New cycle - new gf - can't cum!

[freshr1]

Haha! She's quite tight actually, that's not the problem I assure you. And even though I was nervous the first few times, I've relaxed. I thought it was the not being relaxed bit too. I think Whiskey hit the nail on the head here. As for masturbating on her, sure that's ok, but then it goes back to the problem that she thinks she's not good enough to be able to make me cum. The worst part is that she is so fucking hot, tight body, everything's in place. I've banged my share of chicks, but nothing on this scale.

Thanks for the replies, keep 'em coming (no pun!).

 

[nautica]

It is hard for me to get off when I am on a cycle. Can go for 2 hours and not cum. If she knows your are juicing then tell her that is the problem not her.

The more she worries about it the more you will worry about it and it will be impossible to cum.

Trust me, you will eventially cum.

and btw - quit jerking off. (one suggestion - if you continue to have troubles - throw in a porn - get to the point of cuming without finishing. Go over to her house fuck her and then bust your nut. This will at least get her to relax.)

Nautica

 

[milkbone]

Send her to my apartment and I'll make sure that she isn't the problem. J/K

Hey man, you've probably got some problems going on upstairs. I've had that shit before ... feels like it takes forever. When me and a new girl have sex I'm all about "don't cum ... don't cum". Then after it's turned into a marathon, I'm like "Okay ... hurry it up or you're gonna be fucked". Just relax ... and it will happen. BTW, are you doing her doggy style? I don't know about everbody else, but when I'm hittin' it doggy, I can bend at the knees just enough to get the quads burning and it's just a matter of seconds before I'm cutting Z's and she's talking and cuddling. Good luck brother.

 

[nautica]

milkbone,

You just had to paint us a picture didn't ya.

 

[milkbone]

Go over to her house fuck her and then bust your nut. This will at least get her to relax.

Nautica

I had to re-read that 3 times. I kept saying ... "house fuck her?" I thought I wasn't down with some sex slang. lmao

 

[The_Eviscerator]

I had the same problem with my woman last night in the shower. I was fucking her for about 20 straight minutes like a jack hammer and she must have had about 3 orgasms. She was getting tired. Unfortunately I was not even close to cumming. I knew I had to cum so I flexed my ass cheeks and calfs and tensed up... After a few minutes I finally came.

 

[marky]

Slow it down and like they say, focus on the muscle being worked

 

[nautica]

I had to re-read that 3 times. I kept saying ... "house fuck her?" I thought I wasn't down with some sex slang. lmao

LOL. Forgot the comma, huh.

 

[milkbone]

Also, are you using a condom? You could always just fake it. I doubt she's gonna look in it after you're done. If you got busted you be in for shit though.

I've also just had the girl finish me off with oral, especially if I'm using a condom. Those things suck!!! Anyway, the oral thing does it for me, and like the other dude said, flex the calves, ass, quads, etc and your new nickname will be "quickdraw".

 

[freshr1]

Thanks for all the tips! I'll give it a try and post the results, lol.