Passionate vs. wild sex

[drewmaci]

Hey guys, having some trouble with the lady and I was looking for more bros perspective and thoughts. Our situation is my fiancé always needs to cuddle and hear " sweet things" from me to get her going. Which is not a problem. But she needs at least a half our when I'm horny as fuck and want to stop talking and more doing. Passionate sex is great... But every once in a while I just want to get fucked. Am I an animal for wanting this or is this just the difference between a male and female?? Bro thoughts??


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[O1s480]

Lol not at all man. But it is a two way street. Sometimes you have to suck it up and do all the foreplay shit. But she should at least be down for you too. Usually women like both, you just have to catch them at the right time.

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[bonacris]

There is a time and place for both.. my gf loves it when there is loads of foreplay and kissing and shit but she told me that she does like to be just fucked but it had to be spontaneous. She is very obliging though and I have never been turned down for sex.

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[Nelson Montana]

lol wrong section, but I'll bite.

Take it from an old guy who's been around the block a few times. All that cuddly shit gets old after a while and she'll lose interest. If the relationship is strong it should then be understood that sometimes sex is just fun and drive and passion. It isn;t always about "making love". Love is what you have together the REST of the time. Sex, is fucking. And at times it's a need. And if you have to wait until the circumstances are always right, you will indeed run into problems my friend. A good women wants to please her man. A good women gets a kick out of knowing she is being desired. It's power to her. That candles and rose pedals on the bed shit is in the movies and it shows insecurity. That's fine in the beginning or a romantic occasion. But all the time? It just becomes rote.

And I can;t tell you how many times I've heard the lament of women that the husbands and boyfriends want too much foreplay or want to last for hours. To put it in the words of a dear non bullshit friend who said -- "Sometimes I just want to get fucked." And sometimes I just want him to get off so I can finish folding the laundry." There's nothing wrong with that. It's life. And when couples don't want to do that for each other, that's when the trouble starts.

 

[PSFinAL]

I'm on wife number 2 and I'm 35. What I've learned is whether you want to or not is you have to appeal to her emotional side. I heard somewhere a long time ago that sex for a man is a short lived activity but for a woman it can be all day. Meaning that courting her, leaving love notes, sending flowers, and sweet nothings will get her going. I've been there done that thinking that I can do whatever I want and not pay attention to her emotions only to come up empty handed...well except jerking off, which sucks. I know this sounds like I have a box of Kotex but I've learned to be more of what my wife needs and it's paid off.


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[Mr. Chicago]

Haha I just had to answer this one too, I'm into year 4 with my gf and I don't cheat on her all that much so we do it almost daily. I agree with doing all the romantic stuff bc you can definitely tell the difference when it comes to sex. Regardless, lets get down to the answer to your question. Years ago when we first met and had been going at it for a while I had to explain this all to her. Even though frequency was good and performance, duration were all strong most of the time, occasionally we'd just be spooning in bed watching tv and i'll just kind of violently pull off what she has on and will wanna be in within seconds, so the first couple times I did this to her she would ever so sweetly say something along the lines of, "Honey, no forplay first?" This is where my explanation to her came from, I told her that guys sometimes get the urge and small window to just fuck! and ever since we have an agreement, she gets the long foreplay sessions and backrubs all that shit 50% of the time, well lets be honest more like 80% haha and I get the other 20% to just pound her like a lil whore. Because of the combo of these two things every so often she's the one puling my boxers off violently and hopping on, really nothing better than that.

 

[drewmaci]

Thank you for your opinions bros. Hopefully a long conversation about this will help....me get fucked lol. 750 mg of test per week doesn't always help with my animal like urges.

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[stevesmi]

this one is easy.

a direct quote from Patti Stanger.. "Women are like crock pots and guys are like microwaves"

its the way we evolved and so did most animals .. look at birds for example.. a songbird male will sing all night to get some action.

 

[ALIN]

Hey guys, having some trouble with the lady and I was looking for more bros perspective and thoughts. Our situation is my fiancé always needs to cuddle and hear " sweet things" from me to get her going. Which is not a problem. But she needs at least a half our when I'm horny as fuck and want to stop talking and more doing. Passionate sex is great... But every once in a while I just want to get fucked. Am I an animal for wanting this or is this just the difference between a male and female?? Bro thoughts??


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You a human MALE,,,totally natural.