Thanks for the input everyone
deloading week, I just went easy, I lowered the weight more than what madcow suggested of just changing your 5x5 to 3x3 and keeping the weights steady. (I do realize that deload was from the DF 5x5 so I'm sure it would work with the SF too by just cutting the weight down a little bit to match an estimated true 5x5 rep max) I don't know if what I did was the best thing though.
Squats
135x3 front squats
185x3x2 wide stance
Bench
95x5
135x3
155x3
135x3
pullups
Bw x3x3
I subbed pullups for bent over rows just to change things around a little bit and they were very easy. Felt really weak on bench press, and squats were all right. Never have done front squats so it was different for me.
as with diet, I wanted to finish what i ate before I posted, but I went on fitday.com to see how many calories i actually get on a typical day since nothing is planned.
meal 1
Oatmeal 160 cals (I got tired of plain and use a sweetened kind)
protein drink w/2 servings of milk 380
540 cals
meal 2
2 serv of apple sauce 240
chicken breast 281
521 cals
meal 3 (pre workout)
protein drink w/2 servings of milk 380
380 cals
meal 4 (post workout)
protein drink w/2 servings of milk 380
2 servings of ice cream! 340 (I don't eat ALL clean as I know a few cheat meals won't hurt...)
720 cals
meal 5
peanut butter sandwich 300
300 cals
meal 6
2 servings of rice w/ 1 tbsp of canola oil 460
2 cups of milk (same as 2 servings) 260
720 cals
meal 7 (family dinner)
a piece of whole wheat bread 90 cals and tuna helper (I don't know the nutrition facts, but i ate until I was full)
90+??? cals
I haven't eaten the meal below but I always have it before I go to bed.
Meal 8
3 XL eggs and 1 white w/ 1 tbsp of canola oil 405
2 cups of milk 260
665 cals
=
~4000 cals?
~275g protein
I had a little bit of greens in the tuna helper

I need to up that and I've started to up water intake by a little. I'm going to buy a gallon jug and make sure it's empty by the end of the day.
On average I think I get around 3500-4500 cals a day
My macros are around:
30% protein
35%fat
35%carbs