Relationship bitching - guys vs. gals

[ohashi]

Anyone ever get very, very annoyed by the differences in how we handle it? Guys with relationship problems: "Yeah, told the bitch to pack up her shit and leave. Throw me a beer." Girls with relationship problems: "Oh my god, he was so mean and unfair, blah blah blah can you imagine that one time I was using a new skin cream and the didn't notice?! Boo hoo, I am so emotionally unprotected/I have a wall built up around me, bitch bitch bitch, whine whine whine, I understand the problem perfectly because I bitch about it all the fucking time, but I won't do anything about it because that would be logical and I might actually enjoy myself bleh bleh bleh."

Except the female spelling is much worse than that.

Seriously, it's the same shit for women all the time. Is it so hard to, you know, actually do something about a problem that is all your fault in the first place?

 

[SoKlueles]

this thread offended me
and hurt my feelings

 

[ziggyziggy]

I don't know about you, but its been a long time since I have bitched to any of my friends about relationship problems. Then again, I have made sure that everything over the last three years has been short term / no committment, so I guess I really didn't care how they were acting.

Zig

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You know we are NOT all the same.

 

[ohashi]

You know we are NOT all the same.

It's a nice thought, but...

 

[Evil_Frisky]

It's a nice thought, but...

lol

I'm not high maintence.. i tend to be a little over independant and don't thrive off of compliments.

I do my thang he does his... I'm sure I have someone to vouch for me

 

[jackangel]

i get annoyed by generalizations (unless they're mine).

lots of dudes bitching around here. everyone pisses and moans about something.