!!outrage!!

[Tigerparks]

Guys,
This post has nothing to do with 'roids, but I figure we're a community who help out eachother regardless.

About 3 weeks ago my g/f stayed over at her best friends house after they had a party. At the end, my g/f and her best friend crashed out in the same bed. During the night, once eveyone had gone to sleep, in walks her best friends boyfriend. Initially my g/f tells me he just went to sleep. After about 10 minutes she didn't feel comfortable with the arrangement so she asks him to call her a cab, and she leaves. Her main reasons were is that she thought the situation a bit weird, and she wasn't feeling to well. (Caused by drink).

When she told me of this scenario I hit the fucking roof. "What the fuck gives him the right to jump in a bed where my girls sleeping?" I ask her. She goes on and on how about it's not that bad, "we slept top and tail", so her feet were the nearest thing to him.
I told her I don't give a shit, and I wanted him to call me to explain himself.

Anyway, over the next few days I began prodding her. And asking: 1) Why did you and your friend sleep top and tail? Is it because you KNEW he was coming up later? If so, why did you decide to sleep in a bed when you KNEW another guy was gonna crash?
Lets face it, if two female best friends sleep 2gether, they don't take seperate ends. We're talking best friends for 10 years. Besides, she let it slip that she visited a friend a while back and slept with her 'normally'.
Some other little things didn't add up either, which I won't go into. Anyway, we were having an argument last night and I brought up this incident again and told her outright, I knew she wasn't telling me something.

She finally caves in and tells me the truth: She tells me throughout the night of the party her best friends b/f kept approaching her and telling her how good she was looking and how much weight she's lost etc etc.... More so than her best friend. She didn't sleep top and tail with her friend, she went to sleep with her facing the same end of the bed. (I knew it!). When this scum bag jumps in bed, he "tried it on" with my g/f. Telling her how much better she is than his g/f. Who happens to be a-fucking-sleep right next to them!!! My g/f tells me she quickly gets up and wakes her friend. The scum bag pleads his innocece saying he thought my g/f was his g/f. Her best mate starts shouting and swearing at them both. My g/f leaves and is waiting on the door step for a cab, (crying) which she has called herself. Her best friend approaches her and claims that SHE was the one who tried it on with him. Apparently the scum bag has changed his story. My g/f pleads her innocence and sticks to her story. And that he is a shit bag and she should leave him.

Of course, after hearing this I wasn't too pleased. I grabbed the phone from my g/f and called her best friends house. This was now midnight. No one answered, but the ansaphone kicked in with this cunts voice telling me to leave a message. I said "This is a message for Aaron, it's Tom, Racheles boyfriend, I want you to call me. I think you know what it's about!"
At the time I'm fighting off my g/f who's trying to grab the phone, so my voice is sounding strained and angry.

This morning my g/f tells me she exaggerated the truth and he only put his arm around her thinking it was his g/f. And she got up and left. But I don't believe a word of it. If it were a simple case of that, what caused her to be on the doorstoop crying, what caused her to fight with her best friend?

I know there's fucking more to this. I just want opintions on my next move. Do I...
1) Crack this cunt's melon head over the pavement
2) Speak to him sensible and ask him his side of the story before making a decision.
3) Do nothing.
4) Break his fucking nose.

I cannot believe for a second my g/f would try it on with this guy. He has this gangly long thin frame. Skinny as fuck with a beer belly pouch stomach. A 1960's haircur a la Beetles. A fucking crooked nose and fat protruding lips. Basically he is a weird odd ball looking mofo.

And once I crack his melon fucking head with my elbow I'd be doing him a favour in the appearance department.

The problem is, I haven't got his number now, cause it was stored in my g/f cell phone. And before you ask, he and his g/f live together, so my g/f will have the number.
I do have my g/f best friends work number though. I will call her and ask her, her version of events then request HIS number so I can call him.
Guys, I am so fucking angry I don't know what to do. I feel when I do speak to him he's gonna say she was drunk and was trying it on etc etc.... I don't know where this leaves my g/f and I. She's begging me not to do anything and try to forget it. She says her relationship with her best friend is as good as over, and she dosn't want to loose me too.

