People who get multiple abortions

[Nathan]

Out of curiosity what are you thoughts on girls who have had more than one abortion? And she's in her early twenties let's say, say 20 years of age. So it's not like she's 40 or anything.

Do you think there's a point beyond which it reflects badly on the person who has had the abortions? Like a sign of low inteligence or irresponsibility? I can't help but think to myself there had better be a really good reason for that when I hear something like that. I definitely find it a turn-off anyways. It's hard not to judge that sort of thing I find. Shit happens, sure, but when exactly do you learn from your mistakes is what I end up thinking. Maybe I'm being too harsh though?

 

[heatherrae]

Out of curiosity what are you thoughts on girls who have had more than one abortion? And she's in her early twenties let's say, say 20 years of age. So it's not like she's 40 or anything.

Do you think there's a point beyond which it reflects badly on the person who has had the abortions? Like a sign of low inteligence or irresponsibility? I can't help but think to myself there had better be a really good reason for that when I hear something like that. I definitely find it a turn-off anyways. It's hard not to judge that sort of thing I find. Shit happens, sure, but when exactly do you learn from your mistakes is what I end up thinking. Maybe I'm being too harsh though?

So, let me understand this. You are not opposed to abortion unless a girl does it more than once? What if a girl had one in her early twenties and then one in her forties. Does the time gap make it more acceptable to you?

Personally, I guess it all depends on the circumstances, in my opinion. I also think people should go ahead and get it done very early if they are going to do it.

 

[jnevin]

It should be easier to talk them into doing anal.

 

[Nathan]

So, let me understand this. You are not opposed to abortion unless a girl does it more than once? What if a girl had one in her early twenties and then one in her forties. Does the time gap make it more acceptable to you?

Personally, I guess it all depends on the circumstances, in my opinion. I also think people should go ahead and get it done very early if they are going to do it.

It depends on the circumstance, like you said. I think if there's 20 years between the two incidents then the low frequency would suggest that for the most part, you are responsible. Either that or you spent twenty years not getting laid.

I don't think abortions are necessarily bad, but my ears definitely perk up when I ehar something like that and I'm thinking was it with a serious bf or some stranger, etc. Has it happened multiple times with a stranger? Are you the type of person who doesn't use their head very often and tends to make bad choices? Do you rely on them and are just as promiscuous as you feel like not giving a damn about the repercussions cause, hey, technology is good now so I can have my kids aborted and nobody will be the wiser since I won't have kids walking around giving my actions away.

 

[heatherrae]

It should be easier to talk them into doing anal.

LOL

 

[feisty11975]

It should be easier to talk them into doing anal.

hahahaha

 

[pin]

I know a chick like that. Ex stripper, junky yadda yadda. Its just irresponsibility gone crazy. Why wouldn't they just get thier tubes tied an be done with it. Instead of going through the emotional and physical pain over and over. Seems kinda masochistic to me.

 

[heatherrae]

It depends on the circumstance, like you said. I think if there's 20 years between the two incidents then the low frequency would suggest that for the most part, you are responsible. Either that or you spent twenty years not getting laid.

I don't think abortions are necessarily bad, but my ears definitely perk up when I ehar something like that and I'm thinking was it with a serious bf or some stranger, etc. Has it happened multiple times with a stranger? Are you the type of person who doesn't use their head very often and tends to make bad choices? Do you rely on them and are just as promiscuous as you feel like not giving a damn about the repercussions cause, hey, technology is good now so I can have my kids aborted and nobody will be the wiser since I won't have kids walking around giving my actions away.

Makes sense.

I knew a girl who would get pregnant on purpose and abort it at the last possible time that she could because it made her boobs bigger for several months. I swear to you! She said she hated fake boobs, so this was her solution. What a moron! I hated that girl.

 

[jnevin]

Makes sense.

I knew a girl who would get pregnant on purpose and abort it at the last possible time that she could because it made her boobs bigger for several months. I swear to you! She said she hated fake boobs, so this was her solution. What a moron! I hated that girl.

Holy fokin logic, batman.

 

[Smurfy]

repost!! lol

lots of judgments flying around this thread

say, hypothetically, I were to tell you that I had 5 abortions in my lifetime from age 18 to 25. nathan, would you suddenly think of me as trash? hypothetical of course

 

[manny78]

Make them pay for their abortion. To answer your question, you can make a mistake once (pill didnt work lol) but not twice.

 

[patsfan1379]

i know a girl who got pregnant from her fiance, they told all her family and 2 months later she get it aborted without his knowledge because she didnt want to get fat.

 

[Cutiebaby]

IMO yes it shows a lot of irresponsibility. People that dont want to risk getting pregnant should change their ways. Maybe use different forms of protection at the same time. Hell maybe be abstinant or whatever.
They are only wounding themselves in the end.After so many abortions they will eventually be un able to reproduce!
I have many opinions on this, but lets keep it simple!

 

[heatherrae]

Make them pay for their abortion. To answer your question, you can make a mistake once (pill didnt work lol) but not twice.

They do pay for the abortions. there is no government funding for abortions. Is that what you meant?

 

[reno240]

IMO yes it shows a lot of irresponsibility. People that dont want to risk getting pregnant should change their ways. Maybe use different forms of protection at the same time. Hell maybe be abstinant or whatever.
They are only wounding themselves in the end.After so many abortions they will eventually be un able to reproduce!
I have many opinions on this, but lets keep it simple!

Agreed - I was about to write this paragraph almost verbatim.

 

[Smurfy]

IMO yes it shows a lot of irresponsibility. People that dont want to risk getting pregnant should change their ways. Maybe use different forms of protection at the same time. Hell maybe be abstinant or whatever.
They are only wounding themselves in the end.After so many abortions they will eventually be un able to reproduce!
I have many opinions on this, but lets keep it simple!

