Need some advice

[muscledog95]

Hi......I hung out with a 36 yr old women that just got divorced. She bugged me all night for sex. I finally gave in (a little drunk) i stuck it in and proceeded to have sex for about 30 seconds then stopped (cuz i didnt have a condom). She says she doesn't have anything. What do you all think

 

[21inch_arms]

Because you stopped your chances are less, but that does not mean your home free. There's still a chance that you got an STD, I'm talking non specific, it could be anything. My advice is to go get tested at Planned Parenthood (because all you have to do is make a donation) or go to the hospital. Remember not all STD's especially HIV shows up on tests right away so get retested in 90 days and then in 6 months. Good luck, it's better to be safe than sorry, and I bet you already knew the answer.

 

[muscledog95]

thanks....how long does it take to notice symptoms? That night we had some alcohol and didnt sleep at all.....the next morning and even right now i have been light headed. This happened on monday.....

 

[muscledog95]

i feel like i might be getting a tad bit of flue or something/. I talked to her about it and she says she knows she doesn't have anything. So my guess is it was something in the room,drinks, pizza or something else

 

[danielson]

it depends on if/what you caught from her

it might not be anything, symptoms from say HIV can take years to show up, a urinary tract infection might be sooner. best to go check it out

 

[usersatch]

Your chances of getting HIV from a female are pretty low if you only had vaginal intercourse and no blood was involved. But as everyone else is saying, other STDs are possible. You can wait until symptoms show up, but most STDs are asymptomatic. Or you can go to the doc and get tested. I would wait a couple of weeks and get tested if you are really worried about it. In the meantime, don't have sex with anyone until you get tested. Please act responsibly!