Sorry it's been long winded but I had to get this off my chest.
Peace to you all.... Unless you're names Aaron and tried it on with my g/f you SLAG CUNT WANKER BASTARD!

 

[Mike P.T.]

You don't want to know what I would do with my bad temper.... I seriously think I need help sometimes. People tell me that too ohhh fuckin well. Damn all this fucked up shit im reading tonight. Ok im in a bad mood gonna get off the boards now.

 

[G ChildlihC G]

I know there's fucking more to this. I just want opintions on my next move. Do I...
1) Crack this cunt's melon head over the pavement
2) Speak to him sensible and ask him his side of the story before making a decision.
3) Do nothing.
4) Break his fucking nose.

Okay, it's a messed up situation but here's the deal:
1 - If he didn't know that you're girl was in fact you're girl, then option #3
2- If he did know... now pay attention, this is a combo!...
First, use option 2,
next use option 4
and finish with option 1,
step back,
enjoy the bright red color,
exhale,
relax....
RUN! The cops are on the way!

 

[plug1]

Good story, options 1 and 4 sound pretty similiar but bot are good but you probably want to let the guy sweat a bit ... maybe ask his side of the story anyway and pause before employing options 1 and 4.

 

[G ChildlihC G]

maybe ask his side of the story anyway and pause before employing options 1 and 4.

2- If he did know... now pay attention, this is a combo!...
First, use option 2,
next use option 4
and finish with option 1,
step back,
enjoy the bright red color,
exhale,
relax....
RUN! The cops are on the way!

Yup

 

[Pacesetter]

And so are the problems with many relationships these days. Actually, that read like a Cleo story.

My only advise to people that go through these problems is, if there is no trust in a relationship, then better to not be in one at all.

 

[plug1]

G ChildlihC G you type way quicker than me.... but I like your train of thought.

 

[G ChildlihC G]

Right, I was with ya too on that one!

 

[Maxx Out]

Make sure there are no witnesses. Talk to him, if u don't like what you hear beat the LIVING FUCK outta him! Then call the cops and while he's still passed out say that he took the first swing and you were afraid for your life and using self defense. Then get a good lawyer. FUCKIN' hate guys like that! I always know my boundries no matter how fine a woman is!

 

[UltimaThule]

It sounds like the bestfriend knew what was going to happen.Your girlfriend should have known what the sleeping arangment was going to be
if the boyfriend was there partying with them.Everybody should have known.There is no excuse.If the boyfriend said he was going to sleep in another room or on the couch ,then came in the room,he deserves to get his ass beat.If you find out this is the case.Dont call him.Just hunt him down.Hit him hard then get out of there.Try to make sure nobody is around.Dont listen to your girlfriend about not doing anything.She doesnt understand how it really makes you feel .Believe me.Dont be all stressed thinking about it all day.When the opprotunity occurs,take action.You will feel alot better confronting him in person.

 

[Twitched]

I've flipped out for far less.

Another man that went to her college asked her to a frat formal knowing she was with me, and I snapped on both of them.

 

[plug1]

Tell me twitched is that avatar from the great aussie flick about skinheads beating the shit out of people that I can't remember the name from just now?? Shit what the hell is its name...............................................................................................................ROMPERSTOMPER. Got it.

 

[supertech69]

Well, your girl ahs changed her story several times now did it ever dawn on you that maybe....she's a liar? Maybe the guy is telling the truth. I'd just go up & ask him. She should have known better, she probably knew he was going to be getting into bed. I mean how many boyfriends would say oh well my girl has her friend in bed, guess I'll sleep n the couch. Not that I would try to fuck w/someone elses girl but, I don't sleep on the couch for anyone!

 

[MadCow1]

Not worth your freedom. Your girl probably only covered it up cause she knew you'd react this way and possibly cause your life long term damage that you could regret down the road.

