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Online Dating, I may give it a try, does it work?

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I've found myself dating the same skanks over and over, mainly b/c I meet them at bars and don't really do anything else socially other than an occassional night out on the town with friends. Due to endless hours of work and researching I have come to the conclusion I should try the online dating. I hear mixed reviews, some say they meet skanks on their but I'm not looking for a 1 time booty call, not looking for marriage either, which is another thing I hear. Some women on there are batshit insane and only want babies and marriage.

Tell me about your experiences or if it's worth it.
Also what sites?
PS - NO gay sites
 
I met my husband online... my e-book on the topic will be published shortly.

Not only does online dating work, but anyone who hasn't taken advantage of this great way to broaden the spectrum of people you can meet (who also want to meet you) is IMHO greatly limiting themselves unnecessarily.
 
the_clockwork said:
I've found myself dating the same skanks over and over, mainly b/c I meet them at bars and don't really do anything else socially other than an occassional night out on the town with friends. Due to endless hours of work and researching I have come to the conclusion I should try the online dating. I hear mixed reviews, some say they meet skanks on their but I'm not looking for a 1 time booty call, not looking for marriage either, which is another thing I hear. Some women on there are batshit insane and only want babies and marriage.

Tell me about your experiences or if it's worth it.
Also what sites?
PS - NO gay sites
Ive done online dating for a decade and as far as it "working", that depends on your definition. I get laid easily on the internet, so if thats considered working then mission accomplished. There are all kinds of women online and a guy like you should have no problem meeting anyone. You basically just have to know what to look for in a womans profile, what she says, what her pics say, etc. Its an art and science that takes practice, weeding out the women who arent good before you meet them and waste time and money figuring it out in person.
 
superdave said:
Its an art and science that takes practice, weeding out the women who arent good before you meet them and waste time and money figuring it out in person.

butt I enjoy wasting time and money :confused:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I met my husband online... my e-book on the topic will be published shortly.

Not only does online dating work, but anyone who hasn't taken advantage of this great way to broaden the spectrum of people you can meet (who also want to meet you) is IMHO greatly limiting themselves unnecessarily.

I'm more of testing the waters since my career is becoming more and more demanding as I progress my degree. I don't see many alternatives in the dating field. I don't mind being single but I want to meet some local gals that aren't all about the bars, which are the only ones I meet, oddly enough, at the bars!
 
superdave said:
Ive done online dating for a decade and as far as it "working", that depends on your definition. I get laid easily on the internet, so if thats considered working then mission accomplished. There are all kinds of women online and a guy like you should have no problem meeting anyone. You basically just have to know what to look for in a womans profile, what she says, what her pics say, etc. Its an art and science that takes practice, weeding out the women who arent good before you meet them and waste time and money figuring it out in person.

you run into a lot of fakes?
what site do you use? hit me up with a pm or karma message if it's on the DL
 
superdave said:
Ive done online dating for a decade and as far as it "working", that depends on your definition. I get laid easily on the internet, so if thats considered working then mission accomplished. There are all kinds of women online and a guy like you should have no problem meeting anyone. You basically just have to know what to look for in a womans profile, what she says, what her pics say, etc. Its an art and science that takes practice, weeding out the women who arent good before you meet them and waste time and money figuring it out in person.

One only need buy my e-book (which will be available on elite pretty quick here) and they will not waste ANY time or money...

There is no ONE right way to go about it. But there are definitely pitfalls that should be avoided.

Whether you are looking to get laid or find someone that would be a compatible mate, online dating is the way to go. I mean, why not? We use the net to enhance nearly every other apsect of our lives. :)
 
superdave said:
Ive done online dating for a decade and as far as it "working", that depends on your definition. I get laid easily on the internet, so if thats considered working then mission accomplished. There are all kinds of women online and a guy like you should have no problem meeting anyone. You basically just have to know what to look for in a womans profile, what she says, what her pics say, etc. Its an art and science that takes practice, weeding out the women who arent good before you meet them and waste time and money figuring it out in person.

