall.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Take a fucken bitcher knife as sharp as a razor and cut her fucken head off. Put her head in a bag, and take it to a taxidermist. He will preserve the head so you can hang it on your wall. Everytime you miss her, you can look at her head on the wall.

(psycho)

 

[swampmoose]

Yes!!! this is a good post. Fuck what every pussy says, cause t he only reason they bitch is cause you look so damn good. YOur woman does not want you to be a pussy entrepeneurer, so tell her to pack her shit up and go home or to ryan's steakhouse.hahahah. obviously you have some issues you need to straighten up with yourself. you dont need her you need some one like kim Chivesky( sp?) my women was wondering why i was naling her so hard and repititously that she new what i was doing.
As i pulled her hair she screamed " Ike" , then i knocked her out.

Take this as a lesson.\


Seriously, do what you want man!!

 

[TTORO]

A girl is getting upset at mood-swings???? Ha ha ha, tell her that's payback for their constant mood-swings.

Are you sure the whole reason for her threatening to break up is entirely juice? Are you sure she's not just looking for a way out and using juice as a reason?

2 very good points.

 

[Blue Steel]

Bro, Dont ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, let ANYTHING come between you and your goals. Trust me I let it happen to me women can blur your "vision" and make your priorities all twisted.

 

[The Almighty]

Tell her that only psychotic sluts set ultimatums and that she should be ashamed of herself and that you feel sorry for her parents.

If she doesnt kick you in the balls shes yours.

 

[bigpun]

Take a fucken bitcher knife as sharp as a razor and cut her fucken head off. Put her head in a bag, and take it to a taxidermist. He will preserve the head so you can hang it on your wall. Everytime you miss her, you can look at her head on the wall.

I like Mr. Dbol