Please help with some good objective advise.

[Cornobbled]

Here is the situation. My girlfriend that I live with is an awesome girl. She loves me dearly. We have been together for 6 months. We met for a booty call and ended up together. She is bi. We have a girlfriend that we play with a couple times per month. She is perfect in so many ways. She does not care that I juice. She lets me have sex with other girls including our girlfriend. She honestly likes watching me enjoying myself. The problem is that she works 6 days per week as a professional musician. She loves her job. I would never ask her to do anything else. But I like to get out and do things. I like to camp, travel, etc. She cannot do anything like this and does not even care to. BTW pics in my gallery. I have asked her to move out. She is leaving in three weeks. I love her dearly but I want more than what she can offer.

Then there is this other girl that I met. She is smoken hot. She is athletic, tanned, toned, sexual. We get along so well. She likes to do everything that I like to do. Motorcycles, camping, sex. We hooked up a week ago. She knows the situation. She does not care that I juice either as she is a bbr. She is not bi, but has been with a girl. Probably open to it again the more I talk to her.

I do not know what to do. Hurt the girl that you love dearly and throw her out to hook up with one that might be better or stay and work it out and break the new girl’s heart. It is so hard I go back and forth. Both of them are so perfect in their own ways. WTF should I do?

 

[HumorMe]

Oh the humanity of it all.....














j/k

 

[biteme]

Decisions, decisions. They're rarely easy. I don't know what to tell you. You have to make yourself happy, unfortunately most of us are not sure how to do that. I hate to hurt people, but it's the nature of the game.

 

[CFZB]

Here is the situation.

my parents went away on a weeks vacation... and ...

 

[Cornobbled]

It just sucks you guys. I hate hurting other people. I feel like crap. My training, diet, sleep is all suffering. I am mid cycle and all fucked up. Just no idea how to handle this.

 

[biteme]

It just sucks you guys. I hate hurting other people. I feel like crap. My training, diet, sleep is all suffering. I am mid cycle and all fucked up. Just no idea how to handle this.

I know. I'd rather have someone hurt me than me hurt someone else. Sux.

 

[Bullit]

Here's some advice: you spell it 'a-d-v-i-c-e' not "advise".

Here's some more advice: use a spellchecker.

 

[Cornobbled]

Here's some advice: you spell it 'a-d-v-i-c-e' not "advise".

Here's some more advice: use a spellchecker.

Shit I didn't even catch that. For your information a spell checker wouldn't catch that anyway.

 

[Bullit]

You're welcome.

 

[RaZor Ramon]

Don't have kids. For Christ's sake don't have kids!!!! And have a good time.

 

[cutiepie04]

I realize that you care about your current girlfriend, but in the end if she shares none of your interests then you will end up hating her. She will eventually make you feel tied down, and not able to do the things you enjoy. Even if she allows you to do the things you like, it would be awful not to be able to share it with the person you love.

I say go with the girl you have more in common with. You obviously care deeply for both of them, but in the end I feel that it is a better decision. You can however stay friends with the other girl, and if your stars happen to align again then so be it. I think you made the right choice. I know that it is never fun to hurt someone, but in the end I think that this is better for everyone. It will save even more heartache in the end.

 

[Cornobbled]

I realize that you care about your current girlfriend, but in the end if she shares none of your interests then you will end up hating her. She will eventually make you feel tied down, and not able to do the things you enjoy. Even if she allows you to do the things you like, it would be awful not to be able to share it with the person you love.

I say go with the girl you have more in common with. You obviously care deeply for both of them, but in the end I feel that it is a better decision. You can however stay friends with the other girl, and if your stars happen to align again then so be it. I think you made the right choice. I know that it is never fun to hurt someone, but in the end I think that this is better for everyone. It will save even more heartache in the end.

Cutiepie, you rock. I really just needed someone to confirm that I was doing the right thing here. It is hard when hearts are in the way. We ended up having sex today cause she isn't moving out till the 28th and it just kinda happened. I am usually a completely honest person but I have not told her about the other girl. I did however tell the other girl that we had sex today and she said she understood and to do what I had to do to make this as easy on everyone as possible. She is so understanding. I don't deserve any of these girls. So the other girl actually said that the current girl probably needed that last romp before she moved on. She even said that she might need it again and to do it I felt that it needed to happen. Wow. What an awsome chic.

 

[gonelifting]

I say go with girl B, but if you say your current girl does`nt mind you seeing other women, then go with both. wtf?

 

[Cornobbled]

I say go with girl B, but if you say your current girl does`nt mind you seeing other women, then go with both. wtf?

That would be ideal. Just girl B isn't as open to that as girl A. I have feelings for both of them but girl B is out in front at the moment. I am letting girl A stay in my house till the 28th. Anybody wanna bet on how many times we end up doing it over the next 3 weeks?

 

[-SD-]

Train wreck. All of it.

 

[cutiepie04]

Well I am glad that I could be of some help. See even blondes have good advice every now and again. LOL. Hope it all works out for you.