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Note: this post is totally inspired from the EMINEM thread. I do not hate men (pissed off time to time) nor is this post directed at any one person even if it seems to be directed to a group of people. Oh AND it has little to nothing to do with state of affairs of Eminems's life, kid, wife or child suppore woes.
It's seems to me a lot of the males on this board seem to be of the mind that women are basically useless whores that on occasion pop out children that will have pay for in one way or another.
(No flame guys, my father thinks women are useless whores too and HA! he's well respected and patient adored doctor for women - go figure.)
ANywhoooooooo
Put HER money where your big mouth is:
Would you marry a girl that HANDED YOU a pre-nup that basically states: You come in with nothing and you leave with nothing and after X amount of years you leave with X amount of $. THE END.
Would you do it? Would you admit it to your friends?
What if your wife divorced you and said, NOPE you can have custody and I WILL tell you what I think is enough money to raise your (no longer our) kid. (Not that it matters, it's the judge that decides anyway.)
I say no, because most of you just talk BIG.
Side note: To relate to the *other thread* $140K is not a lot when you think of it in relative terms as to someone's income.
Ron Perlman's ex sued him last year or the year before that $185K wasn't enough for their 5 year old daughter. When you have a private jet to take your kid to a friends house - $185 is nothing.
While if you make $100k a year, of course it's a lot money.
It's all relative. Remember that.
In terms you'll understand:
20lbs on a 5'9" frame seems like a lot - but 20lbs on 6'3" frame is not so much.
*cough* - I stand corrected! (see below) I should STATE I meant 20lbs muscle mass - not fat.
It's seems to me a lot of the males on this board seem to be of the mind that women are basically useless whores that on occasion pop out children that will have pay for in one way or another.
(No flame guys, my father thinks women are useless whores too and HA! he's well respected and patient adored doctor for women - go figure.)
ANywhoooooooo
Put HER money where your big mouth is:
Would you marry a girl that HANDED YOU a pre-nup that basically states: You come in with nothing and you leave with nothing and after X amount of years you leave with X amount of $. THE END.
Would you do it? Would you admit it to your friends?
What if your wife divorced you and said, NOPE you can have custody and I WILL tell you what I think is enough money to raise your (no longer our) kid. (Not that it matters, it's the judge that decides anyway.)
I say no, because most of you just talk BIG.
Side note: To relate to the *other thread* $140K is not a lot when you think of it in relative terms as to someone's income.
Ron Perlman's ex sued him last year or the year before that $185K wasn't enough for their 5 year old daughter. When you have a private jet to take your kid to a friends house - $185 is nothing.
While if you make $100k a year, of course it's a lot money.
It's all relative. Remember that.
In terms you'll understand:
20lbs on a 5'9" frame seems like a lot - but 20lbs on 6'3" frame is not so much.
*cough* - I stand corrected! (see below) I should STATE I meant 20lbs muscle mass - not fat.