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Werd

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Had a really lovely experience this weekend... just wanted to share a smile with some of yall.

I felt like Julia Roberts' character in pretty woman - literally took my man's breath away as I decended the steps to have him and my kids waiting for me in the vestibule of his home. He was speechless and my kids were giggling and clapping saying, "Mommy, you look soooooooo beautiful!"

It has been a very long time since I had been so nervous and put so much ceremony into getting ready for "a date". My kids were watching me put my makeup on, asking questions about all kinds of "gurl stuff"; clomping around in my shoes and holding my little bag and putting on my hat pretending to be me. It was so nice. I haven't had an experience like this for many many years, matter of fact, I never again thought I would.

My kids LOVE teasing me shamelessly now that me and my guy are "dating" heheheheheeee. They are now asking me, "Mommy can I be a flower girl and wear a pretty dress and flowers in my hair when you marry him?"

I know it might seem silly to some of you, especially to the guys. But there is just something about the feeling a woman has when her guy looks at her in a way as if to question whether or not she is real.... I used to be a dancer and modeled a bit, competed so I had been objectified to the nth degree. I understood what I was doing so it was all good. One of the things, however, that used to bother me most about the dancing is how I had to "sell my smile". I hated it and longed for the day when I would smile like that again - for real - and for only one man.

Now WE feel like we are becoming a family... We were all so sad when we had to leave Sunday afternoon and then again, when my kids' father came and got them for the week. I can't wait for all the stupidity to FINALLY be over and my kids and I can live happily ever after.

I am so fortunate to have him in our lives... :rose:
 
i didnt read it but im assuming a rich guy took you to a fancy dinner and let you use his bubblebath at night on multiple occasions, even though when you first met him it was strictly a business relationship
 
Then he kicked you to the curb because he had got cold feet and then he figured out he really wants you and drove you off to live happily ever after in limo land?
 
Werd said:
Had a really lovely experience this weekend... just wanted to share a smile with some of yall.

I felt like Julia Roberts' character in pretty woman - literally took my man's breath away as I decended the steps to have him and my kids waiting for me in the vestibule of his home. He was speechless and my kids were giggling and clapping saying, "Mommy, you look soooooooo beautiful!"

It has been a very long time since I had been so nervous and put so much ceremony into getting ready for "a date". My kids were watching me put my makeup on, asking questions about all kinds of "gurl stuff"; clomping around in my shoes and holding my little bag and putting on my hat pretending to be me. It was so nice. I haven't had an experience like this for many many years, matter of fact, I never again thought I would.

My kids LOVE teasing me shamelessly now that me and my guy are "dating" heheheheheeee. They are now asking me, "Mommy can I be a flower girl and wear a pretty dress and flowers in my hair when you marry him?"

I know it might seem silly to some of you, especially to the guys. But there is just something about the feeling a woman has when her guy looks at her in a way as if to question whether or not she is real.... I used to be a dancer and modeled a bit, competed so I had been objectified to the nth degree. I understood what I was doing so it was all good. One of the things, however, that used to bother me most about the dancing is how I had to "sell my smile". I hated it and longed for the day when I would smile like that again - for real - and for only one man.

Now WE feel like we are becoming a family... We were all so sad when we had to leave Sunday afternoon and then again, when my kids' father came and got them for the week. I can't wait for all the stupidity to FINALLY be over and my kids and I can live happily ever after.

I am so fortunate to have him in our lives... :rose:
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good for you, Werd - you deserve the best. Not to be "Reality check guy" but, just make sure you don't let all the great feelings of the start of a relationship set you up for disappointment further down the road. Keeo your head in the clouds but your feet on the ground is all I'm saying. :rose:
 
LOL hehehehehehehehee Gymgurl - I have been called far worse by so many ignorant asses it is unbelievable. hehehehehehehehee

I have known this man for 3+ years. We have been on again off again all that time. But we both had some "stuff" to go through before it could have worked between us...

The only reason I used the "Pretty Woman" analogy is because I was accused of doing far worse than hooking. He knows all about me - how I had been hung out to dry with all sorts of lies and bullshit propoganda and about how I used to dance to support us.

Fancy restaurant? LOL There is no restaurant that I could go to where I would feel out of place. If the meal is being paid for, what do I give a shit what the staff thinks?

No, this was a reception at the home of one his very dear friends. I had never been in the company of such people... not that they dont put their pants on one leg at a time like the rest of us. But if it were one of you who was not raised in wealth, social status and celebrity tell me that you wouldn't feel a bit afraid.