I dont think anyone would disagree that having multiple abortions is irresponsible. but does irresponsibilty such as this make a person bad or trash, as nathan put it? i mean, there are a lot of people around this very place who are irresponsible in many different ways. shall we judge them solely on this? i do agree nathan, that it certainly send a red flag. it's not typical behavior thats for sure.

 

[Wulfgar]

A friend of mine has had 4 aboritions
she is 25
she just said she hates condoms and she doesnt like sex when the guy pulls out.
She is a little effed in the brain if u ask me

 

[Dial_tone]

 

[Cutiebaby]

I dont think anyone would disagree that having multiple abortions is irresponsible. but does irresponsibilty such as this make a person bad or trash, as nathan put it? i mean, there are a lot of people around this very place who are irresponsible in many different ways. shall we judge them solely on this? i do agree nathan, that it certainly send a red flag. it's not typical behavior thats for sure.

You know you want me!

Any how on topic here, yes I think that it makes them look bad after a certain point. I wouldnt say exactly like "trash" however it would sway my opinion on them some.

 

[Phenom78]

It should be easier to talk them into doing anal.

LMFAO

 

[heatherrae]

A friend of mine has had 4 aboritions
she is 25
she just said she hates condoms and she doesnt like sex when the guy pulls out.
She is a little effed in the brain if u ask me

Ummm...yeah, that is a little effed in the head that she would rather get a painful abortion than make a guy wear a rubber or have him pull out. She better start protecting herself or she could end up infertile, or worse. =-(

 

[heatherrae]

repost!! lol

lots of judgments flying around this thread

say, hypothetically, I were to tell you that I had 5 abortions in my lifetime from age 18 to 25. nathan, would you suddenly think of me as trash? hypothetical of course

Nah, I dont think that alone makes someone "trash." My best friend in the world had multiple abortions with her long term bf. They are married with 4 kids now. Every time she had to take antibiotics her pill wouldn't work. Then, she had norplant that had to come out and got pregnant the same month, etc, etc. She is so damned fertile that we used to laugh that she gets pregnant if she glances at a guy's crotch...lol.

 

[Wulfgar]

Ummm...yeah, that is a little effed in the head that she would rather get a painful abortion than make a guy wear a rubber or have him pull out. She better start protecting herself or she could end up infertile, or worse. =-(

thats what i told her
shes not to bright

 

[heatherrae]

thats what i told her
shes not to bright

You shagged her, didn't you? LOL.

 

[Nathan]

You shagged her, didn't you? LOL.

Of course he did, how else woul dhe know that stuff? And that's what I'm saying. In that girl's case, the red flag would go up then she'd say some shit like that and I'll be all laters.

 

[heatherrae]

Of course he did, how else woul dhe know that stuff? And that's what I'm saying. In that girl's case, the red flag would go up then she'd say some shit like that and I'll be all laters.

lol...no doubt.

 

[UA_Iron]

she could wear one of these:

 

[patsfan1379]

I dont think anyone would disagree that having multiple abortions is irresponsible. but does irresponsibilty such as this make a person bad or trash, as nathan put it? i mean, there are a lot of people around this very place who are irresponsible in many different ways. shall we judge them solely on this? i do agree nathan, that it certainly send a red flag. it's not typical behavior thats for sure.

i say yes, your actions and decisions define your life.

if multiple abortions truly were due to being a dope, then yes you are trash.

 

[mrdeeznuts]

Out of curiosity what are you thoughts on girls who have had more than one abortion? And she's in her early twenties let's say, say 20 years of age. So it's not like she's 40 or anything.

Do you think there's a point beyond which it reflects badly on the person who has had the abortions? Like a sign of low inteligence or irresponsibility? I can't help but think to myself there had better be a really good reason for that when I hear something like that. I definitely find it a turn-off anyways. It's hard not to judge that sort of thing I find. Shit happens, sure, but when exactly do you learn from your mistakes is what I end up thinking. Maybe I'm being too harsh though?

buy her a pack of condoms or take her to the clinic for birth control pills

only a stupid bitch keeps getting pregnant unwantingly

 

[riverrock]

How hard is it to wear a hat in the first place!

 

[TightSlacks]

How hard is it to wear a hat in the first place!

Not very hard to remember for a guy like you who only needs to wear it once every few yrs.

 

[riverrock]

Not very hard to remember for a guy like you who only needs to wear it once every few yrs.

Don't rise to it riverrock, don't rise to it.....Hand on, I've risen to it already!!!

 

[Wulfgar]

You shagged her, didn't you? LOL.

ya, jeez. who do you think knocked her up all 4 times?

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

It's best to think logically about this. If they're willling to get the abortion, they probably would've been a bad parent had they kept the kid, meaning it's one more strain on the system and one more fucked up kid in the world that will most likely end up a junkie, murderer, thief, etc. Or maybe he/she could've been one of those miracle babies that isn't affected by any of it and goes on to produce life-saving cancer research. In any case we'll never know. Such is life. Nothing really surprises me anymore.

 

[-SD-]

It's best to think logically about this. If they're willling to get the abortion, they probably would've been a bad parent had they kept the kid, meaning it's one more strain on the system and one more fucked up kid in the world that will most likely end up a junkie, murderer, thief, etc. Or maybe he/she could've been one of those miracle babies that isn't affected by any of it and goes on to produce life-saving cancer research. In any case we'll never know. Such is life. Nothing really surprises me anymore.

Ammadaus Mozart.

 

[patsfan1379]

Ammadaus Mozart.

well said