I can see why you can't find a good woman
 
the_clockwork said:
I'm more of testing the waters since my career is becoming more and more demanding as I progress my degree. I don't see many alternatives in the dating field. I don't mind being single but I want to meet some local gals that aren't all about the bars, which are the only ones I meet, oddly enough, at the bars!

Welcome to the world of being a busy professional, when the bulk of your time is no longer spent making every situation you are in an *automatic social* situation for personal pleasure with the opposite sex.

I online dated 99% the entire time from when I separated from my ex to the time I met my husband, that is about 6 years. My Old Grump (who co-authored) dated online from the time it was available. (That is like what, a thousand years?)

We dated all over the US as well as internationally.

Seriously, we had a radio show about the topic as well. We are constanly out and preaching the do's and dont's to interested adults everywhere. There really are obvious mistakes that both genders make which lead to a whole buncha not-so-pleasant circumstances.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Welcome to the world of being a busy professional, when the bulk of your time is no longer spent making every situation you are in an *automatic social* situation for personal pleasure with the opposite sex.

I online dated 99% the entire time from when I separated from my ex to the time I met my husband, that is about 6 years. My Old Grump (who co-authored) dated online from the time it was available. (That is like what, a thousand years?)

We dated all over the US as well as internationally.

Seriously, we had a radio show about the topic as well. We are constanly out and preaching the do's and dont's to interested adults everywhere. There really are obvious mistakes that both genders make which lead to a whole buncha not-so-pleasant circumstances.

Do men still try to contact you from your online dating days (not realizing you got married)?
 
the_clockwork said:
you run into a lot of fakes?
what site do you use? hit me up with a pm or karma message if it's on the DL
I always use sites with a large population to sample and divide down into samples that meet my criteria. since youre a researcher that should make sense.
match.com has always been good as well as yahoo personals.
if you double team those two sites that should suffice for a while until the wells dry up.
my only experience with eharmony netted me one match after 3 weeks of letting them do all the searching and matching up of my profile to others (which is shit, since they dont let you pick the ones you like, the fucking computer does it for you) and i ended up with someone i think i wouldnt have chosen on my own, but i paid good money and figured i should at least give it one try.
adultfriendfinder.com is a dedicated hook up site, which i dont think you were interested in and to be honest i got laid more from regular sites like match and yahoo anyhow.
i think theres chemistry.com or that fish in the sea site or something. If I were you I would join a lot of them with a bare minimum profile that you duplicate with each site you join to make it fast and easy, then run a basic search of stuff you want in a woman, nothing too detailed or demanding, and see how many women you net as a result of the search. The site with the most plentiful numbers, or the ones you think are the most quality, are the sites you actually pay money for and start emailing the women.
 
PICK3 said:
Do men still try to contact you from your online dating days (not realizing you got married)?

LOL They contact me knowing full well I am married! They just shoot me an email or text "just to see".

Happens to my husband as well.

We get hit with clusters most often just before and during the holidays. *Holiday ass* is very much in demand. :lmao:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Why would you say that?
because, as per her usual, she doesnt know what she is talking about. And for the record, Ive found plenty of good women, its always been myself that wasnt comfortable with that, because I knew if I was with a really good woman long enough I might cave in and do something stupid like get married at the wrong time in my life. Which is why its always been me that leaves them. That attitude is starting to wane now I think, now that Im out of school and on with life.
 
superdave said:
I always use sites with a large population to sample and divide down into samples that meet my criteria. since youre a researcher that should make sense.
match.com has always been good as well as yahoo personals.
if you double team those two sites that should suffice for a while until the wells dry up.
my only experience with eharmony netted me one match after 3 weeks of letting them do all the searching and matching up of my profile to others (which is shit, since they dont let you pick the ones you like, the fucking computer does it for you) and i ended up with someone i think i wouldnt have chosen on my own, but i paid good money and figured i should at least give it one try.
adultfriendfinder.com is a dedicated hook up site, which i dont think you were interested in and to be honest i got laid more from regular sites like match and yahoo anyhow.
i think theres chemistry.com or that fish in the sea site or something. If I were you I would join a lot of them with a bare minimum profile that you duplicate with each site you join to make it fast and easy, then run a basic search of stuff you want in a woman, nothing too detailed or demanding, and see how many women you net as a result of the search. The site with the most plentiful numbers, or the ones you think are the most quality, are the sites you actually pay money for and start emailing the women.