And EVERYONE (that mattered) was genuine and very gracious. My guy treated me like a princess (as he always does regardless of the situation). Just an example of how: There were many area rugs. Every single time we approached one, my man would hold my hand and say, "Careful of the rug honey, dont fall." I accidentally dropped a piece of paper from a chocolate and before the paper could hit the ground he picked it up. This man is quite a bit older than me and I am fully capable of walking intelligently and picking up anything I drop, but he insists on being THAT attentive.

I asked him if he was always this way. His answer? "Why would I not be? Women are to be worshipped and adored..." Quite a HYUGE difference than how my ex treated me.
 
KillahBee said:
good for you, Werd - you deserve the best. Not to be "Reality check guy" but, just make sure you don't let all the great feelings of the start of a relationship set you up for disappointment further down the road. Keeo your head in the clouds but your feet on the ground is all I'm saying. :rose:
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As much as a romantic as I would like to be all I have to say is WORD!!!!!! Way to easy to get sweept up into things and then be heart brokin in the end.
Side not I used to love watching my Mom get ready when I was a kid. :)
 
superqt4u2nv said:
As much as a romantic as I would like to be all I have to say is WORD!!!!!! Way to easy to get sweept up into things and then be heart brokin in the end.
Side not I used to love watching my Mom get ready when I was a kid. :)
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Feel ya QT! I have been taking shit real slow... Like I said, this man has been in and outta my life for over 3 years - we have no secrets. Our relationship has been anything but conventional.

Whenever I tell him, "I love you." He always replies, "I love you more first." My reply is, "Maybe first, but definitely not more."

I know that he has loved me for a very long time but as I said, we both had to have a lot of life happen before we could begin to be where we are now. And it is so nice to be in a relationship where there is no fighting, yelling, degrading, no hurtful little comments, we do NOT raise our voices, there is no lying... Every relationship I have ever had in the past has been so fucked up it is almost as if I dont know how to behave....

Every time I think that by opening up about something he will run screaming from the room or I will piss him off - it doesnt happen! He comforts and reassures me all the time. He is very patient and loving and just keeps surprizing me in the most pleasant ways.

I am not blinded by lust for the first time in my life.... but I am madly, helplessly and hopelessly in love.
 
I am happy for you Werd, you deserve a man like that, you know full well I am slightly jaded at the moment.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I am happy for you Werd, you deserve a man like that, you know full well I am slightly jaded at the moment.
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I know darlin'.... I know.

I know it hurts now. I just got forwarded yet another email from an old jerk bf who was playin me from the start... from ONE of the women he was playin me with (actually he knew her first LOL). He was truly an asshole and I fell for him hook, line and sinker but I learned SO MUCH from the experience.

Funny, now me and the girl are friends! :)
 
Wow. This has the makings of a great story especially around here where there seems to be alot of sadness with suicide / accidents and too much politics.
 
Nice for you! :)

Pretty Woman sucks tho since Julia is a freak, cant belive that some see her as the most beautiful woman in the world. :chomp:
 
I am so happy for you :) Everytime I read your post about how this man makes you feel I think of a special someone :heart:

I was smiling ear to ear reading about how your girls were watching you apply you makeup and walking around in your shoes it gave me chills right down my spine. ;)
 
friskygrl2004 said:
I am so happy for you :) Everytime I read your post about how this man makes you feel I think of a special someone :heart:
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I know who you speak of and yes, I do agree! He IZ special, but very VERY special!!! :heart:

friskygrl2004 said:
I was smiling ear to ear reading about how your girls were watching you apply you makeup and walking around in your shoes it gave me chills right down my spine. ;)
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He was gushing to everyone about how pretty I looked. He had only seen me once with makeup on (other than in my modeling pics) and that was the first time we met for our job interview 3+ years ago! He asked me how I learned to apply makeup, etc.. Funny story because I wasn't allowed to wear it until I was old enough to date - 16 I had no one to show me. My parents were very oldfashioned and my mom was not very big on makeup herself. So I learned from watching the really pretty girls apply it in the bathroom in high school. Then later on I learned more when I modeled, but that wasn't until my early 30's.

He asked me if I would like a vanity. I told him that I'd always wanted a pretty little mirrored table w/chair so I could sit and fix my hair and apply my makeup for special occasions. So he said, "Then we'll go shopping to buy you one and put it in the dressing room!"

I really feel sometimes like I AM a princess.... No one has EVER been so kind and attentive to me.

Thanks to all of you for you well-wishes and light-hearted teasing!!!
 

goddamn bro, I just wrote about 3 paragraphs in response to this thread (a little less to-the-point than yours) but deleted it cause I didnt want to rain on her parade, cause she is good people.
 
