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note to self: don't get knocked up while in school

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tripleblonde

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wtf? my other best friend (not the girl i went to dallas with) is pregnant....

yep....besides being completely and totally shocked, i'm pretty damn mad at her....she also told me that since she is "starting her family early" this will be her last semester of college.....that's right, let's spend 50,000 and then not finish our last year of college because we're "starting our family early"

i love her, but what the hell....she's gorgeous, can have any guy she wants, and now she's acting like it's no big deal that she is knocked up by some loser and won't be finishing her senior year of college....

blah........i feel sick now
 
tripleblonde said:
she's always been a smart, independent woman who never took shit from anybody....this just isn't the girl i grew up with....
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Obviously, she took some shit this time..Only the shit was sperm on a mission.

HELLO?!?!?!? Does she not know about birth control?
 
she isn't some oklahoman hick....she's a good girl who got involved in a bad situation and made some shitty decisions....i don't know what they were thinking, but their both just thrilled about having a child....i don't get it really....i'm just pissed she's dropping out of school...what a waste of money, effort, and time
 
it's the hormones man. pregnant women get all kinds of fucked up ideers in their heads. takes a year to get back to normal.
 
sconoscuito said:
she can go back cant she


whos the guy? just random shmo of the street?
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no....her "boyfriend", but he's a loser...no way around it
she doesn't wanna go back....she's said she's excited about starting a family...it's like i'm in the twilight zone....these words are not her
 
Have they sat down to figure out what it's going to cost them in current income to raise it?
 
tripleblonde said:
she doesn't wanna go back....she's said she's excited about starting a family...it's like i'm in the twilight zone....these words are not her
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i think your dummass freak of a girlfriend is bipolar - feed her some Lithium: I mean just because she's pregnant doesn't justify why she's all hyper about a family, right?
 
Dial_tone said:
Have they sat down to figure out what it's going to cost them in current income to raise it?
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who knows....she was studying to be an accountant so she swears she has it all planned out....she is a server at a really nice steakhouse so she is currently bringing in anywhere from 150-200 a night in tips, but eventually she won't be able to work there anymore so....???
 
tripleblonde said:
eh...i guess.....her parents are pretty strict Christians so their pushin' them to get married a.s.a.p.
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Ah, yes, the magical cure all. Marriage. :sick: Nothing like having parents who are so in a rush to get them into marriage just because she's having a baby. Marriage, the absolute snake oil.
 
juve said:
i think your dummass freak of a girlfriend is bipolar - feed her some Lithium: I mean just because she's pregnant doesn't justify why she's all hyper about a family, right?
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she's not a dumb ass, i just think she's puttin up a front to act like she's cool w/all this.....like, "i've always wanted a family, so this is all good"

and strongsmartsexy....i agree with you 100%
 
tripleblonde said:
eh...i guess.....her parents are pretty strict Christians so their pushin' them to get married a.s.a.p.
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that may explain why she is a bad girl
 
superqt4u2nv said:
How far along is she? How much school does she have left?
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we're both in our 2nd semester of our junior year....we've had every class together since the 1st day of freshman year, so this is tough for me to deal with....we promised each other that first day we would get each other through to the end.

she is actually 3 1/2 months along....but she's the tiniest little thing so she's been able to hide any growth from everybody by wearing bigger shirts....
 
no glove, no love
 
tripleblonde said:
she's not a dumb ass, i just think she's puttin up a front to act like she's cool w/all this.....like, "i've always wanted a family, so this is all good"
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since you're such close friends, get a reality check on her - believing your own self-deception is only soothing for a short while. since her happiness has no firm/real foundations she is soon to crumble from all the life's adversities arising from desultory and impetuous pregnancy.

oh, yea, and don't claim the dude is a loser - your girlfriend is as much an equivalent to him (intellect-wise) - both are cretins!
 
