READ THIS AMAZING CHAT!! This is why I hate women!!!! Ridiculous!!

[danielson]

RaGeAnGeLGiRL69: yeah and dont you think you should be nice to a girl and treat them good the car thing is bdumb but you're never going to get anywhere unless you spend some money on a a girl. now alot but still its not going to happen

this is the only thing she said that was 'kinda' crappy (i.e. unless u have money u wont get girls)....i wouldnt get that offended

RaGeAnGeLGiRL69: sorry that girls including myself dont want a lowlife
RaGeAnGeLGiRL69 signed off at 11:49:05 PM.

right...........

 

[Warik]

A LOWLIFE she says!!I'm a LOWLIFE

Lol... no offense, but you sort of are in this case. Don't even open doors? Were you raised in a fucking barn? Even after 8 months I still open my car door for my girl. The fact that it's such an inconvenience for you (in addition to the fact that you seem to be too cheap to spend $20-$25 for the girl's part of dinner) may be why you haven't found your "soulmate" yet.

No one is going to love you just because you're you - it's because of the kind of person you are. If the kind of person you are is the kind who thinks: "everyone should love me because I'M Burning_Inside and I don't gotta do shit for NOBODY cuz I'M Burning_Inside!" then it's no mystery to me why this girl thinks you're a lowlife.

-Warik

 

[Lao Tzu]

maybe you should abandon women altogether. I don't think you did anything wrong, but perhaps you should focus on friends for emotional gratification rather than women. Do you want to fake like you are something you aren't to woo someone you probably wouldn't want to talk to anyway if she didn't have a vagina.

 

[Warik]

Re: Re: Re: READ THIS AMAZING CHAT!! This is why I hate women!!!! Ridiculous!!

Yea I agree that it is the things that you do that make you the person and opening doors for a female is a considerate thing to do. The saying love me for who I am really comes from this, who are you really? You are what you let others see you as.

Right. Love you for who you are? Well, who are you? A guy who doesn't open doors, say nice things, give cute surprises, or pay for anything. Wow... much to love there.

However, I disagree with anyone that would call someone who isn't as wealthy as them a lowlife.

Oh, I would disagree as well. Refusing to pay for anything isn't a quality of "lack of wealth," however. It's called "being a cheap fuck." I don't care if someone works part time for minimum wage while going to college and paying off a debt. HE SHOULND'T INVITE A GIRL ON A DATE IF HE DOESN'T EXPECT TO PAY A DIME! He might as well go out with a friend, because it'd be the same shit.

-Warik

 

[Star]

I will have to put my .02 cents in. I dont think I am ugly and I would NEVER put up with the jerk you are recommending a man to be. I love nice guys and demand respect. Maybe I am a oddball.

Star

 

[polarpixie]

Re: Re: Re: READ THIS AMAZING CHAT!! This is why I hate women!!!! Ridiculous!!

However, I disagree with anyone that would call someone who isn't as wealthy as them a lowlife.

Me too. But I think by the time she called him a lowlife, she'd had enough and was being slightly sarcastic when she said "sorry" for not wanting a lowlife. Either that or she was calling him a lowlife because the fool ranted for like 10 paragraphs. lol...

 

[SSAlexSS]

I will have to put my .02 cents in. I dont think I am ugly and I would NEVER put up with the jerk you are recommending a man to be. I love nice guys and demand respect. Maybe I am a oddball.

Star

There is a difference between what you say and what you know to be true.

I can say that " I dont like girls with big boobs.. All that silicone grosses me out" but it is a lie and I just say that for political correctness/to make someone feel good etc.

Women say that they arent attracted to big muscular and ripped guys.... But.... I reality..... you see totally different.

 

[Liberator]

I dont open doors for girls anymore, maybe ones I know and respect but when Im in town, I dont bother

If its an old woman, sure, no problem, but 18-30, forget it

I got past that stage after the lack of respect I got back, like no common curtesy, thankyou, thanks for opening the door, cheers, a smile a nod anything.

I once opened the door for a really hot blonde and she tutted at me, wtf?! so the next one I let go and she called me a jerk.

If they think I want to get in there pants just because Im holding the door open for them, they are stupid.

It works both ways you know

You might think this is picky, but it takes extra calories and glycogen to hold a door open for a girl and I'd much rather use it in the gym.

 

[polarpixie]

The door opening thing

Regarding the door opening thing, If we are talking about opening an entrance to a building type of door, IMO, it is called manners. I don't expect a guy to run ahead of me to open the door for me, although it is nice, but I do expect him/or her to hold it open for me if I am right behind them. I almost always hold the door open for anyone, man or woman who is a few steps behind me, unless I am in an extreme hurry. Some people actually do not bother to do this which I think is incredibly rude.

If we're talking about opening car doors, I think it's very considerate when before getting into his car, he opens the passenger side door for me first. When we're getting out of the car, unless we are going to some fancy event, I will open my own door thanks because it will take too long to wait for him to come around to my side.

It's all about manners and being considerate of people, that's all....

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I love getting flowers, and having doors open for me. But when I can tell its out of character i.e. he's playing a part, its a turn off.