KillahBee said:
goddamn bro, I just wrote about 3 paragraphs in response to this thread (a little less to-the-point than yours) but deleted it cause I didnt want to rain on her parade, cause she is good people.
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She has a parade for her with every thread she posts.
 
TC2 said:
She has a parade for her with every thread she posts.
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i was just gonna say that it is obvious that attention is the key to any relationship (guy giving to girl) and that it has become and epidemic. no matter how much you want to fluff it up by talking about love and feelings and whatnot, it all comes down to making the girl feel like a "princess". but, regardless, Werd is a good chick and deserves to be happy either way.
 
" it all comes down to making the girl feel like a "princess"".

I sorry man but this is the exact mentality that has made women so fucked up today.
 
TC2 said:
" it all comes down to making the girl feel like a "princess"".

I sorry man but this is the exact mentality that has made women so fucked up today.
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What I think Killah is saying is that it is about making you partner feel special no matter the sex. I don't see anything wrong with that. We all want and need to feel special.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
What I think Killah is saying is that it is about making you partner feel special no matter the sex. I don't see anything wrong with that. We all want and need to feel special.
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right and wrong. a mutual exchange of making each other feel special is obviously a part of any relationship. it jsut seems that women (obviously a generalization) have taken it too far and all theycare about is attention. and they will argue to the day's end that it's not about attention, but love and feelings. when I read Werd's words (lol), the common theme that jumps out at me is "He gives me attention and bends over backwards for me". To some, that sounds like love. To me, that sounds like my major problem with the mentality of women (the ones I have come across).
 
superqt4u2nv said:
What I think Killah is saying is that it is about making you partner feel special no matter the sex. I don't see anything wrong with that. We all want and need to feel special.
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Excellent point. I actually discussed the "Pretty Woman" story with a guy friend the other night. He wanted to know just what kind of romance I'm looking for in my life. He thought I might want the limo/fire escape/flowers thing. Nope, and that's the whole point of Werd's story. The guy didn't show up and sweep her off her feet. He's showing her his emotions and feelings with a single look. So much can be said with just a look or a smile. It's the little things that matter and it's the little things we should focus on in a relationship.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
What I think Killah is saying is that it is about making you partner feel special no matter the sex. I don't see anything wrong with that. We all want and need to feel special.
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I used to beleive that too.

Problem is that women don't appreciate it once they have it, That's why "nice guys " finish last.
 
PHATchik said:
Excellent point. I actually discussed the "Pretty Woman" story with a guy friend the other night. He wanted to know just what kind of romance I'm looking for in my life. He thought I might want the limo/fire escape/flowers thing. Nope, and that's the whole point of Werd's story. The guy didn't show up and sweep her off her feet. He's showing her his emotions and feelings with a single look. So much can be said with just a look or a smile. It's the little things that matter and it's the little things we should focus on in a relationship.
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I guess different eyes see things in different ways. As I said, the point of her story when I read it is, "I am a princess and I need attention". PS - not trying to flame Werd. She is good people.
 
TC2 said:
I used to beleive that too.

Problem is that women don't appreciate it once they have it, That's why "nice guys " finish last.
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Whoa, don't generalize. You can't put all women into one category. The same goes for men. I can't say all men are assholes...just some.
 
PHATchik said:
Whoa, don't generalize. You can't put all women into one category. The same goes for men. I can't say all men are assholes...just some.
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I think that I can gereralize since I've dated a broad(no pun intended) spectrum of women and its always been the same thing.


"when I read Werd's words (lol), the common theme that jumps out at me is "He gives me attention and bends over backwards for me". To some, that sounds like love. To me, that sounds like my major problem with the mentality of women (the ones I have come across)."
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Good for you girl!
I know just how you feel having someone that cares for you that much and makes you feel that way.
Devastation makes me smile all the time, just as you described. He is my heart and mine is his to keep.
Im happy for you girl.

Dakotah
 
TC2 said:
I think that I can gereralize since I've dated a broad(no pun intended) spectrum of women and its always been the same thing.


"when I read Werd's words (lol), the common theme that jumps out at me is "He gives me attention and bends over backwards for me". To some, that sounds like love. To me, that sounds like my major problem with the mentality of women (the ones I have come across)."
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Honey, then you can generalize your taste in women but not the whole sex.