Tell him how it is, leave it alone and move on with your life. Try to avoid a physical altercation. Your girl seems like she handled it okay so if you have concerns about her then talk it out calmly and maturely after you cool down a bit.

 

[haxedout]

a girl isnt worth jail time or court .. stay cool and talk to him.. then if he gets an attitude then ask him to take it outside and wear him out..

 

[BigGuns2]

Something sounds fishy to me. As for the way the guy looked, ie "doofy" looking, don't let that give you a false sense of security that your girl would do nothing with him. The quickest way into a girl's pants is to tell her "wow, you look great! Have you lost weight?" Having alcohol involved doesn't help either!

 

[capinatl]

As soon as you start flipping out you are part of the drama. I have a philosophy of recognizing these negative situations as a component of people's behavior patterns. This is nothing but a symptom, and it will occurr again. Your choice if you want to put up with it or not (i.e. continue a relationship with your g/f and her drama). Personally, I don't want any drama in my life (here comes MJB), I wouldn't date a woman you behaves like that - but then I'm 33, when I was 20 I was a damn mess!

 

[macho21]

I snapped on both of them.

Take this advice. I mean, what the hell is your girl doing sleeping in a bed she knows another guy is going to sleep in, and she knew. She most likely didn't mean any harm by it, but she forgot that common sense may be useful in this situation, even if it is only out of respect for you, she shouldn't ever sleep in sam bed as another man. As for the guy, give him hell! Argggghh, girl drama sucks.

 

[maxellyz]

And so are the problems with many relationships these days. Actually, that read like a Cleo story.

My only advise to people that go through these problems is, if there is no trust in a relationship, then better to not be in one at all.

True

 

[rodd45]

bro, putting myself in your shoes, I would explode. I am mad from just reading your post. I went through a similar situation a few years back, my best friend's (she is a girl) boyfriend grabbed my girl one night at a club and asked her to go fuck him. I wasnt there and my girl didnt tell me for days because she knew my temper. Anyway when she told me I didnt act mad, but inside I was in a rage. So the next saturday, we went to the club, scum bag was there, my girl made me promise not to cause trouble. I saw him, pushed the girl he was hitting on out of the way and grabbed his drink and split his head open with it. I was in a rage. I even threw a bouncer off me when he grabbed me. I went to the bathroom and picked the glass from my hand and six bouncers came in and asked to leave or the cops would be called.
Anyway I would ask your chick for the no bullshit version, straight and honest what really happened and then go talk to the worm. Scare the piss out of him but be careful with the violence. I almost went to jail for that inncident.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Some girls only tell you only enough to get you pissed off, but not enough to get them into trouble. I have found out that if a girl will "partial lie" like that, they'll keep doing it and it really shows a selfish person that doesn't care who they hurt. Now your girl may have done the right thing, then again she may not be telling you everything. You know how much you can trust her. If you doubt her actions then leave. trust me the same shit will keep happening.

And yes, guys that will try to score with someone else's chick needs their asses beat. Girls love the attention so normally they have a hard time telling guys no. Good thing I'm not on juice right now or I'd be frustrated just thinking about your situation because I've been in the same one.

 

[HansNZ]

It's so interesting the way guys think their girlfriends are their possessions like a car or wallet. She is a grown woman, let her deal with the situation it's actually none of your business. If she felt threatened then get involved. By involved I mean supporting her while she as a grown independent human lays a complaint with the police.

I realise that few people will agree with me. Women are still considered chattels by most people in our society.

 

[HansNZ]

bro, putting myself in your shoes, I would explode. I am mad from just reading your post. I went through a similar situation a few years back, my best friend's (she is a girl) boyfriend grabbed my girl one night at a club and asked her to go fuck him. I wasnt there and my girl didnt tell me for days because she knew my temper. Anyway when she told me I didnt act mad, but inside I was in a rage. So the next saturday, we went to the club, scum bag was there, my girl made me promise not to cause trouble. I saw him, pushed the girl he was hitting on out of the way and grabbed his drink and split his head open with it. I was in a rage. I even threw a bouncer off me when he grabbed me. I went to the bathroom and picked the glass from my hand and six bouncers came in and asked to leave or the cops would be called.
Anyway I would ask your chick for the no bullshit version, straight and honest what really happened and then go talk to the worm. Scare the piss out of him but be careful with the violence. I almost went to jail for that inncident.

