Need Female Help Bad, Please Help!

[Clomid_ia]

when I first moved to this new town from a very large city in eastern europe, I found it hard to make friends. Out of lonliness and selfishness, I went to this one strip club near were I lived just to have some company while I had a couple drinks.

well... me and one of the girls got to know each other well (only on a friendship basis when I'd come in every now and then). All the girls know me cause I'm one of the few that are young and have a great body that come in every once and a while.

Well, tonight, for a personal (depressed) reason, I was there and a girl that I have become good friends with has invited me to her birthday party.

The party includes her and her stripper friends and a bunch of her non stripper friends. I am what girls call a prude and am kind of old fashioned and would like to go because there will be soooooo many beautiful women there ( they have a coach bus for 6 hours and a hotel), but since I wouldn't sleep with anyone because of how I feel I should handle relationships, should I say I'm busy and skip it, or go and put up with the ones that try to get with me and have to turn them down.

This is in all seriousness!!!!! I really need some support here, and if people show that they care about my situation, I will keep everyone updated on what happens!

Thanks so much, because I'm really at a hard spot here that I could use some support at!

Thanks

Clom-

 

[Paulos]

I think you should quit being such a sissy faggot and go get some motherfucking stripper poontang.

 

[Clomid_ia]

I know I have enough self restraint to be able to go and still hold to my morals, but I'm not sure if it's even worth it. It would be great to meet so many new people, despite the fact that I don't think the girls would be the ones that I would truly like to meet.

I'm really torn. I'd have no problem staying at home, but this could be a cool time. but...if a cool time means comprimising my beliefs, maybe I should make an excuse and skip it....


what should I do? I'm just looking for opinions and input here.

 

[Clomid_ia]

It's just that I'm going to be spending my night with like 5 strippers and a bunch of their friends and I want to be with them as friends, but am worrried about how things might get after all of them have a few drinks ...oO( though knowing them they will be drinking alot!!) That, however, doesn't change the fact that I will not be having sex till I'm married, which puts me in a very difficult situation as I will be one of the few guys in very thick and cut shape.

Please don't let the above sound prideful as I am completely serious and am really worried about what I should do. Thanks for any help!
Please reply sincere

 

[Clomid_ia]

the sooner the sincere replies the better as tomorrow, Wed Evening, I need to let her know if I'll be attending.

 

[Clomid_ia]

please brothers in the sport, I could realy use support! I really need some help fast. I would appreciate as many sincere replies as possible, since I truly don;t know what to do!

Thank you so much to those of you that give some quality insight!

-Clom

 

[Alucard]

lmfao

 

[WODIN]

your computer is in chicago...not eastern europe.

 

[Clomid_ia]

I've recently moved to the US and am a U.S. Citizen and would appreciate all help in this situation. Thanks

 

[Alucard]

To clarify:

He didn't say that he is in Eastern Europe.

To clarify further:

Chicago ain't no small town. lol

 

[WODIN]

Okay...stripper bday party...means lots and lots of sex. Since you don't care for this type of free for all then I would suggest you skip it.


Just make friends through work and whatever interest you have. You'll do fine.

Welcome to America.

 

[Clomid_ia]

from what she told me, we will be meeting for dinner. There will be about 24 of us. after dinner, there will be about 3 pubs in the area that we will be going to were she will get a free bottle because it's her B- Day, after that, everyone will be going to a hotel from what she told me. I'm thinking that maybe I could hang with them till they hit the hotel, then head out. I know I have the discipline to do so, but it's hard to decide since she's one of the few people I've really gotten to know in this city. (and no, I didn't meet her as a stripper. It started quite a while before that.) I'd Like to still show her respect at her birthday

 

[WODIN]

Sounds like a plan that will work.

If it were me, I'd be praying for an orgy, but that's me.