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just heard something sad that happened to a friend, please pray...life is cruel sometimes, dig deep...love is around you
 
now that the cat is out of the bag, this post is for smalls.
 
High I've lost her phone number, if you think a cal from Ireland is in order shot it to me on a PM. Honestly she won't mind as we've spoken before, just Saturday morning in fact.

Bouncer
 
Actually it was Thursday evening/Friday morning when we spoke on the telephone, not Saturday, and she was really looking forward to going out Friday evening.
God bless the kid.

Bouncer
 
I'm still at a loss for words . . . and will reserve prayers and postive thoughts exclusively for smalls.
 
After dating someone that had that happen to them, well needless to say I have issues about it. Smalls you are in my thoughts. I swear to God I would ball bat the motherfucker.
 
She will be in my prayers:angel: I don't know what happened but I hope everything will be OK, she seems like a really cool girl.
 
She was with her family the last time we spoke so she's out of harms way at least. She was handling things fairly well...or at least as well as could be expected.

I will talk to her or her in the next day or two. I'll let you guys know how she's doing.
 
Guys thanks for the concern shown through your posting here and PM's to me. I've emailed Smalls and expressed our wishes. PLease keep the support coming.

Bouncer
 
Smalls sweetie, as you can see, we all care deeply and wish you well. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that you come through this stronger than before...
 
Smalls, I feel very helpless because I don't have the words...

MANY of us have been "tainted" by such events, we felt dirty and evil and blamed ourselves...

There are so many things in life that I don't know, but one thing that I KNOW WITHOUT A DOUBT is THAT IT IS NEVER OUR FAULT...

Regardless of who or how, regardless of how old/young we were, whether we were innocent children or nearly/fully grown adults.... it hurts just the same.

The pain never REALLY leaves, but it is greatly diminished with time and the love and support of our friends and family....

I wish that I had the words to try and console you, even help you up from where you are, but I don't know them....

Only KNOW THIS:

YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON WHO DESERVES LOVE -

BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE ALL THE TIME, IT DOES NOT MAKE US "UNCLEAN" TO BE TOUCHED BY SUCH FILTH... IT ONLY MEANS THAT WE MUST NOW TRY AND FIND A WAY TO SHINE AGAIN....

YOU CAN AND WILL SHINE AGAIN BEAUTIFUL AL... Of this I HAVE NO DOUBT. Your external beauty PALES in comparison to your TRUE BEAUTY... the beauty the remains unchanged by the ravages of time and CAN NEVER BE TARNISHED BY SUCH FILTH!... THE BEAUTY THAT LIES WITHIN AND GOES ON FOREVER....

THE BEAUTY THAT IS YOUR SOUL.
 
thanks everyone. i just came on to let you know what was new with the situation... it's on that alcohol thread.

reading all of this made me cry... it really means a lot to know you care.

thanks.
 
I was deeply shocked when I heard. My prayers are with you mate.

Let us know if there is anything we can do.
 
Smalls although we're separated by 7 hours and two worlds apart you know you have a friend here.


Bouncer
 
Talking to a fellow Mod, and we have alot of friends in that area...if need be, services will be arranged for you....perhaps they will talk to the gentleman in question...you have but to ask, and it shall be done.....Period, no questions asked either way!!!

Ranger
 
The Ranger said:
Talking to a fellow Mod, and we have alot of friends in that area...if need be, services will be arranged for you....perhaps they will talk to the gentleman in question...you have but to ask, and it shall be done.....Period, no questions asked either way!!!

Ranger

ohh SOB is in Canada ? hummm mounty job !
 
Yup....Mounty job all the way.......!!

Mount that fuckers head and make him a fucking veggie for life....I'd like to leave him nothing below the neck but memories....Heh heh heh.....<evil Laugh>!!

Ranger
 
The Ranger said:
Yup....Mounty job all the way.......!!

Mount that fuckers head and make him a fucking veggie for life....I'd like to leave him nothing below the neck but memories....Heh heh heh.....<evil Laugh>!!

Ranger

So can I know what happened for real ? Seems like everyone knows except me. Thanks.
 
Prayer Sent

Don't know you - like your style & humor though! My thoughts are with you!
 
I feel terrible for waiting so long to comment on the recent events, considering that I consider smalls a good friend of mine. I think now that I can say something without getting too emotional.

Alison,

I'm sorry I couldn't find more soothing words, yesterday. I handle situations like this very poorly. I'd give my health to be able to take away what happened or even create words that would ease how you feel. When I imagine how you must feel right now, tears well up and I thank god that you have your family are around to care for you.

The levity of this situation just recently hit me.

I seriously sat down and thought about the pain that you must be coping with right now and a deep rage builds inside me. I'd want nothing more than to hurt this guy in the most unimaginable way. You can't fathom the relief I felt when Taps told me that you decided to call the authorities. I would respect any decision you make, but it's nice to hear that this scumbag will at least be recognized for the waste of flesh her truly is.

