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Need date ideas for taking out a square chick

SoreArms

SoreArms

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There's this cute chick at work, she's been working here for some time now. Some of the office chicks were trying to set us up several months back, they told me she was interested but I hate that put you in an ackward spot kind of pressure so I acted disinterested. I hadn't really talked to her since she started working here aside from hi and good morning and crap like that. Mostly becasue there are always people around and I don't like people knowing my bussiness.

It was her bday last week so I e-mailed her to say happy birthday and started some small chit chat with her. I wound up taking her out to lunch the next day, but didn't try anything drastic, just general conversation. Yesterday I e-mailed her and asked her if she would like to hang out some time outside of work, she replied today with the OK. The problem is that she's pretty shy, she doesn't drink and she doesn't look like she rock and rolls. All my date ideas involve alcohol and some sort of non-square activity. Although she might not care if I have a drink or two, since I can never just have a drink or two I worry that I'd wind up sauced up. I don't want to do anything sappy like going to the movies, thats a crappy first date. Playing pool, dancing or dinner are alcohol related events for me so I don't want to do that either. I would like to do something where there is an environment to help create conversation and distraction if things get ackward. I also want to do something fun and casual, that way even if don't hit it off in a romantic way, atleast we had a fun time and don't have to feel akward about running into each other at work. Coffee shop comes to mind, but the coffee shops I frequent are a bit on the counter culture side, so not sure about that either. Unfortunately I don't know much about her and her interests, maybe I should ask her in e-mails about crap like that. I've never dated anyone outside my realm of interests so this is kind of scary for me but I'll give it a try.

Any tips?
 
SoreArms said:
There's this cute chick at work, she's been working here for some time now. Some of the office chicks were trying to set us up several months back, they told me she was interested but I hate that put you in an ackward spot kind of pressure so I acted disinterested. I hadn't really talked to her since she started working here aside from hi and good morning and crap like that. Mostly becasue there are always people around and I don't like people knowing my bussiness.

It was her bday last week so I e-mailed her to say happy birthday and started some small chit chat with her. I wound up taking her out to lunch the next day, but didn't try anything drastic, just general conversation. Yesterday I e-mailed her and asked her if she would like to hang out some time outside of work, she replied today with the OK. The problem is that she's pretty shy, she doesn't drink and she doesn't look like she rock and rolls. All my date ideas involve alcohol and some sort of non-square activity. Although she might not care if I have a drink or two, since I can never just have a drink or two I worry that I'd wind up sauced up. I don't want to do anything sappy like going to the movies, thats a crappy first date. Playing pool, dancing or dinner are alcohol related events for me so I don't want to do that either. I would like to do something where there is an environment to help create conversation and distraction if things get ackward. I also want to do something fun and casual, that way even if don't hit it off in a romantic way, atleast we had a fun time and don't have to feel akward about running into each other at work. Coffee shop comes to mind, but the coffee shops I frequent are a bit on the counter culture side, so not sure about that either. Unfortunately I don't know much about her and her interests, maybe I should ask her in e-mails about crap like that. I've never dated anyone outside my realm of interests so this is kind of scary for me but I'll give it a try.

Any tips?
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Do not poke her eye with your finger!
 
I've had success with similar personalities taking them to race go-karts. It sounds retarded, but you can see how agressive they are on a track like that. If she's trying to put you into the wall and starts getting fired up she might be a little wild even though she doesn't party. Otherwise I'd put GHB in her shirley temple and ditch her in the park after I was done.
 
round pegs don't go into square holes.

for real though, just try a nice dinner, perhaps a movie. That usually leads to good conversation, walks etc. Find out what her movie interests are. You may have to suck it up if she likes the girlie movies and your not into them. On the other hand, she may not be such a square...
 
Yeah, then don't forget that after you date her seriously for a few months, you need to break up and bitch about how much you love her on EF.

The SWV need new members.
 
26 and she doesn't drink...hmm...odd, but nothing wrong with that. How do you know she doesn't drink, has she come out and said it?

But yeah Miniature golf is always fun. There is no room for awkward silences usually. You can touch her a lot (here's how you swing, bla bla). You can goof around and be funny and all that jazz and it's relaxed.

You'll be balldeep in her by the back 9.
 
Wild Safari Park, Golf, Arcade games, Boat ride, grab a basket, some wine, food take her out to a medow for a picnick.


RADAR
 
Miniature golf is good and coffee afterwards or ice cream and talk/walk somewhere, a park or lake/beach/bedroom... etc.

Even if you just go to the park or crowded area where you could make fun of the rollerbladers or something while you hang out having coffee or something.

or bedroom.
 
library. find one with an upper level that has a railing directly above people sitting at tables. spot a nice girl, and then bust a nut on her from up on high.

i don't care who your date is, she'll be impressed.
 
SoreArms said:
There's this cute chick at work, she's been working here for some time now. Some of the office chicks were trying to set us up several months back, they told me she was interested but I hate that put you in an ackward spot kind of pressure so I acted disinterested. I hadn't really talked to her since she started working here aside from hi and good morning and crap like that. Mostly becasue there are always people around and I don't like people knowing my bussiness.

