what I'm trying to say is that because society would already consider you beautiful, this means that you have attractive physical traits in yourself,
which then makes it much easier for lumberg to find you as being beautiful.
lumberg doesnt have to 'get to know you' in order for you to become beautiful to him, because you were beautiful from the start! get it?
you see, it sounds believable if lumberg or any guy were to say that "you" are beautiful in their eyes. But for a guy to say that some fat blob is beautiful in their eyes, that is more difficult to believe. I think those people are lying just to make their wives and themselves feel better.