Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below man im getting ready to do a show in may, and everything is going great from my diet to my cycle to my workouts, but there are times that my wife gives me a hard time... she complains that i work out too much... and that i dont help her out with my daughter.. what do you think i should do.. i need to do this comp... my workouts are only about 45 min to an hr.. get in get the job done get out... appreciate the advice
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meatneck
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man, your' wife should understand. I'm at the gym almost up to 2 hours. I told her along time ago, that working out is part of my life, and part of my early morning unless "we" have something planned ahead of time. She is great about that. Sometimes, I do feel like I'm at the gym 2 much, but that's only when there's nothing going on at the house. Just re-arrange your schedule - maybe get up earlier or work out later while they are sleeping..but remember, family always comes before vanity! 
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You could always tell her what the famous al bundy told peg, "Don't make me give you 5 across the eyes!!! " j/j
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LOLYou could always tell her what the famous al bundy told peg, "Don't make me give you 5 across the eyes!!! " j/j
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gunz99 said:
I think you need to put your family first, bro. If your wife is complaining that you don't help out with your daughter, I think where there's smoke there's fire. She wouldn't complain just to complain, would she? You think about it and then make the right decision, bro. I wish you the very best.
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RADAR
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DIVISION said:I think you need to put your family first, bro. If your wife is complaining that you don't help out with your daughter, I think where there's smoke there's fire. She wouldn't complain just to complain, would she? You think about and then make the right decision, bro. I wish you the very best.
DIV
Thats not always the case my friend, my first wife was a b-i-t-c-h always had something to dig up an argument with, if it wasn't about me looking at a chick, which i didn't they just crossed my path and i glanced and never gat it another thought, then 15 minutes later she says "Well did you see anything you like back there?"
I say "Huh?" I didn't even know what she was talking about, next thing you know theres a full blown argument going in the store whit her pissed to hell, its not like i stared and went "Woah" Needless to say the whole day was ruined from that incident.
I had a BOSS 302 1969 cougar eleminator she bitched and carried on every time i cleaned it up ,saying "You love that car more than me"
My big break came when she started running around on me, i drew the line and booted her to the curb.
My current Wife trains with me-we do everything together.
Sometimes its not the man but the wife.
RADAR
RADAR said:
I stand corrected. I know that every situation is different that's why I asked him to think about it and do what "he thought" is right. You're a decent guy, RADAR, so I don't doubt your sincerity one bit when it comes to your situation.
You're more easygoing that I am, after the jealousy fits in the mall and the car comments, I probably would have ditched the bitch with the quickness.
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bluetwistedsteel67
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Dude listen. Your wife may be complaining about the hour you're at the gym but what she's really pissed about is the other 23 hours. I know there was a time when I didn't do shit around the house as far as helping out. Now I do have a job that fortunately pays me alot of money so I could always fall back on that and say I bring home the money, you manage the house. One day I just decided to change. I did the dishes, vacuumed a little bit and then it just got to the point that when I was home I tried to be productive and helpful. I read to the kids, helped them more with their homework etc and I found that it wasn't too bad. My wife was so appreciative that my life just kept getting easier. I got more sex, got more smiles, and it changed my marriage completely. Just give it a try bro and I bet she'll be alot more supportive of your interests.
gunz99 said:
If you are putting time with your daughter on the backburner for a bodybuilding contest then I can see why she is pissed...
What will you get if you win this contest after all the headache it encompasses...a little trophy???
What will you get if you spend more time with your daughter playing in the park, pushing her on the swing, watching her during her soccer game, etc???...Something that can NEVER be quantified in words...
small but working on it
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I like what Radar said. It is difficult for us to break down what it is. It may be that she is upset cause you are spending 45 min or an hr a day in the gym and it may be because she is a bitch. no offense but we dont know you or her. Chances are she is pissed at something else like bluetwistedsteel67 it is the 23 hrs you are home. Either she thinks you arent doing enough at home or something, on the other hand if you were 300 lbs of pear shaped shit she would be on you about losing weight and telling her friends how much weight you gained since you got married. It is the old cant win situation really. If you work all the time , she feels neglected even though you are bringing money to the house and if you are home all the time, you are too much in her space and you need to make more money. The old saying goes, if it has tits or tires it is gonna cause you problems, good luck.
hammertime30
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I found that things work out better when the other person is more involved or when it's shared....Get her into training as well and if she's not into it then you need to get more involved with the daughter....45 mins isn't alot, but she's complaining about something for a reason rather you see it or not...
The Terminator said:If you are putting time with your daughter on the backburner for a bodybuilding contest then I can see why she is pissed...
What will you get if you win this contest after all the headache it encompasses...a little trophy???
What will you get if you spend more time with your daughter playing in the park, pushing her on the swing, watching her during her soccer game, etc???...Something that can NEVER be quantified in words...
Great post, Termie.
You are on point with this. Spending time with your kids ALWAYS takes precedence over a bodybuilding contest.
DIV
DIVISION said:Great post, Termie.
You are on point with this. Spending time with your kids ALWAYS takes precedence over a bodybuilding contest.
DIV
Its not until one gets a little older that they tend to realize this...
(I was 28 before I realized it...)
DIVISION said:How old are you?
I thought you were just a kid.
DIV
Thats funny, cuz I thought him to be 40ish
DIVISION said:How old are you?
I thought you were just a kid.
DIV
In my early 30's
DIVISION said:How old are you?
I thought you were just a kid.
DIV
That's just because of all my cracks about the teenage girls I run into
JustGottaKnow
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Shove your cock in her mouth and tell her to shut the fuck up. She'll respect you for it. But don't actually say that, just think it, as you feed all her all the bullshit she wants to hear and do what she wants to show you love her.
Now she's giving you a blow job thinking she's got you where she wants you, and vice versa. Works for me
Now she's giving you a blow job thinking she's got you where she wants you, and vice versa. Works for me