I've learned that you can't compare one man to another simply because you've been hurt by one in the past and keep waiting for the new man to screw up too. Not all men are alike and neither are all women. I don't want a man to bend over backwards for me, but I do expect him to show me he cares, in whatever way he can. I know it can be hard for some men to show their emotions. Hell, it's just as hard for me to show mine. I was told the other night that I not only have a wall up, but I have a drawbridge and moat to go with it. Of course, he said that he also thinks I need to put up a sign that says, "Vacancy...room for rent." lol.

I'm not expecting flowery poetry or jewelry or any of that stuff. But I expect to know he cares about me, needs me, and wants me. That's not that much to ask for.
 
PHATchik said:
Honey, then you can generalize your taste in women but not the whole sex.

I've learned that you can't compare one man to another simply because you've been hurt by one in the past and keep waiting for the new man to screw up too. Not all men are alike and neither are all women. I don't want a man to bend over backwards for me, but I do expect him to show me he cares, in whatever way he can. I know it can be hard for some men to show their emotions. Hell, it's just as hard for me to show mine. I was told the other night that I not only have a wall up, but I have a drawbridge and moat to go with it. Of course, he said that he also thinks I need to put up a sign that says, "Vacancy...room for rent." lol.

I'm not expecting flowery poetry or jewelry or any of that stuff. But I expect to know he cares about me, needs me, and wants me. That's not that much to ask for.
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No that's not too much to ask for at all.
 
TC2 said:
I used to beleive that too.

Problem is that women don't appreciate it once they have it, That's why "nice guys " finish last.
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Killahbee - I am not taking any of your comments out of context. And to some extent you are correct.

Let me tell you a little bit about how my ex treated me.

I was faithfully married over a decade - always asked him how his day was and listened carefully when he told me as I truly cared about what he had to say. I made him hand made valentines out of construction paper every year we knew each other. A day did not go by that I didn't tell him how much I loved him and how happy I was that he was my husband and he was the father of our children. Problem with this?

Birthdays, valentines, christmas, mother's day... all the same as the day before and the day after. It wasn't about the money. It was about the thought. I set a ridiculously low amount we were allowed to spend at first because we couldnt afford it, then it was to see how creative and thoughtful he would be. HE ALWAYS LET ME DOWN AS HE WAS "TOO BUSY" thinking about work and "he wasn't good at that sort of thing". Meanwhile I was busy with our little children making handmade gifts and cards for him.... but I wasn't too busy and good thing I was "good at that sort of thing" eh? He never asked me how my day was nor did he particularly care as "the kids were my thing."

One year I caught the flu. He left me to take care of several small children while I was too sick to get off the couch for 5 days. The oldest child was 5, the youngest an infant. I HAD NO HELP. If he was sick, then he would have not gone to work and stayed in bed as he always did. I wasn't allowed sick days, nor vacation days - I worked 24/7 and did it gladly because I was so pleased to be able to have children. It took me 13 months just to conceive my first child.

And I stayed (my fault completely) until he finally beat me to the ground one night in a jealous rage....

As Phatchick stated it isn't about the flowers/limo/getting swept off my feet that is making me fall deeper in love. Been there/done that was sold a fantasy by a total asshole. I dont want a fantasy.

This guy is for real.

And does this thread smack of "attention".... yes, I am sharing some happy news for a change.

It isn't that I am all that and a bag of chips.... not at all. Just enjoy sharing happiness instead of all the negative crap that has been part of our lives since I kicked that asshole to the curb.
 
Werd said:
Killahbee - I am not taking any of your comments out of context. And to some extent you are correct.

Let me tell you a little bit about how my ex treated me.

I was faithfully married over a decade - always asked him how his day was and listened carefully when he told me as I truly cared about what he had to say. I made him hand made valentines out of construction paper every year we knew each other. A day did not go by that I didn't tell him how much I loved him and how happy I was that he was my husband and he was the father of our children. Problem with this?

Birthdays, valentines, christmas, mother's day... all the same as the day before and the day after. It wasn't about the money. It was about the thought. I set a ridiculously low amount we were allowed to spend at first because we couldnt afford it, then it was to see how creative and thoughtful he would be. HE ALWAYS LET ME DOWN AS HE WAS "TOO BUSY" thinking about work and "he wasn't good at that sort of thing". Meanwhile I was busy with our little children making handmade gifts and cards for him.... but I wasn't too busy and good thing I was "good at that sort of thing" eh? He never asked me how my day was nor did he particularly care as "the kids were my thing."

One year I caught the flu. He left me to take care of several small children while I was too sick to get off the couch for 5 days. The oldest child was 5, the youngest an infant. I HAD NO HELP. If he was sick, then he would have not gone to work and stayed in bed as he always did. I wasn't allowed sick days, nor vacation days - I worked 24/7 and did it gladly because I was so pleased to be able to have children. It took me 13 months just to conceive my first child.

