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R.I.P. Grandma

Buddy_Christ

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She broke her hip on Wednesday when she slipped and fell. She was in an assisted living home, thankfully, or else there would've been no one to find her and help her.

She had surgery Thursday evening. I was able to go down and see her on Friday and she was in a lot of pain. She was developing alzheimer's and had dementia. She didn't even recognize me. I sat with her for a while and tried to keep her calm.

They transferred her a day early to a nursing home to start physical rehab. Why they did this is beyond me. I'll find out why in the morning.

I walked into the kitchen to get something to eat and my cell phone was beeping because I had a new message. I checked it and it was the nursing home saying they found her "unresponsive." I called immediately. They found her in respitory arrest.

I called the ER where she was taken to. After waiting for well over a minute for someone to answer the phone, they finally did. Then they put the doctor on the phone. She had gone into cardiac arrest and they were unable to bring her back.

In the morning I'll be heading down there. I've already spoken to a few immediate family members and everyone is devistated.

R.I.P. Grandmother. 9/30/1920 - 9/5/2005
 
omg crak im so sorry
I know how you feel about her
RIP
 
1_more_rep said:
sure crak if you need anything i'm a PM or IM away bro. i know times like these are really hard and you just need to talk to someone sometimes
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Thanks.

I'm doing okay so far. I always seem to distance my emotions from things, just my way of coping. I did the same thing when my grandfather died 8 years ago, sept. 27, just 3 days before my grandmother's birthday. Then I went into a heavy drinking binge for almost 3 months. It got me through the mourning that I refused to admit I was going through.

She was in so much pain when I saw her on Friday. I wanted her pain to end, but I didn't want it to end like this. She was so scared and confused.

The woman was a saint and didn't deserve any of the bad things that happened to her. I don't believe in religion, never have, never will, but I will make sure she gets a catholic funeral, as that's what she would have wanted.

I feel really sorry for her neice, who is my godmother. She has buried 6 other people this year, one of which was her father. My grandmother was the last one left out of her brothers and sisters. I felt like shit calling her at almost 2am to tell her, but I had to let her know.
 
My condolences bro. With death comes the end of suffering.
 
Ugh, today was a long day. Ended up coming home instead of staying at my sisters place. It smells a little bit too much like cats (I have 3 and so does she, but her place smells of it a bit more). I layed down on her couch earlier in the evening to take a short nap and her 25lb fat ass cat sat on my chest lookin for love and purring.

Tomorrow I have to drive all the way back down and start on funeral arrangements, plus we have to go see my brother, who we didn't see today. At least that won't be too hard, we'll pretty much duplicate the services my grandfather had 8 years ago.

It's hard, but I know what I've done for her in the past few years and I know if she was capable of understanding, she would've thanked me. I refuse to let this be a time of sadness. She had a good life and I intend to celebrate that. There's lots of fond memories of her and I'll have them forever.

I did find out today that she was not in pain before she passed away. The pain killers they had her on were doing the job to make her comfortable. That lifted a load off of me. When I saw her on Friday she was in tremendous pain and I didn't want the image of her dying that way burned into my head. It gave me some comfort knowing that she passed on quietly.

Thanks everyone.
 
crak600 said:
She broke her hip on Wednesday when she slipped and fell. She was in an assisted living home, thankfully, or else there would've been no one to find her and help her.

She had surgery Thursday evening. I was able to go down and see her on Friday and she was in a lot of pain. She was developing alzheimer's and had dementia. She didn't even recognize me. I sat with her for a while and tried to keep her calm.

They transferred her a day early to a nursing home to start physical rehab. Why they did this is beyond me. I'll find out why in the morning.

I walked into the kitchen to get something to eat and my cell phone was beeping because I had a new message. I checked it and it was the nursing home saying they found her "unresponsive." I called immediately. They found her in respitory arrest.

I called the ER where she was taken to. After waiting for well over a minute for someone to answer the phone, they finally did. Then they put the doctor on the phone. She had gone into cardiac arrest and they were unable to bring her back.

In the morning I'll be heading down there. I've already spoken to a few immediate family members and everyone is devistated.

R.I.P. Grandmother. 9/30/1920 - 9/5/2005
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Im very sorry...my thoughts and prayers are with you
 
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