need some advice

[fallenangel]

This is a bit of a weird one but anyway, I was walking back from work the other day and this girl who lives near me came up and started chatting and then play fighting with me and to cut a long story short we ended up kissing. I got her mobile number off her today and am going to send her a text message later, the thing is i'm not really sure she's interested as she seemed a bit reticent about giving me her number and seemed totally quiet around me. She wasn't pissed or anything when she went with me but maybe she regrets it. What message do you think i should send her? You know should i ask her if she's interested or if she wants to meet up tonight.

I know a lot of you guys are smooth with the ladies so give me an idea please

 

[havoc]

Ask her to breakfast or brunch, works every time. peace

 

[fallenangel]

any other ideas?

 

[supersizeme]

I will help you out with this since your post was like reading an excerpt from my daily life. My commute to and from work is roughly about an hour each way, so it's pretty much a given that at some point on the drive home, I will start chatting up some panties while sitting in traffic. It always goes the same way where we pull off into the closest parking lot, engage in some mock samurai showdown where one of us commits hari kari, and then we make out. What you need to do is call up the panties and ask her out to the next pagan festival you will be having in your town. Yesterday in downtown Dallas we had one...just a bunch of witches and weird godless shit gathered together, and it's like grazy for the ladies cuz they know "ain't no party like a Wiccan party cuz a Wiccan party don't stop."

 

[fallenangel]

ha ha she aint a wiccan though and i don't think they have them parties near me

 

[fallenangel]

bump coz i wanna text her tonight, and i've gotta go home in about ten minutes (i'm in the library)

 

[Bullit]

I think you should focus on the fun, playful part of the walk. Do this but subtly assert your 'maleness' cuz chicks like MEN not boys. Maybe somehing like:
"Hey that fighting was fun. But I wanted you to know that I work out, so I could fuckin pound the living shit out of you if I tried. Dont go around thinking that our little gay-ass playfight was real. If I had wanted to you would be in the goddmamn hospital drinking out of a straw right now with two balck eyes and a busted neck. Ask my ex girlfriend, I can kick fuckin ass."

 

[fallenangel]

Well i asked her and she aint interested i give up on women really i do can any man work these people out? i asked her why she hit on me and kissed me the other night and she said it felt right right and i'm very sorry, well at least she was nice about blowing me out

 

[Bullit]

Was this a text dump or a face to face dump?

 

[cure]

Never waste an opportunity to tap that ass! Think of it as there is no tomorrow!

 

[duritz]

What seems to work all the time for me is this... Hey we should hang out sometime. Based on her response back you will know if anything can happen. If she says yeah we should and asks when then you are in. If she says she is so busy right now then you know she isn't interested

 

[CYBERNIGG]

Was this a text dump or a face to face dump?

Yeah. Was it a text dump? Because that means nothing. She might just be playing hard to get or seeing if you really want her. Now if she dumped you face to face then forget it.