Okay, let me get this straight. Someone hitting on your g/f (who could just tell him to go away) is WORSE than assulting someone, damaging property, assulting a bouncer, and creating a disturbance in a public place thereby interfering with other people's enjoyment and making them feel unsafe? Somehow this value system seems upside down.

As for the thread starter. Why would this guy continue hitting on your g/f if she was doing nothing to encourage him? Maybe you should be angry at her. If she told him to piss off and he kept harrassing her then why didn't she complain to the host. If the host did nothing then she should have left. If she really felt threatened and harrassed then there is always the police to go to. It would seem that if this was the case then this guy would have a history.

 

[katz]

Damn, this sounds weird. Well last month my boyfriends bestfriend grabs my ass while we were out drinking. I slapped him upside the head twice. The bouncer asked him if I was bothering him! I told the bouncer why I hit him and he backed off. Luckily, my boyfriend was drunk and didn't notice. I told him and he was vomiting shortly after that. Too many shots. My boyfriend has black belts in three different styles. Needless to say when they were sober boyfriend asked his friend about it and his friend took off. Luckily I didn't have to bail him out of jail. They've been friends for ten years.

 

[matty]

As soon as you start flipping out you are part of the drama. I have a philosophy of recognizing these negative situations as a component of people's behavior patterns. This is nothing but a symptom, and it will occurr again. Your choice if you want to put up with it or not (i.e. continue a relationship with your g/f and her drama). Personally, I don't want any drama in my life (here comes MJB), I wouldn't date a woman you behaves like that - but then I'm 33, when I was 20 I was a damn mess!

Great advise! glad to see someone else thinks like me lol, im also 33yrs old and have been through many dramatic, headcase relationships, and i now do not put up with ANYTHING except normal behaivor! no alcholcics, chicks with issues from the past, etc.... As for this guys issue here, the only mystery i see here is that she dident see this comming?? she slept in his bed correct? she knew he would be comming sooner or later to sleep!
Besides that i dont think much happend and i think she handled it right, she left and called a cab corrrect? (you can prove she left?), and it sounds like she changed her story only when u call her gfriends answering mach. , probably so u wouldent freak. I would just let it go, tell her your not going to deal with this sort of thing anymore (sleeping over friends houses etc), and see if it happens again....like capinatl said, this is a symptom, see if it resurfaces again! how old ru and her anyways.....?

 

[Bam Bam]

Make sure there are no witnesses. Talk to him, if u don't like what you hear beat the LIVING FUCK outta him! Then call the cops and while he's still passed out say that he took the first swing and you were afraid for your life and using self defense. Then get a good lawyer. FUCKIN' hate guys like that! I always know my boundries no matter how fine a woman is!

I agree, and definately make sure there are no witnesses. I'd be pissed at the gf to for trying to cover up for his punk ass. BamBam

 

[Bam Bam]

I'm also going to add that even if you girl knew he was coming up, and he knew that yall were going out, you should still kick his ass for lack of respect. I would also deal with her because she shouldn't have went back there if she knew he was coming up. BamBam

 

[SirWanksalot]

The two things in your post I find interesting are

1) the "on the witness stand" questioning of your GF

2) Her repeated story changes

Your posting tone indicates (to me) that your GF often finds herself in the witness stand. Once the jealousy monster comes out, trust can never be re-established.

I wouldn't be surprised if you look at her vehicle odometer to see how far she actually drives versus whare she told you she went.

I say since you don't trust her, why not go your seperate ways.

 

[FreakMonster]

Last time some punk harassed my GF sexually he ended up with my .45 in his fucking mouth. Needless to say he was scared shitless and never looked my GF's way again.

