Sad story - Met girl from Internet

[mranderson]

Hmmm..methinks there is a family history of mental illness hidden somewhere in here....

Doing a little looking back and comparing some of the situations between her and some of the other female members of her family i should of seen it coming it seems that her mother and 2 aunts feel into some sort of depression about her age and threw their lives away for what seemed to be nothing more then getting high, should of seen it coming.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I think everyone should just go on prozac. It's really sad how peoples' insecurities, anal retentiveness and their contentness for playing mind games can destroy any chance two people have together. It's not worth it, and if anyone knows it's me. I've been through a lot of shit and wasted years of my life over stupid shit. Fuck it, it's just the way of the world.

 

[rsnoble]

Fuck her, if you meet her again just whip your cock out and jack off in her mouth and go home happy.

 

[anabolicmd]

Fuck her, if you meet her again just whip your cock out and jack off in her mouth and go home happy.

Sometimes, the simple solution is the best one.

 

[Mysterio]

Never set yourself up again thats all I am going to say.

 

[casavant]

Just the way it goes. You'll probably never know the reason because I doubt she will be truthful being a woman and all. Just deal with it. Too many fishes in the sea. That does sux though.

Word.

I don't think I ever posted about it on here, but I dated a girl about for about a month; through the month of April and into May a little bit. She had made the first move as far as showing any interest, so I took the cue and got her number. We went out quite a bit and hit if off wonderfully, had great conversations about real things and seemed to be on the same wavelength about all sorts of stuff. She was beautiful and smart. It was a total green light as far as I was concerned, and she was full of all kinds of compliments for me and there was just that "clicking" vibe. Mutual friends of ours would tell me how well she spoke of me, etc. Than she broke it off out of the blue, and over AIM, no less. It was that same old song that reeks of banality: "I'm not ready for a relationship right now." (it bears mentioning that I hadn't even brought the relationship issue up and was just going with the flow- I'm not one to try to move to fast in that area). I pried a little for an explanation and she wouldn't give me a straight answer. I figured she wasn't over her old boyfriend even though they'd been broken up for a year. Her brother, who I bounce with, agreed. He also thought she'd kind of done me wrong, actually, which surprised me considering it was his little sister and all.

Last night, I was working the door with her brother, and he mentioned that she was dating some dude now. That wasn't a big surprise. It sucked, but wasn't a surprise. We didn't date that long, after all. Still, I thought she'd have the good taste not to bring him in the bar on a night she knew I was working when there are so many other places to go. Her brother said that surely she wouldn't do something like that. 30 minutes later, guess who shows up with her date in tow? LOL... she wouldn't even make eye contact besides an initial obligatory greeting. And the guy could be a body double for her ex (who I actually like and who I rent from, btw). LOL.

Fuck it.

Weird shit happens, revex. If you figure out the key to it all, let me know, 'cause I sure haven't found it yet.

 

[sk*]

Could have been so many things, all of the things people suggested makes sence.

She liked you too much and didn't wanna get close.
Didn't find you attractive.
Found you too attractive and felt inferior.
She had a boyfriend.
She had a girlfriend.
Your face reminded her of someone in her life.
Your muscles were too big for her.
She got back with the ex.
Might have been something you said.
She had aids and planned to infect you with it but decided not to, blah blah ...

There are endless possibilities, as you can't know the truth for sure unless she were to tell you. Whichever of the reasons it was though, it is very obvious that she is a very weak person mentally. In most probability someone this weak would cause even more problems if you indead got to be with her.

Now you must ask yourself this question, do you want to be with someone as weak and pathetic as her?

I wouldn't. Just move on bro, there are a lot of pretty girls in New York and a lot of them aren't this weak.

-sk

 

[anabolicmd]

Bottom line is, hes mad cause he didnt get the trim. Am I right or am I right?

 

[Big Johnson]

Listen to me...

...your mistake was not jumping it when you had the chance.

Believe it or not, she probably thinks YOU rejected HER by not taking her then and there.

I've made the same mistake, but I've since learned something:

Women don't typically get offended when a guy comes on to them, even if the guy is total scum. But, women absolutely hate when a guy they WANT to come on to them acts more interested in friendship.

So, if you find yourself with a woman who calls you at 3AM and wants to visit, make sure you don't insult her by showing restraint

 

[sk*]

Listen to me...

...your mistake was not jumping it when you had the chance.

Believe it or not, she probably thinks YOU rejected HER by not taking her then and there.

I've made the same mistake, but I've since learned something:

Women don't typically get offended when a guy comes on to them, even if the guy is total scum. But, women absolutely hate when a guy they WANT to come on to them acts more interested in friendship.

So, if you find yourself with a woman who calls you at 3AM and wants to visit, make sure you don't insult her by showing restraint

That coule be it too, but really everyone is different. A lot of girls will like it if the guy was playing hard to get. Depends on the person ...

There is not much he can do now, best thing is to just move on.

-sk