Can they pay the rent & all the bills on their own or are they gonna have to move in with her parents? That'll be tough on everybody if they do...... especially if the parents are so strict but that's what happens in alot of these types of situations. And since the guy is a loser, like you said, I wonder after the baby is born, how long he'll last. That's major responsibility coming down the pike. Many young guys just aren't ready to deal with that yet. Not saying it won't work mind you...just a reality check & something to think about.
 
juve said:
since you're such close friends, get a reality check on her - believing your own self-deception is only soothing for a short while. since her happiness has no firm/real foundations she is soon to crumble from all the life's adversities arising from desultory and impetuous pregnancy.

oh, yea, and don't claim the dude is a loser - your girlfriend is as much an equivalent to him (intellect-wise) - both are cretins!
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i agree with what your saying and that they both messed up equally....i'll give you that, but what is different is that this guy isn't going anywhere fast and my friend had herself on the right track for the dreams that she always told me she had for herself....
 
daveyboy said:
Can they pay the rent & all the bills on their own or are they gonna have to move in with her parents? That'll be tough on everybody if they do...... especially if the parents are so strict but that's what happens in alot of these types of situations. And since the guy is a loser, like you said, I wonder after the baby is born, how long he'll last. That's major responsibility coming down the pike. Many young guys just aren't ready to deal with that yet. Not saying it won't work mind you...just a reality check & something to think about.
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not sure davey....i don't know how this is all gonna play out.... :(
 
tripleblonde said:
exactly....lover boy claimed he "pulled out"....heh

this is another reason that i have no regrets about being a virgin....i never have to worry about this shiiiat
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I've known a couple of girls who were "virgins". Meaning they didn't do anything vaginally, but they sure made solid use of their mouths and asses.
 
that dude needs to get into real estate or something if he doesnt have nothing goin for him

open up a small business or just find a way to make cash

does he do absolutely nothing?
 
strongsmartsexy said:
I've known a couple of girls who were "virgins". Meaning they didn't do anything vaginally, but they sure made solid use of their mouths and asses.
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eh...whatever you wanna call it....i'm just saying that I personally like never having concern or anxiety over whether i am pregnant
 
It sounds like it doesn't matter what the girl wants at this point anyway. If her parents are pushing for marriage they're probably gonna get their way, especially if they're footing the college bill.
 
Dial_tone said:
It sounds like it doesn't matter what the girl wants at this point anyway. If her parents are pushing for marriage they're probably gonna get their way, especially if they're footing the college bill.
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blah....this whole thing sucks....she actually almost had a full ride, they were only paying a little but your right, they will get their way
 
"Re: note to self: don't get knocked up while in school" - that's good advice

Your friend is probably acting like this because she doesn't want to anyone or herself to know she screwed up. Plus, lots of women really feed on the attention they get when they're pregnant. Raising a kid is hard even in the best of circumstances, and she's deluding herself thinking all the pieces will just magically fall into place.

Just wait until a few months after the birth when all the shower presents and new baby gifts are opened, and she and her baby are old news to everybody and no different from the other 8+ billion people on the planet. She'll be moaning and groaning how hard it all is, how tired she is, how expensive diapers are, etc. And then almost in the same breath she'll say "but it's all worth it..." and she'll try to talk you into doing the same thing.

Oh, and if she thinks her waitressing job will be enough, you might want to send her this little reality check: http://www.babycenter.com/costofchild/
 
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FitFossil said:
"Re: note to self: don't get knocked up while in school" - that's good advice

Your friend is probably acting like this because she doesn't want to anyone or herself to know she screwed up. Plus, lots of women really feed on the attention they get when they're pregnant. Raising a kid is hard even in the best of circumstances, and she's deluding herself thinking all the pieces will just magically fall into place.

Just wait until a few months after the birth when all the shower presents and new baby gifts are opened, and she and her baby are old news to everybody and no different from the other 8+ billion people on the planet. She'll be moaning and groaning how hard it all is, how tired she is, how expensive diapers are, etc. And then almost in the same breath she'll say "but it's all worth it..." and she'll try to talk you into doing the same thing.
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your right girl....your absolutely right.....i'm such a independent person that i've never had a desire to get married/have kids etc....i'm content getting my education, spoiling my nieces and nephews, and not getting attached to anyone....it just leads to nonsense that i don't have time for
 
tripleblonde said:
she isn't some oklahoman hick....she's a good girl who got involved in a bad situation and made some shitty decisions....i don't know what they were thinking, but their both just thrilled about having a child....i don't get it really....i'm just pissed she's dropping out of school...what a waste of money, effort, and time
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Maybe she's just in love - maybe you should just open your mind - compared to a great relationship , a college education ,great job and money has meant very little to me. Mere blips in the ocean to me.
 
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