I've been cheated on plenty and no I've never cheated either as fidelty is power. Your statement illustrates my point of view.
When you choose fidelity you can be demanding of it as well. And if your partner violates this then let THEM be the one to have to ask forgiveness. I know that I would rather be the one to be asked to give it then to have to be the one who must BEG for it.
Point 2 -
Why would I, as a high-value female EVER put myself down so low as to boost the ego of "some random dude" that "he had MY MAN's woman"?
PPPffffffffffffftttttttttt
It will be a cold day in hell when I lower myself to that level just so that I can raise the status of ANY man.
FUCK THAT.
No man wants the woman that every man or any man can have. But, if you are their physical type then you will most certainly be highly valued that you are the woman that NO MAN or THE RIGHT MAN (JUST ONE) can have.
^^^That right there is power.