It was fun watching this guy shaking like a little puss. And supposedly I had heard he was some martial arts badass.

 

[rodd45]

Okay, let me get this straight. Someone hitting on your g/f (who could just tell him to go away) is WORSE than assulting someone, damaging property, assulting a bouncer, and creating a disturbance in a public place thereby interfering with other people's enjoyment and making them feel unsafe? Somehow this value system seems upside down.

As for the thread starter. Why would this guy continue hitting on your g/f if she was doing nothing to encourage him? Maybe you should be angry at her. If she told him to piss off and he kept harrassing her then why didn't she complain to the host. If the host did nothing then she should have left. If she really felt threatened and harrassed then there is always the police to go to. It would seem that if this was the case then this guy would have a history.

Well the guy was a scum bag, and I overreacted very badly. Thats why I would advise him to talk it out with his girl first. I almost got into a lot of trouble for my actions and was trying to advise him not to make the same mistake I did.

 

[Riker29]

Guys,
This post has nothing to do with 'roids,

THEN POST IT ON THE CHAT BOARD!

Someone move this. I am sick of wittle boys whining about their chicks, or guys describing thier childish pissy-anger-tantrums.

I dont care what happened to you, I didnt bother to read it. Stay on topic.

 

[Andre9]

Bro, remember this: When in top and tail position, the genitals are still aligned.

Secondly, I don't see nothing to get mad about. The other guy's a jerk off, you don't need to punch him in the face since nothing really happened. When there's party and booze and even drugs, shit like that happen. It happened to me before, a guy I knew forced-kissed my GF in a party and I was feeling bad. But since my GF stood up for herself and rejected the guy I felt like WTF, why am I worrying now?

Really, your situation is very mild. Keep your rage for when real things happen, like your GF deliberately cheats on you with 3 guys at once, or if you find out that your GF has played in 200 porn movies featuring Ron Jeremy.

Andre

 

[mvmaxx]

The two things in your post I find interesting are

1) the "on the witness stand" questioning of your GF

2) Her repeated story changes

Your posting tone indicates (to me) that your GF often finds herself in the witness stand. Once the jealousy monster comes out, trust can never be re-established.

I wouldn't be surprised if you look at her vehicle odometer to see how far she actually drives versus whare she told you she went.

I say since you don't trust her, why not go your seperate ways.

This is exactly what I was thinking. I fully agree.

 

[Lumberg]

Something sounds fishy to me. As for the way the guy looked, ie "doofy" looking, don't let that give you a false sense of security that your girl would do nothing with him. The quickest way into a girl's pants is to tell her "wow, you look great! Have you lost weight?" Having alcohol involved doesn't help either!

I'm going to have to remember that one!

JC

 

[Ercole]

Shakespeare called jealousy "the green-eyed monster". It's a monster all right. If you don't trust your girl, drop her and find someone you do trust. Also, have you ever messed around on her? In my experience the guys who can't trust their girl out of their sight are usually the ones who can't be trusted out of *her* sight. They think everyone's as weak and promiscuous as they are.

In this situation, the first thing I would do is call the guy and get his side of the story. If *you* were accused like this, wouldn't you deserve a chance to explain?

Lots in this story sounds fishy: I can't believe any guy is so dumb as to try to have sex with another girl with his own girlfriend sleeping inches away. Definitely go and calmly get the guy's side of the story. On the other hand, it doesn't sound to me like your girlfriend did anything wrong. She's just fudging the truth a little because she's afraid of your out-of-control temper. (I can't blame her for that. In your post you sound about an inch from turning homicidal maniac.)

And finally (I'm going to sound really *old* here) this is the kind of shit that happens when girls and guys get wasted on drink and drugs and pass out. People can have sex and not even remember it the next morning. That's why our grandparents didn't party in mixed company without dates or chaperones -- to avoid this kind of danger and drama.

Next time go with your girl to the party and you'll know what really happened. And learn to control that temper before you end up bending over for Bubba in your local penitentiary.

