Lately I've been getting "nice guyed". The last girl I went out with who was calling me, I went out on 3 dates and I think all she wanted was for me to be her teddy bear. That's bad. Real bad.
I know there is no simple answer, but i just wanna know that when I approach women, what is a good way to avoid being "nice guyed". Basically I would much rather a girl reject me than want to hang out with me b/c I'm a "nice guy".
Another data point is last weekend, I went out and then met up with two girls after the bar for some chow. I didn't pay for anything of course, but it turns out they both had boyfriends. So they were hanging out with me b/c I was a "nice guy" again.
In one month I've been nice guyed twice. I want this to end. Any suggestions?
I know there is no simple answer, but i just wanna know that when I approach women, what is a good way to avoid being "nice guyed". Basically I would much rather a girl reject me than want to hang out with me b/c I'm a "nice guy".
Another data point is last weekend, I went out and then met up with two girls after the bar for some chow. I didn't pay for anything of course, but it turns out they both had boyfriends. So they were hanging out with me b/c I was a "nice guy" again.
In one month I've been nice guyed twice. I want this to end. Any suggestions?

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