Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Dating this girl for abour 5 months now, i had trouble getting it up with her the first few times, and still do, takinf cialis now, it has help out alot, i love this girl from the first moment i seen her, might be the reasin i had a hard time getting it up and etc.., but the problem is she wont hardly let me see her naked much, always covers herself up, i know for a fact she hasn't been like this before, it just with me, she said she has never been like that with any one esle, i dont know why, i ask her about it and she get so fucking mad, becuase i know a guy she was with before me and and hey had sex in public and i tried to get hr to do that also but see wont, whats the fucking deal, this is starting to bother me. any suggestions.
relationship question (sex)
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Longhorn85
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guyver said:
hard to understand exactly what you said, but sounds like maybe she's afraid you and your friend have talked about her sexual habits or something and she is self conscious.
Hold up.
Her past sexual behavior is to blame because you are having a hard time getting it up?
Because that is what you are saying, between the words and sentences. You are saying that she is not open enoughsexually for you to get hard yet she was open enough with an ex which seems to annoy you and seems to be what you think will solve your problem.
No offense, but this is a problem you have to work out with yourself, because the underlying issue goes beyond just a bit of sexual dysfunction. Her past sexual activities should not have any place with your current activites. I would think you are putting way to much performance pressure on both yourself and your girlfriend.
Oh and a bit of advice....
Oral sex and some patience could get things going.
Her past sexual behavior is to blame because you are having a hard time getting it up?
Because that is what you are saying, between the words and sentences. You are saying that she is not open enoughsexually for you to get hard yet she was open enough with an ex which seems to annoy you and seems to be what you think will solve your problem.
No offense, but this is a problem you have to work out with yourself, because the underlying issue goes beyond just a bit of sexual dysfunction. Her past sexual activities should not have any place with your current activites. I would think you are putting way to much performance pressure on both yourself and your girlfriend.
Oh and a bit of advice....
Oral sex and some patience could get things going.
The Grinch01
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Maybe your Friend was able to really get her going....Something you are obviously unable to do. Time to Move On!
Testosterone boy
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Well I'm confused because she was always totally uninhibited around me.
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The Shadow
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imo.....the errection problem is stemming from his lack of intimacy problem regarding chicks sexual past.
spongebob
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as far as the erection problem, you just might be gay. have you ever fantasized about another mans penis and been able to get really really hard while doing so? how about your past experiences with the ladies, any success?
here's what i say. if you honestly feel your not homosexual then get a photo of this girl and take you some of that viagra or the generic version and practice getting boners with her picture. then practice ejaculating to them. this will help you get over the problem. you'll be shooting her from across the room. it worked for me.
here's what i say. if you honestly feel your not homosexual then get a photo of this girl and take you some of that viagra or the generic version and practice getting boners with her picture. then practice ejaculating to them. this will help you get over the problem. you'll be shooting her from across the room. it worked for me.
andezzz999
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My wife put it this way and she is probably right.....(I hate to admit it). Men are more visual, they get aroused by the site of the female body. Women are more mental, they aroused more by the touch, and talk and romance, get it. You need to romance her up my friend. Work from the inside (mental) out and you she will let down the guard. Many women have better orgasims when they are romanced properly, if you ask them they will say that a good bang bang is only half of it. If you get them hot, shit, they will do anything, make sure your not only in it for you. Any guy who blows his load before his girl might as well expect her to come to bed in an overcoat. Give her a few starter "O's" to begin with and you will just be getting the party started.
Themachine01
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The Grinch01 said:
the Grinch might have a point, you might have to rethink your game plan, looks to me like your bringing your "C" game, when it might take a solid a game to get her fire going. If she wants you bad enough, it doesnt matter where you are, public or not.