Some of what you are saying is very valid. But you are overcomplicating the matter. what happens when you have a lot of profiles up on many sites is mass confusion. Bad idea as some quality people will slip through the cracks and also lead to some embarrassing faux pas.

My suggestion is to start with a site like plentyofish till you get your sea legs because it's free and fairly heavily traffiked. Match and yahoo dont cost all that much. Last I used them they were like what 50$ for 3 months? But why not start with a free site? Eharmony is SHIT... there is NO WAY that anyone else (especially not a computer) can pick for you what you find appealing. Everyone that I know feels the same about it. AdultFriendFinder is straight up NASTY. Unless that is what you want.... which if that is what you want, cool. I am not knocking you. Just be warned about it ahead of time is all I am saying. There are also plenty of sites for cheaters and swingers (which are NOT one in the same). There is a site for whatever situation it is that you are seeking. Just do a google search and you will be good to go.
 
match.com is a good one if you want to get laid
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Some of what you are saying is very valid. But you are overcomplicating the matter. what happens when you have a lot of profiles up on many sites is mass confusion. Bad idea as some quality people will slip through the cracks and also lead to some embarrassing faux pas.
My last sentence i said was to actually joint the site with the best/most search results and start contacting women from there only. I know about the mass confusion, guess i should have been clearer.
 
superdave said:
because, as per her usual, she doesnt know what she is talking about. And for the record, Ive found plenty of good women, its always been myself that wasnt comfortable with that, because I knew if I was with a really good woman long enough I might cave in and do something stupid like get married at the wrong time in my life. Which is why its always been me that leaves them. That attitude is starting to wane now I think, now that Im out of school and on with life.

^ a younger single Vel would snag him in a sec, providing he wanted to be snagged.
 
superdave said:
because, as per her usual, she doesnt know what she is talking about. And for the record, Ive found plenty of good women, its always been myself that wasnt comfortable with that, because I knew if I was with a really good woman long enough I might cave in and do something stupid like get married at the wrong time in my life. Which is why its always been me that leaves them. That attitude is starting to wane now I think, now that Im out of school and on with life.

Timing is everything.

I always tell people (usually more mature - meaning OLD adults) that they shouldn't be discouraged if it takes time to find someone they want to commit to. If one is truly exceptional then it would stand to reason that it will take time to find an exceptional match.

Young people should NOT commit too quickly as they are still trying to find out what THEY are about. Dating should be fun and relationships should also ehance your life. There are a of chapters in the end of my book that address certain key elements that one can use to better identify whether or not the relationship they are in is something that enhances their life or something that is better ended so that BOTH can move on to better things.

Honesty is KEY.

Superdave, even though we may not have always seen eye to eye you have always struck me as someone that was very self-aware and forthcoming.
 
I'll check out the plentyoffish

see how that pans out.. I'm not trying to just get laid.. I can go out on the town and do that.. i'm going for quality
 
superdave said:
because, as per her usual, she doesnt know what she is talking about. And for the record, Ive found plenty of good women, its always been myself that wasnt comfortable with that, because I knew if I was with a really good woman long enough I might cave in and do something stupid like get married at the wrong time in my life. Which is why its always been me that leaves them. That attitude is starting to wane now I think, now that Im out of school and on with life.

I know what I'm talking about.
 
the_clockwork said:
I'll check out the plentyoffish

see how that pans out.. I'm not trying to just get laid.. I can go out on the town and do that.. i'm going for quality

Plentyofish will be a good starting point then as it is free. Let us know how it works out. You seem to be a fairly attractive, astute guy (when you aren't pretending to be someone you aren't - I HAD to put that in there... too good to resist teasing you nutsack... hehehehe) so I don't think you should have too much trouble finding a large pool of women who will want to meet you. Just be warned, that more women won't necessarily translate into more QUALITY. They may be very pretty, but that doesn't mean they will be who is best suited to you.

May I ask how old you are?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
LOL They contact me knowing full well I am married! They just shoot me an email or text "just to see".

