question about girls *ugh*

[Elite_Fry]

just after some feedback...
im 19 years old and have never been in love before
i mean i find girls attractive but thats where it ends... even girls ive dated ive never really fallen for any of them
is it uncommon for a 19 year old to not yet have these feelings?

 

[tempest2003]

i was almost 19 when i fell in love, im 19 now, just turned. just dont make it any girl bro, make the first one someone good, and make sure she has no "baggage" like past relation shit still going on, it will fuck up your life, hard core. my first love was hell and im still living it, right now she is out fucking her x, i drove around for 4 hours tonight trying to find him, i want to beat his ass soooooo bad

 

[geoffgarst]

It is not uncommon for someone your age to have "love" feelings. You will know it the feeling when it comes along. Now, if you are having feelings for male friends, then that is different.

Love will bite you one day. Be patient as the right girl will wrap you around her finger!

PS: Karma is always welcome!

 

[CollegeKid2]

lol at geoff.... dude, im 20 and ive never really been in love either, ived gone out with girls but i wasnt even really into them. itll happen sometime, i guess. like they say "love is where you least expect it" or some shit.

 

[big_bad_buff]

I think some people fall in love faster than others. some people can fall in love with anyone and some people are very picky and it just doesn't click........and some people are psycho killers. you figure out were you are

 

[Hannibal]

Don't get in any rush....because once you have felt it, anything less won't cut it.

 

[Elite_Fry]

okay lol im gonna add a bit into this
i like guys aswell and well i have id say fallen in for guys before (but nothing has ever amounted)...
but while i have had these feelings towards guys... ive never had them towards a female
(im not gay cos i like girls aswell.. infact i fucked one last friday and it was awesome) lol

 

[Devastation]

okay lol im gonna add a bit into this
i like guys aswell and well i have id say fallen in for guys before (but nothing has ever amounted)...
but while i have had these feelings towards guys... ive never had them towards a female
(im not gay cos i like girls aswell.. infact i fucked one last friday and it was awesome) lol

 

[SupraHero]

okay lol im gonna add a bit into this
i like guys aswell and well i have id say fallen in for guys before (but nothing has ever amounted)...
but while i have had these feelings towards guys... ive never had them towards a female
(im not gay cos i like girls aswell.. infact i fucked one last friday and it was awesome) lol

Arn't you the same guy that talked about smoking some guys piece at a party?? I thought you were gay, or did you discover you don't only like being anally abused you also like some snatch every now and again to??

 

[Generic MALE]

I am 41 and am not sure I have ever been in love.

There is a difference between sexual attraction and love from what I can tell. And I love my wife. But I don't think I have ever been in love - where we both feel overwhelming feelings towards each other. I have had girls tell me they love me...and I have had girls I had strong good feelings for...but never to each other at the same time.

When I was younger I was deeply religious and felt a sort of non-sexual love for people I felt were less fortunate then me. I use to find alot of happiness and satisfaction in helping people and did alot of charitable work with prisoners and ex-cons, people in hospitals, orphans etc. But none of that was sexual. In the bible that sort of love is refered to as AGAPE in the Greek language.

When I got married I was wife shopping. At 25 I made a list of all the qualities I wanted/deserved/demanded in a wife. There were 7 categories : education, homemaking, hobbies etc. At 27 I found the one I felt fit the picture and married her when I was 28 (she was 23). She had scored almost a perfect score in math and English on her SAT's, was invited to several ivy league schools and offered scholarships, cooks me 3 meals a day when I come home for lunch and 2 hot meals when I eat lunch at work, etc. Of course looks were an important issue (she had competed in beauty pageants etc). Before her I found some women who came close - might be smart and college cheerleaders and attractive, but could bring no real money into the relationship for example or had poor homemaking skills.

Its kind of business like, and now at 41 I am feeling I missed out a bit. I never gave into passion or anything. Heck I was a virgin until I was married-primarily due to deep felt and sincere (at the time) religious beliefs. I am definately not gay - never had a sexual feeling towards a guy and the actual thought is nauseating. I was always attracted to women sexually - they were the objects of wet dreams and pictures of them make me hard and ooze pre-cum...but just have never felt any overwhelming passion. And I have some doubts I ever felt love.

Perhaps love is overdone in movies and we all expect too much. Maybe it should be more business-like.

But my whole life is very unusual and weird.

 

[NeverMind]

Have you ever heard 'I love you but I'm not IN love with you?'

I was not ready for that, had to think about it while driving home alone leaving her ass at the mall.

 

[argent]

This thread just took a turn for the homoerotic.

 

[2Thick]

This mthread just took a turn for the homoerotic.

 

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[SAGAT]

live by the words of the poetic master, satanic goatslayer;

love is the dressing on the salad of life.
you don't need it.
it makes you fat.

or something like that

 

[Elite_Fry]

thanks