Relationships are mostly for weak people?

[dullboy]

It's amazing how people see and read what they want, completely missing the point trying to be made or question being asked.

Yes, our human instinct is to reproduce. Yes, humans typically find a mate to spend life with making these babies.

What I am asking you, is do you think most human relationships are fabricated by selfish needs other than TRUE, GENUINE love? Because based on your logic humans have NO emotions and simply pair up to fuck without having any type of communication (like animals). And your type of attitude is the exact reason why half of all marriages end up in divorce. We are NOT animals. We are humans, who (just in case you don't know) exhibit complex levels of communication and emotion.

So, think again and try to answer the question. Do we pair up out of weakness or do you think going through trials and tribulations with a partner (knowing it would be harder alone) trully makes us stronger?

dullboy apologizes for not having reached your level of enlightenment. let's see if he can get refund on his phd.

dullboy wonders if you've ever observed the phenomena of young children who naturally huddle together when in groups. humans crave companionship. however, not all human companionships reach the level of intimacy. otherwise, you'd be fucking all of poker buddies or your dad.


dullboy thinks that you're confusing reliance with intimacy.



btw - humans who don't crave companionship are abnormal. this is why it's clinically referred to as normal / abnormal human behavior.

 

[swole]

dullboy apologizes for not having reached your level of enlightenment. let's see if he can get refund on his phd.

dullboy wonders if you've ever observed the phenomena of young children who naturally huddle together when in groups. humans crave companionship. however, not all human companionships reach the level of intimacy.

dullboy also thinks that you're confusing reliance with intimacy.


btw - humans who don't crave companionship are abnormal. this is why it's clinically referred to as normal / abnormal human behavior.

So you're saying it is our instinct to crave companionship. Do you consider this a weak or strong trait? and why?

 

[dullboy]

So you're saying it is our instinct to crave companionship. Do you consider this a weak or strong trait? and why?

it's neither weak nor strong.

it's normal human behavior.

 

[swolenole]

So you're saying it is our instinct to crave companionship. Do you consider this a weak or strong trait? and why?

companionship no-sex yes..does's craving sex make you weak.?

 

[Testosterone boy]

Bad luck.

I eat dinner then stumble upon all of these meat heads talking about their feelings and emotions.

Good thing I have a strong stomach or I'd have tossed my dinner.


I dunoo about people but the strongest animals tend to strike out on their own and leave the herd.


As for me? I've been extremely social and I've been a bit of a loner. Social people are happier...thats for sure.

But it is good to not really need companionship. Suffocating relationships drain your life blood.

 

[jnevin]

It's amazing how people see and read what they want, completely missing the point trying to be made or question being asked.

Yes, our human instinct is to reproduce. Yes, humans typically find a mate to spend life with making these babies.

What I am asking you, is do you think most human relationships are fabricated by selfish needs other than TRUE, GENUINE love? Because based on your logic humans have NO emotions and simply pair up to fuck without having any type of communication (like animals). And your type of attitude is the exact reason why half of all marriages end up in divorce. We are NOT animals. We are humans, who (just in case you don't know) exhibit complex levels of communication and emotion.

So, think again and try to answer the question. Do we pair up out of weakness or do you think going through trials and tribulations with a partner (knowing it would be harder alone) trully makes us stronger?

Yep, and yepper.

Thing is, it's one of those things you know when you know. I can't explain it. Maybe it is some of what you've covered. Maybe it's instinctual to feel like you want to be with someone you know you love no matter what, even if you see faults, you love them anyway, try not to, but do and know it deep within yourself no matter how hard you try. (Alcoholism and thinking I was too good or not good enough speaking there) Maybe you find out that you fuggin really, really love this person in ways you thought were retarded when you were young, unattainable, willing to carry a kid and do all that geigh shit you aren't doing with your friends that fuck spokes models, drive 911 Turbo's, and don't have a care in the world, but drink themselves to sleep. Maybe you're the pimp dad with an S6 and your kid is going to be a fuggin rock star because you're happy with yourself, with the fact that you realized that love is deeper than fucking some hot psycho coke head, and everything on the goddamn conveyer bely behind her.

It isn't settling. It's the hardest thing a lot of people can do. You wanna be weak, keep your frame of mind until you're older. Marry some..... ok girl that you don't identify with, that isn't as smart as you, but you feel comfortable with. Hindsight. My dad has it 20/20.

 

[swole]

It isn't settling. It's the hardest thing a lot of people can do. You wanna be weak, keep your frame of mind until you're older. Marry some..... ok girl that you don't identify with, that isn't as smart as you, but you feel comfortable with. Hindsight. My dad has it 20/20.

So are you saying we can't feel comfortable with a girl on our intelligence level?

Or are you telling us to be with a girl who challenges and keeps us on our toes? Because if you are, I agree with you 100%.