Happens to my husband as well.

We get hit with clusters most often just before and during the holidays. *Holiday ass* is very much in demand. :lmao:

GOM allows you to date :)
 
I'm 26

I'm not looking to jump in and serial date, I just find it weird talking to a girl on the internet you've never met and then meeting them. It's almost more exciting never meeting. I'll probably get cold feet before ever going on a date with one of these lovely (hopefully) elligible bachelorette's. I'm not into cheating and swinging so I will be avoiding those "nasty" sites.
 
the_clockwork said:
I'm 26

I'm not looking to jump in and serial date, I just find it weird talking to a girl on the internet you've never met and then meeting them. It's almost more exciting never meeting. I'll probably get cold feet before ever going on a date with one of these lovely (hopefully) elligible bachelorette's. I'm not into cheating and swinging so I will be avoiding those "nasty" sites.

How about a blind date set up by someone you know?
 
velvett said:
How about a blind date set up by someone you know?

I don't trust my friends judgement in women. They only see tits and my female friends only see "great personality" women. Not to sound arrogant but I got to have a girl in fit condition. Working out is a huge part of my life style so it must be part of hers too. One of my biggest turn offs in women is not working out, even if they have smokin bodies because it will eventually go away if they don't work on it
 
PICK3 said:
GOM allows you to date :)

Nope. He told me I had to give it up if we married. hehehehehehe

Besides a date with me was more akin to a job interview. Poor guys didn't even realize that 95% of the time the date was over within the first 5 minutes, I just didn't have the fortitude to break it to them as soon as we sat in the car.

Were I to have to do it again, I would have NO ISSUE telling them, "You know what? This just isn't going to work out. It's still early enough in the evening where we can find someone else to go out with." .... and NOT go.
 
the_clockwork said:
I'm 26

I'm not looking to jump in and serial date, I just find it weird talking to a girl on the internet you've never met and then meeting them. It's almost more exciting never meeting. I'll probably get cold feet before ever going on a date with one of these lovely (hopefully) elligible bachelorette's. I'm not into cheating and swinging so I will be avoiding those "nasty" sites.

You are still young so I can sense that you are maturing and not into chasing the skirt of the second. But serial dating isn't what you think it is. There are many many people that seem to be compatible to you until you meet them. That doesn't mean that it was a waste of time. I had many many pleasurable experiences chatting over a cup of coffee for an hour (pre-date) but at the end of that time we both pretty much realized that there was no need to continue further. Nothing wrong with that. Very little time and money involved. But I gained a better feel for what and who it was that I wanted to meet and who is best left not to "interview."

Dating should be an interview process where a couple decides whether or not there is enough substance there (not JUST attraction) to continue to the next date.

There is nothing odd or wierd about meeting people from the web. Hello.... this is elite. <--- think on that.

There is also no need for long drawn out email exchanges/chatting and calls. If after one telephone conversation you can't surmize whether or not you want to meet the person IRL then there is something wrong with your process. In other words you are too confused to know what you want or don't want. Just trust your gut and move ahead.

Really, all kidding aside, a guy like you could greatly benefit from my book. :heart:
 
the_clockwork said:
I don't trust my friends judgement in women. They only see tits and my female friends only see "great personality" women. Not to sound arrogant but I got to have a girl in fit condition. Working out is a huge part of my life style so it must be part of hers too. One of my biggest turn offs in women is not working out, even if they have smokin bodies because it will eventually go away if they don't work on it

That's a problem (friends).
I don't think that's arrogant, it's just a preference and frankly it usually doesn't work out when you have two people with very different and not compatible lifestyles.

How about the gym?
Meet anyone there that interests you?
 
velvett said:
That's a problem (friends).
I don't think that's arrogant, it's just a preference and frankly it usually doesn't work out when you have two people with very different and not compatible lifestyles.

How about the gym?
Meet anyone there that interests you?

Hard to date in the gym. I met my exhusband in the gym. After that I simply refused to date from a place where I knew I would go with regularity as you know how men are: even if they got nuthin off ya, they will be bragging about how "you took them like a champ" or some shit like that. :rolleyes:

Men, you know damned well I am speaking the truth.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Hard to date in the gym. I met my exhusband in the gym. After that I simply refused to date from a place where I knew I would go with regularity as you know how men are: even if they got nuthin off ya, they will be bragging about how "you took them like a champ" or some shit like that. :rolleyes:

Men, you know damned well I am speaking the truth.

