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cindylou

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I want sto start planning to start having my first baby next year. Any tips on things I should do now or get out of my system before this happens!




How much $$ in the bank do you think is appropriate and other tips!! I'm planning every single detail or at least trying to!!!

Much appreciated!! :)
 
cindylou said:
I want sto start planning to start having my first baby next year. Any tips on things I should do now or get out of my system before this happens!




How much $$ in the bank do you think is appropriate and other tips!! I'm planning every single detail or at least trying to!!!

Much appreciated!! :)
Go on vacation to every exotic location you wanted to visit because this is the last you'll own your life for about 18 years. :)
 
javaguru said:
Go on vacation to every exotic location you wanted to visit because this is the last you'll own your life for about 18 years. :)
lol true! But the baby will sure be a trip!

If you make over 40, 000 a year you are good to go, it will be the most amazing experience of yourlife, I wish you luck.
 
youngguns said:
lol true! But the baby will sure be a trip!

If you make over 40, 000 a year you are good to go, it will be the most amazing experience of yourlife, I wish you luck.
What the hell do you know about babies, you're still there yourself.
 
start taking a prenatal vit now.. it has the extra folic that you will need..

stop taking everything else..

workout especially your core exercises, and walk walk walk..

good luck
 
billfred said:
yeah - get rid of your binge drinking habit before you get preggo!!


Thanks for bringing that up.

Rest assured I will not drink while pregnant!! This is a pregnancy that is planned and wanted by both parents.
 
SpyWizard said:
start taking a prenatal vit now.. it has the extra folic that you will need..

stop taking everything else..

workout especially your core exercises, and walk walk walk..

good luck


walking ; before or during pregnancy ; and why??? :)
 
yeah, don't do like I did and make excusses for eating for two..lol

and with having a baby, you can never be totally prepared for everything.
 
Children are the best gift in life.

Sleep now as much as you can, cuz those days will be GONE after a baby comes into your home.

Eat clean and healthy-NO JUNK.

Those pre-natal vits are WONDERFUL.

Be ready for all the "stages" they go thru..Some are NOT easy.

Enjoy them when they are babies cuz they grow up toooo damn fast, then that's when your troubles begin.
 
ksharp01 said:
yeah, don't do like I did and make excusses for eating for two..lol

and with having a baby, you can never be totally prepared for everything.


See ; these are things I'm wondering about. My cals are too low as it is ; and they say to add 300 cals for a baby so that would bring me to 1700-1800 cals at the most.

I'll have no clue how to eat ; I eat a 50-30-20 p/c/f right now and thats just way too much protein I think! But its naturally how i end each day with my ratios even when not dieting. I dunno.

Who knows!
 
How old are you? How long have you been married? Do you own a home? Savings? investments? Insurance?

Did you already stop the pill?
 
all the whey said:
How old are you? How long have you been married? Do you own a home? Savings? investments? Insurance?

Did you already stop the pill?


25
married 3 years
own a home
yes on savings ; investments ; and insurance.

Only investments I have are retirement though.

Never was on the pill
 
cindylou said:
See ; these are things I'm wondering about. My cals are too low as it is ; and they say to add 300 cals for a baby so that would bring me to 1700-1800 cals at the most.

I'll have no clue how to eat ; I eat a 50-30-20 p/c/f right now and thats just way too much protein I think! But its naturally how i end each day with my ratios even when not dieting. I dunno.

Who knows!


I gained 25 lbs. with my lil one. I never counted shit when I was carrying her. I just ate CLEAN- No junk food or anything.

I know people who have lost weight during their terms due to morning sickness. So.,.,.,.it's hard to tell.

Keep active and eat CLEAN. Doctor will keep an eye on you.
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Fix binge drinking habit. Did you try what we suggested awhile ago?


yeah ; I would never drink while pregnant. I think my problem is more boredom than anything ;anything.

We shall see.

If prob. exists then I would wait to get preg. of course. :)
 
cindylou said:
yeah ; I would never drink while pregnant. I think my problem is more boredom than anything ;anything.

We shall see.

If prob. exists then I would wait to get preg. of course. :)
I understand. But I hope you wanting a baby isn't because you are bored. That shouldn't be the reason for wanting a child. :)
 
cindylou said:
25
married 3 years
own a home
yes on savings ; investments ; and insurance.

Only investments I have are retirement though.

Never was on the pill

25 seems to be when women get baby crazy.

Take your time. Having a baby is the most important thing. It is good you are planning and think a head. Most don't.

I know you mentioned drinking and I think your husband got a dui or accident?? (I am not taking a shot at you, because almost everyone deals with this.) Just make sure you get what you need to out of your system. Enjoy being with each other. You are still young.

The longer you wait, the more finacial and mature you will be for the baby.

Three years is not that long. And, people are living longer now. So, you do not need to have a baby by mid 20's.

Good luck!

Why don't you just get a kitty? :)
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
I understand. But I hope you wanting a baby isn't because you are bored. That shouldn't be the reason for wanting a child. :)


oh no.

I will be 27 by the time I give birth and he will be 31. We just kinda wanted it that way. Keep in mind I would start trying next year ; and then that's only if I get pregnant right away ; which I believe is not going to be the case since I'm not on the pill and have not already sperminated myself. lol

If I'm still parting and binge drinking at this time then I will know that I indeed do have a problem! lol!

I'm pretty sure that this is not the case.
 
all the whey said:
25 seems to be when women get baby crazy.

Take your time. Having a baby is the most important thing. It is good you are planning and think a head. Most don't.

I know you mentioned drinking and I think your husband got a dui or accident?? (I am not taking a shot at you, because almost everyone deals with this.) Just make sure you get what you need to out of your system. Enjoy being with each other. You are still young.

The longer you wait, the more finacial and mature you will be for the baby.

Three years is not that long. And, people are living longer now. So, you do not need to have a baby by mid 20's.

Good luck!

Why don't you just get a kitty? :)

This is a great answer all the whey.

True true.

P.S. I have two kitties! :)

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vixensghost said:
Children are the best gift in life.

Sleep now as much as you can, cuz those days will be GONE after a baby comes into your home.

Eat clean and healthy-NO JUNK.

Those pre-natal vits are WONDERFUL.

Be ready for all the "stages" they go thru..Some are NOT easy.

Enjoy them when they are babies cuz they grow up toooo damn fast, then that's when your troubles begin.
Teenager hell??? :)
 
javaguru said:
Teenager hell??? :)

Not yet!She's ten and is tooooo much like her mother.

Very strong willed and has an answer for everything! Keeps us on our toes for sure.

When she hits the dreaded teenager stage..It's gonna be a private convent if she's not careful. hehehe

Love her more than life 'tho.
 
cindylou said:
I want sto start planning to start having my first baby next year. Any tips on things I should do now or get out of my system before this happens!




How much $$ in the bank do you think is appropriate and other tips!! I'm planning every single detail or at least trying to!!!

Much appreciated!! :)

I will give you only one word of advice....SLEEP!!!

Get all you can now. hahahaha
 
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