 

[JayBro]

I would do my favorite option, which I do even when my girls have done nothing wrong.

Kick your girl to the curb and see who's next in line.

 

[YOLKED2DAHILT]

Last time some punk harassed my GF sexually he ended up with my .45 in his fucking mouth. Needless to say he was scared shitless and never looked my GF's way again.

It was fun watching this guy shaking like a little puss. And supposedly I had heard he was some martial arts badass.

You're so cool! Can I be like you?

Such a fuckin tough guy, with a GUN! What did you expect Mr. Martial Arts to do with you pointing a gun at him? You're lucky your stupid ass isn't in jail.

 

[pittbull2]

Well ,I've been around the block, on my 3rd marraige and i've seen some things happen and this brings back old memories and its my opinion that your girl knew what she was doing and yall had a argurment and she was at a party without you correct? she knew her friend lived with this guy and he slept in the same bed everynight my personal opinion was that her and her friend knew he would be there and wanted some extra activity if you know what I mean and he might have showed your girl more attention and got the girlfriend mad, I hope for you bro that I'm wrong but i have seen a similar situation that sounds to familar. i would tell her that the only way i will stay with you is to go get a polygraph tell her there not expensive and tell her that your going to call and get it arranged and you will prob get the whole truth if she lying, it sounds stupid but if she cares she will want to prove it to you. If she is being truthful then confront this egghead by yourself and find out his side of the story.

 

[Ercole]

I would do my favorite option, which I do even when my girls have done nothing wrong.

Kick your girl to the curb and see who's next in line.

Boy, I can only imagine the quality of girls you attract with an attitude like that. Question: has a girl ever slept with you without money changing hands?

 

[Tigerparks]

!!Outrage Part 2!!

Thanks for all the replies guys. What a fucking day I've had.
I can officially give you the outcome of this drama. If you're interested read on. (Not you Ryker).

What a dirty little twist this has.....

Initially I called up my g/f best friend at work and said "Look, sorry to call at work, but I need to know, from your point of view what happened at the party last Saturday, I got a version from my g/f and I just wanna hear your side of it"

And she proceeds to tell me.... She tells me how her and her boy friend were the first to go to sleep that night and they had laid out extra blankets and pillows on the floor for my g/f. Some time later in staggers my g/f and stips off to her undies and jumps in bed between them and crashes out. She tells me she said "Err.. what do you think your doing?" But gets no reply. Deciding to leave it at that and best let her sleep she drops off herself.

She is woken by the sound of mourmoring coming from my g/f. She looks up to see my g/f with her arm around him and kissing the side of his face, while he is sound asleep.

Naturally she loses it and tells her to "Fuck off outta my house".
Apparently my g/f says "Sorry I thought it was... (me)"
She is placed in a cab and is so out of it, the driver has to call her mom to collect her from the car. And take her away.

I them told her what the allegation was against her b/f. I could hear her mouth drop. "She said WHAT!?!" She quickly had her b/f call me and he was only able to give the account of when he woke up with his g/f screaming the house down. "Apparently she was kissing me while I was alseep." He went on to say "To be honest (at last honesty!), I like her, but she annoys me. Everytime she comes over she gets drunk and quite frankly it's embarrassing!"

From his tone and both they're stories I knew they we're telling the truth. My pulse rate after these calls was about 220bpm.

I called my g/f at work and simply said. "I know the truth. Is there anything you want to tell me......?"
Agian she stuck with her...3rd version of events, saying he got mixed up between her and his g/f. I said "Are you sure it was'nt a case of you getting HIM mixed up with ME!??!!

Silence.... The penny dropped. "Who...who you spoke to?"
"I've spoken to everyone involved, you're the only one that's changed their story 3 fucking times, you gonna go for 4. Start fucking talking!"

And yes she changed it a 4th time. Her final version is that she accidentally put her arm around him thinking it was me. And her best pal saw this and hit the roof. Again she's missing bits out. I asked her does she know how she got home. She could only say she was "Shit-faced" and her mom collected her from somewhere. "So you don't know whether you kissed him or not?"
"No" came the fucking timid bitch's reply.