Hmmm, a gym in a different town or part of town?

I have some funny gym stories... boys are funny.
 
I met my lady on myspace. I was moving out to sacramneto and was looking for someone to show me around town. She responded and we talked for 2-3 months on line then decided to meet up. it has been great ever since.

Match.com
matchmaker.com
and the hook up site:
fling.com
 
velvett said:
Hmmm, a gym in a different town or part of town?

I have some funny gym stories... boys are funny.


Do tell, i would like to know

Im about to make a HUGE mistake

maybe your stories will knock some sense into me
 
i just checked out plentyoffish.com, looks pretty legit and its totally free, which is unheard of outside of cesspools like craigslist.
 
superdave said:
i just checked out plentyoffish.com, looks pretty legit and its totally free, which is unheard of outside of cesspools like craigslist.

you've met people of craigslist??
 
princesa said:
you've met people of craigslist??
No, if they arent fake ass bots they are nasty. so i havent met anyone there and dont even try to anymore.
 
superdave said:
No, if they arent fake ass bots they are nasty. so i havent met anyone there and dont even try to anymore.


ohh ok

i didnt even know there was a singles thing

it seemed more like prostitution
 
I'm not an advocate for online dating. You still have to get to know a person and through the computer that's just not really gonna happen. In some cases it works, but I rather just meet a women in person in everyday life. Your choice.
 
the_clockwork said:
I've found myself dating the same skanks over and over, mainly b/c I meet them at bars and don't really do anything else socially other than an occassional night out on the town with friends. Due to endless hours of work and researching I have come to the conclusion I should try the online dating. I hear mixed reviews, some say they meet skanks on their but I'm not looking for a 1 time booty call, not looking for marriage either, which is another thing I hear. Some women on there are batshit insane and only want babies and marriage.

Tell me about your experiences or if it's worth it.
Also what sites?
PS - NO gay sites

1) you'll get lotsa invites to visit girls on webcams
2) you'll get lotsa pics from ladies from 5 years ago.

if women are online dating - figure out why they're there.

if you hold on to the dream of "a diamond in the rough" dream of a hot beautiful down to earth chick who just can never find a nice girl in the real world - feel free to get inline with all the other guys online too. All of you can hold hands and have that dream too.

If you're going online to find some hottie - you're better off using a credit card.

r
 
AztecWarrior said:
I'm not an advocate for online dating. You still have to get to know a person and through the computer that's just not really gonna happen. In some cases it works, but I rather just meet a women in person in everyday life. Your choice.
Advantage to online dating=getting things on your "checklist" out of the way that you would see like a jerk for inquiring about in person. Plus how a woman or man writes about themselves in a profile tells a lot about the person.
Advantage to in person meeting is seeing the person without having to judge if their online pics are accurate, gauging how they interact with you, tone of voice, body language, etc.
Neither method is better, its simply preference.
 
superdave said:
Advantage to online dating=getting things on your "checklist" out of the way that you would see like a jerk for inquiring about in person. Plus how a woman or man writes about themselves in a profile tells a lot about the person.
Advantage to in person meeting is seeing the person without having to judge if their online pics are accurate, gauging how they interact with you, tone of voice, body language, etc.
Neither method is better, its simply preference.


You can't believe everything you read anyway. Everyone always puts there best foot out first. Reality is a bitch! What do I know. I never even tried online dating.
 
AztecWarrior said:
I'm not an advocate for online dating. You still have to get to know a person and through the computer that's just not really gonna happen. In some cases it works, but I rather just meet a women in person in everyday life. Your choice.


its only a way of meeting someone

its not like you are gonna have a relationship through a computer

i used to think that way too but its tough when

you limit yourself

bars=no (wouldnt get involved with anyone in a bar)
work=no
gym=no
target? they are mostly married with strollers lol no offense to the married man here
the mall?? not unless you are 22 years old

so you run out of places to meet people
 
AztecWarrior said:
You can't believe everything you read anyway. Everyone always puts there best foot out first. Reality is a bitch! What do I know. I never even tried online dating.
Ive done it for a decade, theres not much more chance of a chick telling any bigger lies than she would in person. She is, afterall, a female.
 
