Oak got that piece

[theoak01]

i finally fucked the ex,it was good but the fucking condom i had was to small and it didnt fit all the way,i did my thing anyway and pulled out before i blew but then i blew and there was nothing,i was stoned and drunk could this have anything to do with it? im scared i may have got some in,i dont need a kid ahhhh help

 

[Austin316]

your 16 right? If you do have a kid, you might as well shoot yourself, cause your lifes over. Unless your a scumbag who would run away that is. (Im joking)

 

[theoak01]

if i fucked up which i dont think i did cuz i was out when i blew ,but if i did then ill pay for a abortion,it seems wrong but at this age i dont think so

 

[Austin316]

well just remember that abortion isn't up to 'you" its up to "her", you could always slip her some RU486 if you had some lol

 

[theoak01]

i highly doubt it got in im just paranoid,and i dont think anything came out for some odd reason,but if it happens she will want a abortion we talk about it when we were hooked up

 

[Warik]

That was intelligent.

-Warik

 

[Badkins21]

I don't know if you were joking or not, but for a second let's pretend you weren't...I mean no actual disrespect by saying this, but...

You fucking moron! You let your dick control your actions, decide to keep fucking this girl when the condom doesn't fit, "maybe" let some in, and then just say "Ah, well, if I did mess up, I'll just PAY FOR AN ABORTION!!"

You piece of shit!! It's people like you that make me think abortion should become illegal again!! It's not an easy way out, and if you think it is, you're just another weak-minded human!!

Now, if you were joking, and actually have some dignity (meaning if the girl somehow did get pregnant you would do everything in your power to support her, AND YOUR CHILD) good for you!! I would be behind you 100%, just like I think everyone else would be, if you took responsibility for your actions...

Don't think this is coming from some religious nut, either, man, you know how I feel about that stuff.

LIKE I SAID, I honestly don't mean to come down on you, but it's shit said with no remorse like that that really pisses me off when it comes to this issue. Abortion is not something to joke about...

(brought to you by your local Elite moral advocate, Blair )

 

[Warik]

Yea seriously dude, abortion isn't birth control. Duh!

"Oh the condom didn't fit but I went at it anyway." Better start saving up money for that abortion if that's what you plan to do.

Stuff comes out before the final blow if you didn't know. Didn't they teach you that in sex-ed?

Coming soon: Canadian Daddy

-Warik

 

[1911]

Re:

"i finally fucked the ex,..."

Good man.

"...but the fucking condom i had was to small and it didnt fit..."

Too small, eh? Yeah...right!

Later,

 

[YellowD]

...but the fucking condom i had was to small and it didnt fit...

Translation: Condoms suck a fatty

Welcome to the worry game. Its the most sweat yanking, ball busting, life toying wait there is. Living your life month to month, checking the calendar, check the waste basket for tampon applicators. I know it all too well.

 

[theoak01]

i know im stupid my judgement was somewhat impaired from what i had been using that nite,i regret it alot but i mean im 16 if you guys were in my place and this happened what would you do,i pump gas for a living i dont even love this girl anymore ,im sure things will be fine but im sober and now paranoid thats all,im knwo im a dick so lets not remind me of that

 

[studpup]

Morning after pill

Hey studboy - thinking with the little head again...

Probably after the fact, but for the girl there is a thing called "the morning after pill", for just such emergencies - she can get it from her OB GYN - probably not a bad thing to have around just in case.

Amazing how we can spend hours and hours educating ourselves on potentially hormone-fucking chemicals, but still can't manage basic sport-fucking. Modern science has some answers for that too... and abortion isn't necessarily the right one.

 

[theoak01]

its long weekend up here she wont be ablet og et to a doctor till its to late for the morning after,i think all walk in clinics are closed

 

[studpup]

Maybe at least try.... give the doc a call & say its an emergency. Shit bro, its cheaper than an abortion (not to mention less stressful on the girl - have a little fuckin respect for her already...)

 

[theoak01]

i have respect for her man,she is the one who came to me for sex and i agreed,i fucked up but i honestly dont think anything was in i was out when i blew,u know the feeling 5 secs b4 u go,well when i got that i came out then it felt like i blew once i was out but the condom was empty,thats why im pretty sure it will be ok

 

[smallmovesal]

not that i'm siding with you oak

but it's not like she didn't let him do it w/o the condom. it was her decision too, and it could be her consequences as well.

 

[theoak01]

i knwo i really fucked up,i wasnt thinking,and im just thinking of solutions to make it right if that is the case,anybody have any idea why there was nothing in the condom if i pulled out and came ,do drugs or beer effect it,maybe i shot a blank?

 

[The Varnsen]

I don´t know why you guys pay attention to this stuff...

 

[theoak01]

what you think this is a fucking joke,it isnt ,people make mistakes ok and i did

 

[Badkins21]

Varnsen: I try to pay attention to everything...It makes life more interesting

Oak: Man, just stay calm, and get her to go the doctor as soon as possible...Explain what happened. And in a month or so, have her go back and get checked out...

I'm hoping, for your sake--AND HERS (because I do agree with smallmovesal that it takes "two to tango!!")--that it was just a mistake that you both won't have to live with...

BUT, when the time comes, make the right decision. Your life isn't "over," no matter how many people can't handle their's. There are options, including adoption, school/childcare, etc. Do what you have to do, but don't make any irrational decisions that will haunt you for the rest of your life.

Abortion = murder...and it's murdering a part of yourself. Please think about that IF (and I'm hoping it's not!!) it comes to that...



In thought...Blair $$

 

[The Varnsen]

I won´t bother writing more than one or two lines about something i very much suspect isn´t true...

 

[Austin316]

I really think some of you take sex too lightly. For one, I really have no interest in doing it with someone I don't love, and Im scared to death of STD's and the possibility of having a kid, no one is invincible and its not always going to be the other guy that bad things happen to.

 

[Badkins21]

Austin: I agree...

 

[danielson]

i think the morning after pill works 72hrs after the 'event' takes place

so.....get her to a DOCTOR! its availible over the counter here, check to see if it is over there

get a larger condom if its that much of a problem. precum oozes out before the big nut like warik said so pulling out is not as good (and much less fun )

you can try and work out how likely it is she got pregnant by where in her menstrual cycle she was...but just get her the mornin after pill stat!

oh and btw i think a lot of guys would have done what u did considering what was in your system. but, i dont think u should make a habit of it

 

[YellowD]

Got RU-486?

 

[theoak01]

she is going to the doctor first thing tomorrow morning and then its the morning after pill if she is pregnant