question....

[Magick69]

how many people get very jelous about the past of the girlfreind/boyfriend? and what do you do to overcome this jelousy ?

 

[PICK3]

g/f = yes
b/f = N/A

 

[puddlemonkey]

I don't know, I don't think I have the "jealousy gene". Sometimes that gets me in trouble though, cause girls like to play head games, I've been accused on more than one occasion of not paying enough attention to them. They'll try to make me jealous and not only do I not bite, but I don't usually even acknowledge it.

 

[CrazyRussian]

Used to get jealous because it just sucks...but now when I find out there's just that initial "pang" and them I just try to shrug it off. You can't expect your ex to never date again...

 

[Sub-Zero]

if they bring up their past enough to make u feel bad they did it on purpose..to make you feel bad

 

[biteme]

if they bring up their past enough to make u feel bad they did it on purpose..to make you feel bad

Words of wisdom.. I was bragging to one of my exes, so she says, "Yeah, I really enjoyed that time that I fucked 5 guys at once." LOL

 

[Sub-Zero]

Words of wisdom.. I was bragging to one of my exes, so she says, "Yeah, I really enjoyed that time that I fucked 5 guys at once." LOL

lol skankz

 

[Magick69]

Used to get jealous because it just sucks...but now when I find out there's just that initial "pang" and them I just try to shrug it off. You can't expect your ex to never date again...

nope bro i am not speaking about an ex.. i was speaking being jelous of the men that your actual girfriend had in the past; i think is called retroactive jelousy.

I know is irrational becasue is in the past but my blood boil when i imagine my girfriend being together with another bloke before me...

 

[CrazyRussian]

nope bro i am not speaking about an ex.. i was speaking being jelous of the men that your actual girfriend had in the past; i think is called retroactive jelousy.

I know is irrational becasue is in the past but my blood boil when i imagine my girfriend being together with another bloke before me...

Ah apologies I read your post too quickly and misread it. In my case, and I'm pretty sensitive when it comes to these things...I didn't really mind at all. Of coures, that is assuming your current gf doesn't constantly bring them up. when i was with my gf, for example, she only brought them up when I asked, because I was actually kinda curious about who shed been wth. And when I did ask her she just kinda mentioned them off handedly in a passive tone...which made me feel better b/c it kinda assured me that she wasnt hung up on any of em.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I don't know, I don't think I have the "jealousy gene". Sometimes that gets me in trouble though, cause girls like to play head games, I've been accused on more than one occasion of not paying enough attention to them. They'll try to make me jealous and not only do I not bite, but I don't usually even acknowledge it.

Yeah, I've had a chic break up with me for not paying her enough attention. I suppose I was also a jackass in general though too.

 

[avidinternet]

nope bro i am not speaking about an ex.. i was speaking being jelous of the men that your actual girfriend had in the past; i think is called retroactive jelousy.

I know is irrational becasue is in the past but my blood boil when i imagine my girfriend being together with another bloke before me...

Well then stop imagining it and you'll be fine...

 

[Magick69]

Well then stop imagining it and you'll be fine...

thanks i guess this is what to do but at times is difficult.do you expreince this type of jelousy with your b/f?

i ,like the other bro in this thread, had a curiosity about her past so i started to ask and the weird stuff is that the more i ask and the more she asnwer , not to upset me, the more i feel shit and the more i want to know....
i feel shit even if she repeats that no one was like me and i am the only person that she have ever desired of marry becose i have all the traits that she appreciate in a man.

I am scared becose with this jelousy i can destroy a very beutiful relationship, she is very caring and she love me a lot and have lots of patience for my jelousy. Rationally i also think that for today standard she did not have lots of relationship after all she is 36 and had 6 boyfriend before me.

i am scared i can lose her if i continue...

 

[JayC9]

Some stones are best left unturned.