Razorguns said:
1) you'll get lotsa invites to visit girls on webcams
2) you'll get lotsa pics from ladies from 5 years ago.

if women are online dating - figure out why they're there.

if you hold on to the dream of "a diamond in the rough" dream of a hot beautiful down to earth chick who just can never find a nice girl in the real world - feel free to get inline with all the other guys online too. All of you can hold hands and have that dream too.

If you're going online to find some hottie - you're better off using a credit card.

r


lmao

you are so bitter

i dont blame you though, experience does that to you

but dont lose hope

giving up is easy
 
princesa said:
its only a way of meeting someone

its not like you are gonna have a relationship through a computer

i used to think that way too but its tough when

you limit yourself

bars=no (wouldnt get involved with anyone in a bar)
work=no
gym=no
target? they are mostly married with strollers lol no offense to the married man here
the mall?? not unless you are 22 years old

so you run out of places to meet people

Hasn't happen to me yet. Got lots of friends that introduce me to there friends. Just last month hooked up with a women at a stop light in my car. I can meet a women anywhere. It's not that hard. You guys are thinking way to much into things.
 
superdave said:
Ive done it for a decade, theres not much more chance of a chick telling any bigger lies than she would in person. She is, afterall, a female.

Yeah, it applies to everyway you can meet a person.
 
princesa said:
lmao

you are so bitter

i dont blame you though, experience does that to you

but dont lose hope

giving up is easy

Online sites skew the data online and try to pretend sites are full of hot beautiful women who can never find a nice guy. They do that, cuz they want the REVENUE. Remember, hot chicks don't go to the internet to find guys. lol.

Real life > internet. Look at how many ef males have found dates on this site. :)

r
 
Razorguns said:
Online sites skew the data online and try to pretend sites are full of hot beautiful women who can never find a nice guy. They do that, cuz they want the REVENUE. Remember, hot chicks don't go to the internet to find guys. lol.

Real life > internet. Look at how many ef males have found dates on this site. :)

r

well of course they do that, its advertisement--just like any other product

its your job to choose where do you wanna shop
 
I meet my wife online, been married now 9 years and i love her as much today as when we meet.

I was divorced once before.
I found that online gave me more of a variety to choose from, i could ask questions that i probably wouldn't ask normally.
When i first decided i was gonna start playing the field again i already had the basic things i would like to have from a woman. I was in a horrible marrage prior, so i wasn't going to settle for anything less than what i felt i deserved.

When me and my wife first started talking, we exchanged pitures and she was good looking. She asked if i wanted to goto dinner.
I asked if she had a job, she said yes
i asked if she had good credit, she said yes
I asked if she had money save and was financially secure, she said yes
I asked if she had a good running car, she said she had a new explorer

I said how does friday at 7 sound, your driving, i have no car, bad credit, no money, and i live with a room mate.

We both laughed. But those were some of my top concerns, and those were her concerns as well. So we hit it off been together every since, have two beautiful daughter.
 
gettin_big said:
I asked if she had a job, she said yes
i asked if she had good credit, she said yes
I asked if she had money save and was financially secure, she said yes
I asked if she had a good running car, she said she had a new explorer
.
Try asking those questions to a woman in person you want to get to know at a bar or in the supermarket or whatever, you wouldnt get very far.
interweb is good sometimes.
 
Razorguns said:
Online sites skew the data online and try to pretend sites are full of hot beautiful women who can never find a nice guy. They do that, cuz they want the REVENUE. Remember, hot chicks don't go to the internet to find guys. lol.

Real life > internet. Look at how many ef males have found dates on this site. :)

r

You are very skeptical of many things Razor.
 
AztecWarrior said:
You are very skeptical of many things Razor.

Ask any hot chick on the internet how many guys hit on her on the net daily. Ask how much she cares about these guys.