 

[jnevin]

So are you saying we can't feel comfortable with a girl on our intelligence level?

Or are you telling us to be with a girl who challenges and keeps us on our toes? Because if you are, I agree with you 100%.

Dood, I couldn't imagine being comfortable with someone life long (ideally), that wasn't on my intelligence level.

Shit gets frustrating because they call you on your bullshit. I'm sure you know what I mean.

I dunno. Not too many people know how to push my buttons and can get me to do something I normally wouldn't. She can do it, I realize it, but am willing, even when I know I'm not doing my thing.

Not sure if that makes sense, but.... you ever see old people that have been together since they were dust to begin with, but they still talk and smile at each other genuinely? I can honestly see that with my wife. Especially after what I did to the two of us in thae past few years.

 

[swole]

Dood, I couldn't imagine being comfortable with someone life long (ideally), that wasn't on my intelligence level.

Shit gets frustrating because they call you on your bullshit. I'm sure you know what I mean.

I dunno. Not too many people know how to push my buttons and can get me to do something I normally wouldn't. She can do it, I realize it, but am willing, even when I know I'm not doing my thing.

Not sure if that makes sense, but.... you ever see old people that have been together since they were dust to begin with, but they still talk and smile at each other genuinely? I can honestly see that with my wife. Especially after what I did to the two of us in thae past few years.

yes

bro, all this shit i talk about

i just want something meaningful when the time is right and for the right reasons

 

[jnevin]

yes

bro, all this shit i talk about

i just want something meaningful when the time is right and for the right reasons

Dood, as smart and as insightful as you are, it'll be tough to find it and to admit it to yourself.

You just know somehow. It's the wierdest thing I ever came across. I was nothing when I met her, she stuck with me when on our second date my car died and we had to walk all over, I had food poisoning (like of the worst fuggin kind) a month into when we really were together and she took care of me, when I started to do well, took it for granted and was an idiot and lost a lot of it... she was there.

 

[foreigngirl]

Dood, I couldn't imagine being comfortable with someone life long (ideally), that wasn't on my intelligence level.

Shit gets frustrating because they call you on your bullshit. I'm sure you know what I mean.

I dunno. Not too many people know how to push my buttons and can get me to do something I normally wouldn't. She can do it, I realize it, but am willing, even when I know I'm not doing my thing.

Not sure if that makes sense, but.... you ever see old people that have been together since they were dust to begin with, but they still talk and smile at each other genuinely? I can honestly see that with my wife. Especially after what I did to the two of us in thae past few years.

huh....sounds just like me and my husband, with the only difference that he is on lower educational level than me (I cant say intelligence, cause he is intelligent). The hardest part sometimes is trying not to say something that would make him feel that I am the educated all-knowing wife that puts him down because of his education. So, I tell him things that I read about or studied and when he talks to his friends he is re-telling these stuff like he is the one that came up with that, while I'm sitting on a side and smirking a bit, letting him have his moment

 

[swole]

huh....sounds just like me and my husband, with the only difference that he is on lower educational level than me (I cant say intelligence, cause he is intelligent). The hardest part sometimes is trying not to say something that would make him feel that I am the educated all-knowing wife that puts him down because of his education. So, I tell him things that I read about or studied and when he talks to his friends he is re-telling these stuff like he is the one that came up with that, while I'm sitting on a side and smirking a bit, letting him have his moment

lol, you kill me

jnevin, that's an awesome story (the girl part - not the food poisoning part)...I hope i recognize it...sounds like you got yourself a wifey-material woman

 

[foreigngirl]

lol, you kill me

jnevin, that's an awesome story (the girl part - not the food poisoning part)...I hope i recognize it...sounds like you got yourself a wifey-material woman

what now? Dont even mention the copy and paste and that all-knowing macedonian girl, cause I'll kill you. All my posts to you in that thread were written just to spite you.






Jnevin - thats awsome dude, you always stumble upon the rught one when you dont even expect it

 

[swole]

what now? Dont even mention the copy and paste and that all-knowing macedonian girl, cause I'll kill you. All my posts to you in that thread were written just to spite you.

i kinda giggled out loud because i thought was you said was...jesus christ...how do i say this...

cute.

OK???!?! Cute.

don't ever mention this again

 

[foreigngirl]

i kinda giggled out loud because i thought was you said was...jesus christ...how do i say this...

cute.

OK???!?! Cute.

don't ever mention this again

Ok I wont mention it if it spoils you e-tough guy image But I forgot to write down thanks in that K msg, I am forgetfull like that so thanks and thanks

 

[jnevin]

what now? Dont even mention the copy and paste and that all-knowing macedonian girl, cause I'll kill you. All my posts to you in that thread were written just to spite you.






Jnevin - thats awsome dude, you always stumble upon the rught one when you dont even expect it

Thanks buddy.