And I stayed (my fault completely) until he finally beat me to the ground one night in a jealous rage....

As Phatchick stated it isn't about the flowers/limo/getting swept off my feet that is making me fall deeper in love. Been there/done that was sold a fantasy by a total asshole. I dont want a fantasy.

This guy is for real.

And does this thread smack of "attention".... yes, I am sharing some happy news for a change.

It isn't that I am all that and a bag of chips.... not at all. Just enjoy sharing happiness instead of all the negative crap that has been part of our lives since I kicked that asshole to the curb.
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This is why I said I am happy for you and that my comments are not directed towards to. My words are really just based on the girls my age that I have had to deal with. They bought into the fairy tale and all they want and/or recognize is the fake "attention" that makes them feel like a princess, not the real attention.
 
KillahBee said:
This is why I said I am happy for you and that my comments are not directed towards to. My words are really just based on the girls my age that I have had to deal with. They bought into the fairy tale and all they want and/or recognize is the fake "attention" that makes them feel like a princess, not the real attention.
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I used to be one of those girls. I was determined that there was a guy waiting out there with a white horse ready to ride me off into the sunset. I've come to realize that I don't need a white horse or a sunset. Simply being loved and loving someone else can be just as wonderful as any shiny armor or white horses.
 
KillahBee said:
This is why I said I am happy for you and that my comments are not directed towards to. My words are really just based on the girls my age that I have had to deal with. They bought into the fairy tale and all they want and/or recognize is the fake "attention" that makes them feel like a princess, not the real attention.
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Big Kiss for you Mr Killah!
 
PHATchik said:
I used to be one of those girls. I was determined that there was a guy waiting out there with a white horse ready to ride me off into the sunset. I've come to realize that I don't need a white horse or a sunset. Simply being loved and loving someone else can be just as wonderful as any shiny armor or white horses.
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Yep - many girls I have been with simply equate love or caring with listening to them tell stories or bitch or whine. For me it goes deeper than that. But many girls have trouble recognizing true love or caring when it is not in these superficial forms.
 
KillahBee said:
Yep - many girls I have been with simply equate love or caring with listening to them tell stories or bitch or whine. For me it goes deeper than that. But many girls have trouble recognizing true love or caring when it is not in these superficial forms.
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Some people only know how to respond in superficial means. Me? I've never been big on how big a ring he would buy me or if he would show up at my door regularly with a dozen roses. (Although a flower every now and then would be nice.) It's the little things that make a relationship, not the big ones.
 
indyjones said:
do you still have the black boots?

I really like the boots
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No - I had to sell most of my dancer-gear, the black boots included.

HOWEVER

I do still have the white lace-up ones.

I just realized that my guy has NEVER seen me dance and how I haven't danced ('cept around the house and behind the counter here at work LOL) since I quit Sept of last year. So he said we would go to some local amatuer night some time.

We'll see how serious he is. I'll offer to go to the local costume lady and have her make me another costum outfit like the fav I designed 2 years ago. It had very very long flowing poet sleeves, sheer white stretch fabric that glowed crazy underneath the black lights. Had tiny little daisies sewn to hide all the "important parts" LOL. It had a teeny little thong bottom with a long wrap that was down over my heels in the back but open all the way in the front to show the daisies over my *cough*. Damn was that outfit a bitch to wear because the sleeves were so long, but I always felt like an angel when I had it on. I would turn a lot with my arms extended outward and upward so it was very visually stunning... had the costume made specifically because of the way I danced. When it was time to take the wrap off I would keep turning as I opened it then finally doing the booty-shake before I slowly dropped it from my behind.

I never danced for a man that got to have ALL of me - the fantasy and reality... I just want to do it one more time for him. VERY EROTIC fantasy for me.

Gosh, I feel like such a silly schoolgirl!... such a pleasant feeling after all we've been through and at my age - I am nearly 40!!! I was so devastated for such a long time because of the failure of my marriage and all the subsequent bullshit. I feel so alive and full of hope for our future. My guy is so attentive to me, makes me constantly think of pleasant little ways to show how much I love him. Just the other day I thought I would surprize him by cleaninig his glasses for him (He has them all over the house LOL). Gosh, I know how annoying it is when my glasses are full of smudges.

It is the gentle little acts of kindness that make and keep a relationship alive. These are what make a woman feel like a princess - not "store-bought" dime novel romance bullshit. If a woman does not appreciate your kindness and attention then she does not deserve you, bid her farewell and move on.



Code - how you doin hot daddy?! :qt:
 
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