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tigeress

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Helping your boyfriend get through the last 3 years of grad school while living with you for free -- when you can not afford it

Him inviting his X-girlfriend to the graduation “because she was there for me” but not invitin you until ---- you found out that he was going to his own graduation --by accident.

Him taking you to his X girlfriend house—without giving you a heads up where you were going

Having his friend’s thanking you for helping you through grad school—but no thanks from the person you helped.

Having to live of off credit cards—to help him through school

Now having to get a second mortgage on your house to pay for those bills you put on your credit card to help him get through grad school

Being made to feel ugly, like shit, and a dog from the person who is supposed to “love you”—while he compliments his clients on how good they look before competition time

Competing as a Bodybuilder several times—no compliments. 5”4” 150 pounds. 5% bodyfat

When your boyfriend spends all his spare time on this fuckin website answering training questions on the women’s board—but will not spend time with me—no time----

When he will not take you to the hospital for emergency surgery because he does not have time----yet he will take his “female clients that he trains” to doctor’s appt for consultation on breast implants or lab work/physical because of their extra-curricular activities

Trying to give him a hug . . . . “and he states what are you doing”

Wanting him to move out of the house . . but you are afraid for your safety . . and his psychotic episodes

Having his parents treat you like a dog---- because my impression his previous girlfriend is perfect in their eyes

Having your boyfriend not defending you to his parent’s when they treat you like shit

Working 12 hours a day's 5 days a week -- so you do not have to come home to his negative vibes

Liking who I am while I am at work—because I am so positive

Trying to stay away from home till he goes to bed at night so his negative vibes do not drain me any more

Not having anyone to talk too about this

Not having the guts to “say your out of here” becuase of dream that I have telling me I will regret it

Not being able to talk to him as an adult because he acts like a child

Currently working on 2 master's degree with no support from your supposed "significant other"

10 years waisted . . . trying

Happiness is . . . . . . . .
 
Jeez, I couldn't read your whole thread cuz I started to get bummed out. BUT - good things come to those who do good.
 
i know how you feel in a way... some things were similar for me and my ex.. but not to that degree.

and i'm trying to get used to being alone now...
 
I know the number of this Black Magic guy in NYC. One of my friends had a similar problem with her ex., They also had a kid together though which he neglected. Total scumbag, either way she went to this guy and had him cast a spell on her ex. Within the year he lost his job and his hairand they admited him into a psycho ward cause I heard he lost it and just went nuts, which he still has not been released from ...

Oh and his car was mysterioulsy set on fire one night...
 
Pathetic was that entire post.

Why would you let that go on?

You should have simply torn his limbs off with a power winch and sutured the wounds with barbed wire.
 
I know how you feel, i just flushed seven years down the drain in a similar situation. I still live with her but i need to move out as soon as posible. oh well hope things go better for you.

pm me if you need to talk more.
 
Satanic Goatslayer said:
Pathetic was that entire post.

Why would you let that go on?

You should have simply torn his limbs off with a power winch and sutured the wounds with barbed wire.

Don't forget to pour a cheap bottle of whiskey on the wounds, break the bottle over his head, jam the broken shards inside the wounds and light him on fire.
 
Its amazing....................all these good women who end up with bums. The guy wins them over and becomes an ass because he TAKES HER FOR GRANTED.

Tigress.........you WILL be happy, just don't depend on others to do it for you. Grab that brass ring yourself. And oh yea, cut your losses.....send that dickhead packing. It may hurt now but when your living off the fruits of your labor of your two master's...he'll be in a trailer eating fish sticks and drinking Pabst. The best revenge is living well.

JUST DO IT
 
Kryp2o said:


Don't forget to pour a cheap bottle of whiskey on the wounds, break the bottle over his head, jam the broken shards inside the wounds and light him on fire.

You have reached the intermediate level. I was giving novice advice, you know, ease her into the whole murder/torture game.
 
HAPPINESS IS....

something you have to work for. I know this from experience. Just remember that all the muck you go through makes you that much stronger. i'm sorry anyoone would ever do that to someone they "care" about.
 
Shit like that reminds me of how fortunate I am to have been married to my high school sweetheart for 19 years after 6 years of dating(yes...I am an old fuck). We went through college, grad school and law school TOGETHER. she is my closest friend still. Hang in there and have faith. Good luck.

hasta


litig8r
 
Well she said he is a member of the board so I am really curious as to who the fuck he is...
 
HEY stop being a Codependent, jesus fucking christ do you want to live your life enabling others bad behavior? Here is a wake up call.... Start living you life go see a shrink, or go to Coda meetings, but fuck you bring this shit on yourself, stop reliving your shitty childhood....go get some help
 
I am so sorry. I've never really had much empathy after reading posts but I did this time. However, I agree that this has gone on too long. You need to go. As hard as it is, if you don't, you'll never be happy. Are you gonna out this shithead right here on the board? That would be heavy.
 
He's manipulating you BIGTIME. While he's away, change the locks, throw his shit out on the lawn and file a restraining order. And get on with your life.
 
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