Know this--you are a bright, sensative, beautiful person who doesn't deserve this in the slightest bit. Don't ever consider this to be your fault or some type of punishment for anything done in the past. No human being deserves to be degraded and violated like you've been.

Please remember that I'm a phone call away and I will literally do anything and everything in my power to help you out in any possible way. Don't let this guy take away your luster, al. You were on the fast track to getting your life straight. This is just a small setback. Never let life's bad cards knock you down. You'll always be in my prayers. Sleep tight, gorgeous.

For everyone else...Please accept my deepest gratitude. You guys and gals are both an important part of my and al's life. I'm sure we all agree that we're a family of sorts and it warms me inside to see us all stick together and support one of our sisters in her time of need. God bless you all.
 
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Just to clarify, Alison was assaulted on friday night/early saturday while she was out cold from drinking too much in her own bedroom. Her room mate's friend did it and she came to catch him in the act, only to pass out again.

She didn't drink too much, however...Her medication amplified the effects and caused the extreme symptoms. She didn't realize this until now.
 
Boach, THANKS.

I'm stuck for words as to how much your kind words here are appricated by me, and everyone else here I'm sure. LIke you, I consider Smalls a friend and a really sweet kid.

Cheers.

Bouncer
 
I still find this situation extremely hard to deal with. As some of you know, I know smalls in real life. She is indeed a great person, and to think that something like this could happen literally makes me ill.

Boach, that was really a great post. You just summed up my own feelings, as likely the feelings of many others as well.

Alison, if you happen to read this...I know the two of us don't always see eye to eye, but I really consider you a friend and if there's anything I can do (even moving your stuff from the old appartment or whatever), please, please let me know. Remember that this horrible incident isn't your fault -- you were doing an amazing job getting your life back on track, and I pray this won't set you back.

There are a lot of people here who really care about you; remember that too. :)
 
I'm hoping you're alright and they catch the SOB that did this. Keep you head high and remember we're always thinking of you!
 
Boach said:
Just to clarify, Alison was assaulted on friday night/early saturday while she was out cold from drinking too much in her own bedroom. Her room mate's friend did it and she came to catch him in the act, only to pass out again.


Do they know who this prick is? Castrate him.

Smalls, You have my prayers for peace from God on this. Life will get better.
 
Cure said:
I'm hoping you're alright and they catch the SOB that did this. Keep you head high and remember we're always thinking of you!

SHould be a matter of days........... Regina is so small. No place to hide.
 
Ranger or anyone - If I can send some money to ensure that a finger is cut off with a cigar trimmer - let me know.
 
Since someone finds it neccessary to keep unsticking this I'll just bump it back up to the top for any of smalls friends who may not have been around to see the post.

Guys your all the best here, no wonder elitefitness continues to attract the very best.

Bouncer
 
it's a joke that this can't stay a sticky but

phenylpropanolamine products recalled - look if you got kids

can stay a fuckin sticky for like 3 weeks...
 
WTF is going on around on this planet??? This is so disturbing to me. TWO of our girls have been violated recently...one has no relation to the other, but this bothers me deeply...It makes me want to find an answer as to why bad things happen to good people. Just when you're living a pretty nice life, some sick evil bastard decides to mess it all up! :mad:

Smalls and Dread Lady you are both in my thoughts, I hope you will be able to find the strength in you tough girls to cope with this horrific episode in your life. I hope those friggin criminals get exactly what they deserve and more.
 
smalls although i never got a chance to get to know you,ya seem like a great person,and im sorry you have to go through this,i really dont know what to say but stay strong
 
Taps said:
Remember that this horrible incident isn't your fault -- you were doing an amazing job getting your life back on track, and I pray this won't set you back.

There are a lot of people here who really care about you; remember that too. :)

Very well said Taps, well said indeed. I don't get to visit the board as much due to a heavy school and work load now, plus other outside projects I'm working on so words are hard to even think about right now cause I'm fried. But I agree with everything you said Taps.

Smalls you have done some pretty amazing things in your life and I feel from what I do know about you is that you're a very strong person and will continue to move forward. It's difficult to deal with but with time comes healing . . . stay strong.
 
Persevere, my friend :)

We ALL know you can do it--- it can only make you a stronger and wiser person in the end....
 
It is terrible to hear what has happened, smalls.

It has been my experience that our character is defined in our hardest times. I know by seeing you on the board, that you are a strong individual and that you will overcome this tragic occurence.

May Christ renew your strength and peace of mind.

And may the individual who did this pay a bitter and conclusive price!


HM
 
Peace and strength to Smalls, Dread Lady and all other members visited by this type of .... the word "asshole" is too kind.
 
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