Internet is great for hitting on chicks who are in turn being hit on by tons of other guys!

r
 
Razorguns said:
Ask any hot chick on the internet how many guys hit on her on the net daily. Ask how much she cares about these guys.

Internet is great for hitting on chicks who are in turn being hit on by tons of other guys!

r

I agree about the internet thing. I'm just saying your way of thinking is very dark and rash in general about life. I never will try to date online when I can walk out of my house and hook up. Why waste time registering and writting a bunch of bullshit.
 
Razorguns said:
Ask any hot chick on the internet how many guys hit on her on the net daily. Ask how much she cares about these guys.

Internet is great for hitting on chicks who are in turn being hit on by tons of other guys!

r

I should setup a female profile complete with good looking authentic pics and conduct a social experiment on your assertions, of which i agree with by the way.
 
superdave said:
I should setup a female profile complete with good looking authentic pics and conduct a social experiment on your assertions, of which i agree with by the way.

You'll be surprised what kind of message you'll get. My friend did one as a joke 2 years back.
 
AztecWarrior said:
You'll be surprised what kind of message you'll get. My friend did one as a joke 2 years back.

On the plus side I can see what every jackass is doing, and just do the opposite. should be golden.
 
gettin_big said:
I meet my wife online, been married now 9 years and i love her as much today as when we meet.

I was divorced once before.
I found that online gave me more of a variety to choose from, i could ask questions that i probably wouldn't ask normally.
When i first decided i was gonna start playing the field again i already had the basic things i would like to have from a woman. I was in a horrible marrage prior, so i wasn't going to settle for anything less than what i felt i deserved.

When me and my wife first started talking, we exchanged pitures and she was good looking. She asked if i wanted to goto dinner.
I asked if she had a job, she said yes
i asked if she had good credit, she said yes
I asked if she had money save and was financially secure, she said yes
I asked if she had a good running car, she said she had a new explorer

I said how does friday at 7 sound, your driving, i have no car, bad credit, no money, and i live with a room mate.

We both laughed. But those were some of my top concerns, and those were her concerns as well. So we hit it off been together every since, have two beautiful daughter.

lol, that's awesome bro. congrats. it's good to hear the positive stories when so much of that ish is negative.
 
AztecWarrior said:
Do it. Keep us informed.
I need legit pics of a hot female. maybe someone on ef can give me some that doesnt live anywhere near me (houston)
 
AztecWarrior said:
You'll be surprised what kind of message you'll get. My friend did one as a joke 2 years back.

My friend created a fake profile of a 22 y/o blonde chick. Just smiling, no t/a, etc.

She had like I swear 40 EMAILS a day! From all these desperate losers. And she hadn't even put anything on her profile to show her personality. Just "I like movies". This shows the caliber of the desperate males that usually hit on women online. And the emails, good lord. Conclusion: "Hot chicks don't go to the internet to find guys". Non-hot chicks do. :)

(and 1 hot chick out of 10,000 using a site means..nothing!)

r
 
Razorguns said:
My friend created a fake profile of a 22 y/o blonde chick. Just smiling, no t/a, etc.

She had like I swear 40 EMAILS a day! From all these desperate losers. And she hadn't even put anything on her profile to show her personality. Just "I like movies". This shows the caliber of the desperate males that usually hit on women online. And the emails, good lord. Conclusion: "Hot chicks don't go to the internet to find guys". Non-hot chicks do. :)

(and 1 hot chick out of 10,000 using a site means..nothing!)

r
Yeah, my ex wife had the same experience and she's married to a guy she met on Match. She got dozens of drunk losers approaching her at clubs and couldn't filter them out. Just sayin'. :)
 
Razorguns said:
My friend created a fake profile of a 22 y/o blonde chick. Just smiling, no t/a, etc.

She had like I swear 40 EMAILS a day! From all these desperate losers. And she hadn't even put anything on her profile to show her personality. Just "I like movies". This shows the caliber of the desperate males that usually hit on women online. And the emails, good lord. Conclusion: "Hot chicks don't go to the internet to find guys". Non-hot chicks do. :)

(and 1 hot chick out of 10,000 using a site means..nothing!)

r

Exactly.
 
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