"Collect your shit from my house. Post the key back through the door. If I never see you again, it'll be too soon. Goodbye and good ridance!"

The bitch has called me four times since, begging for forgiveness. How she'll never drink again, cannot live without me, how her life is ruined, not only with me but her childhood friend also. Crying and wailing

I said: "Tell someone who cares" Hung up. Then put on Whitney's "It's not right, but it's okay..."

Fucking dirty slag hoe's At least I got plenty of anger to train with now. Come my next cycle in August I'll be fucking mamouth. I'll see her too, when I got my new (sensible) g/f on my arm rip to shreads, body like the adonis, and she's pushing her baby buggy with some overweight unshaven beer barron.

I just wanna say thankyou bitch for giving me the motivation to train and juice even harder. You think you regret your actions now, just wait till you see me then....

Thankyou and goodnight.

 

[mvmaxx]

good decision

 

[matty]

bravo! no more drama! sounded like a headcase alchoholic anyways! probably saved yourself yrs of domestic bullshit......

 

[jacked1234]

shitty!

That's bullshit bro, i know how ya feel, i ve been in some fucked up relationships where "I thought" I trusted someone, bullshit, I will never trust another woman again till I'm married!

 

[hercules16]

Well done!! Couldn't have done it better myself. High five.

 

[FreakMonster]

You're so cool! Can I be like you?

Such a fuckin tough guy, with a GUN! What did you expect Mr. Martial Arts to do with you pointing a gun at him? You're lucky your stupid ass isn't in jail.

I wasn't trying to be a tough guy. Just trying to get the point across to this punk not to ever fuck with me or my GF. I think he got the fucking point.

Just goes to show you never know who your fucking with.

So next time you decide to fuck with someone you better hope he doesn't have a gun!!!!!!

 

[Reid232]

Something sounds fishy to me. As for the way the guy looked, ie "doofy" looking, don't let that give you a false sense of security that your girl would do nothing with him. The quickest way into a girl's pants is to tell her "wow, you look great! Have you lost weight?" Having alcohol involved doesn't help either!

Damn straight! My thoughts exactly.

A girl loves to be noticed, no matter what the asswipe looks like. I have seen girls go out with some ugly mofo's, but the guys had the balls to say the things the girl wants to hear.

 

[HansNZ]

I notice that there is a consistent ingredient in a lot of these stories: Alcohol.

In future before you go around bashing people just bear this in mind. People do dumb things when they're drunk.

If you are a secure person then consider just forgiving people their stupid behaviour and get on with your life.

 

[Frackal]

Damn women are so fucking manipulative!

 

[Ercole]

The real problem?

Glad to hear you called the others and let them tell their side of the story, rather than doing something rash you would have regretted.

It sounds to me like your (now ex-) girlfriend's problem isn't going after other guys -- it's that she gets so drunk she doesn't know what the hell she's doing.

Hopefully your dropping her will be a wake-up call to quit binge-drinking or, if she needs help, join a 12-step program or something.

I had a substance problem myself in the early 90s and you wouldn't believe some of the incredibly risky, degrading, embarrassing things I did when I was high.

I can't believe how much kids drink these days -- by kids I mean folks in their teens and twenties. It's dangerous and self-destructive, not to mention how badly people embarrass themselves when they're fucked up. Kids might think it was less cool to get drooling drunk if they could see a video of the way they act in that condition.

When I was that age, a lot of people smoked weed, but we didn't generally drink ourselves blind. I think we considered alcohol our parents' generation's vice.

 

[Bigtug]

1 and 4!

Break the BASTARDS FACE!!

ROID RAGE ON HIS ASS!!

 

[genarr3]

I don't usually advocate violence, but in this case I'll make an exception.
I personally would lay a serious beating on him.

 

[pittbull2]

Tiger if you stick with it and not let her cry her way back you will be ok, NO ONE NEEDS A WOMEN like that , I found out they want stop even when you get married and have kids together its sad.