People with issues regarding self esteem.

[bruce9241]

I have quite a few friends who are men, but act like women sometimes. They have self esteem issues. The thing about them is that the better you treat them, the worst they treat you(like most women). Sometimes you have to treat them like shit to set them straight.

It's a dilemma. It's tough. I don't like treating my friends like shit, but I have to because they get into these self esteem issue phases on a daily basis. How would you handle it? Would you just cut them off totally? It's like a constant game. The more I give in, the more they try to walk over me, but when I treat them like bitches, they kiss my ass.

 

[KillahBee]

I just don't give a fuck. That pretty much leads directly to happiness.

 

[-SD-]

I just don't give a fuck. That pretty much leads directly to happiness.

TITCR

(and cash that check is also titcr)

 

[bruce9241]

Yea heres the thing. These guys aren't bad guys. They're pretty cool everywhere else, but when it comes to their self esteem they don't have that part of themselves handled. When they get drunk sometimes they talk about how they're worthless and start questioning their worth. It's pretty shitty sometimes. If it were girls telling me they're worthless, I'd agree and then nail them in the ass while calling them a fat pig, but these are my guy friends.

 

[KillahBee]

Yea heres the thing. These guys aren't bad guys. They're pretty cool everywhere else, but when it comes to their self esteem they don't have that part of themselves handled. When they get drunk sometimes they talk about how they're worthless and start questioning their worth. It's pretty shitty sometimes. If it were girls telling me they're worthless, I'd agree and then nail them in the ass while calling them a fat pig, but these are my guy friends.

jesus, it's like me typing. beautiful.

eh, you can only do so much with that shit. the more you tell them what they wanna hear, the more they will revert to whining cause they recognize the pattern it creates (whining results in positive affection). you gotta find that balance between giving them the pep talk ('you're a good fucking kid with lots of potential') and telling them to nut the fuck up and do something about it.

 

[bruce9241]

jesus, it's like me typing. beautiful.

eh, you can only do so much with that shit. the more you tell them what they wanna hear, the more they will revert to whining cause they recognize the pattern it creates (whining results in positive affection). you gotta find that balance between giving them the pep talk ('you're a good fucking kid with lots of potential') and telling them to nut the fuck up and do something about it.

Yea that works. I do that sometimes. Sometimes I tell them they're doing better than others our age. Other times I tell them they're being a bitch and just man up and stop bitching.

 

[PhoenixS]

Tell them to stop being a sissy.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

get new friends

 

[bakemeacookie]

90% of women under 30 in this town hae major self-esteem issues. Good lord the attention whoring. Miss "daddy didn't give me enough attention as a kid".

c

 

[iggy]

agree with KB on this one.

 

[bran987]

bakemeacookie I want to know what this means in your sig! "King Obama $12T to old rich white men in 3 months. Well done america! "

 

[EnderJE]

Have you thought of nailing them in the ass and calling them a fat pig too?

 

[bakemeacookie]

bakemeacookie I want to know what this means in your sig! "King Obama $12T to old rich white men in 3 months. Well done america! "

black americans have gotten dick. white old rich men in suits on wall st have got trillions in corporate bailouts - which they use to buy foreign bonds and investments. awesome!

c

 

[KillahBee]

 

[chris302001]

My friends have self esteem issues = this problem is really about me, but my self esteem is too fragile to admit, so please, tell me what is wrong with them so that I may change myself.

 

[KillahBee]

get fake tits, like chicks do.