It was her bday last week so I e-mailed her to say happy birthday and started some small chit chat with her. I wound up taking her out to lunch the next day, but didn't try anything drastic, just general conversation. Yesterday I e-mailed her and asked her if she would like to hang out some time outside of work, she replied today with the OK. The problem is that she's pretty shy, she doesn't drink and she doesn't look like she rock and rolls. All my date ideas involve alcohol and some sort of non-square activity. Although she might not care if I have a drink or two, since I can never just have a drink or two I worry that I'd wind up sauced up. I don't want to do anything sappy like going to the movies, thats a crappy first date. Playing pool, dancing or dinner are alcohol related events for me so I don't want to do that either. I would like to do something where there is an environment to help create conversation and distraction if things get ackward. I also want to do something fun and casual, that way even if don't hit it off in a romantic way, atleast we had a fun time and don't have to feel akward about running into each other at work. Coffee shop comes to mind, but the coffee shops I frequent are a bit on the counter culture side, so not sure about that either. Unfortunately I don't know much about her and her interests, maybe I should ask her in e-mails about crap like that. I've never dated anyone outside my realm of interests so this is kind of scary for me but I'll give it a try.

Any tips?
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if you think you might have a problem with small talk with her, take her to a movie. but if you can be comfortable with her, take her out, and do something different. give her something that she will remember you for. shit, the put-put idea is a great one. if you really think that you want to get to know her, pick up a yellow rose. just one though. if she asks what it is for, tell her that the yellow rose stands for a beautiful friendship that you hope will blossom (a yellow rose is for friendship in case you didn't know.) yeah, it sounds kind of corny, but, girls love that stuff. plus, the yellow one puts you in a safe zone. it really shows her that you are interested, and that you have a romantic side, but she wont be 100% sure if you want a friendship, or if you want to get to know her more (as in a potential GF.)

take her to dinner too. just dont have anything to drink
 
Illuminati said:
if if you really think that you want to get to know her, pick up a yellow rose. just one though. if she asks what it is for, tell her that the yellow rose stands for a beautiful friendship that you hope will blossom (a yellow rose is for friendship in case you didn't know.)
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That's gay. I know a lot of girls that would probably laugh in your face if you did that.
 
go for coffee, that way if it's good you can continue, but if it's bad you can end it there. Also see what she like to do
 
Probably wanna avoid phrases like "Yo bitch" and "Whad up wit dat size 12 ass in those size 8 jeans?".
 
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slickdadd said:
26 and she doesn't drink...hmm...odd, but nothing wrong with that. How do you know she doesn't drink, has she come out and said it?
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When we went out to lunch I asked her if she got drunk for her birthday and she said that she doesn't really drink, which put a damper on my sure shot get'em drunk scheme.
 
SoreArms said:
When we went out to lunch I asked her if she got drunk for her birthday and she said that she doesn't really drink, which put a damper on my sure shot get'em drunk scheme.
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"Doesn't really drink" means she will drink, she just doesn't drink every weekend or with any regularity. She'll have some drinks. Especially if she likes you.

I drink, but lately I don't drink a lot just because I've been busy and I'll tell people "I don't really drink" lately.
 
SoreArms said:
When we went out to lunch I asked her if she got drunk for her birthday and she said that she doesn't really drink, which put a damper on my sure shot get'em drunk scheme.
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There's always roofies...
 
Do you really want to go out w/this chick?

Or, are you bored or things slow right now? (I've been there)

You have alot to lose if she works w/you.
 
SoreArms said:
both and I know
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Be careful. A couple of my friends told me this is how they ended up marrying their 1st wife. They were bored or in a rut and met a nice girl that was OK. (They didn't love them) You don't want to go out w/her if those are the reasons. Its not fair to her either.

Also, a chick from work is tough. If you screw up on the date, then everyone at work is going to know. Or, if it works out, then you break up a couple of yrs later you will suffer like Lestat.

Hey, why don't you keep it friendly. (good move doing lunch first) How about inviting a group from work to play miniature golf or go karts, etc.
 
How do you guys ever score:)

Ditto the work thing, but if you are going to do it anyway.............

You dont need to be boring man. She may be a little shy, but that makes it all the more likely she wants to do something a little wild and crazy, and is just looking for some guy to bring it out of her. Don't do the typical shit, and don't be afraid to expose her some to your world. She may be attracted to you precisely because she thinks you will be differnet than all the other lame asses she dates. She agreed to date you for a reason. By trying to be like them , which you arent, you may likely be killing whatever it possibly is that attracted her to you to begin with. So in this case be yourself.

And the quiet/shy ones turn out unerringly to be the biggest freaks man. They're quiet because they're afraid of what will come out of they open their mouths. Its always the talkers that turn out to be lame
 
JerseyArt said:
And the quiet/shy ones turn out unerringly to be the biggest freaks man. They're quiet because they're afraid of what will come out of they open their mouths. Its always the talkers that turn out to be lame
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so what your saying is she might swallow?
 
SoreArms said:
so what your saying is she might swallow?
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Like a fucking vacuum cleaner.

I remember this Irish Catholic girl same way. Quiet , shy , church on sunday.

She would ride you like someone stuck a live wire up her ass
 
I don't know Sorearms, she smells like a Mormon to me. 26, "doesn't really drink", shy............Does she have that wholesome, wants to stay home, cook and raise babies look about her? If so, you got a mormon dude. Be careful......
 
Just because she said she doesn't really drink, doesn't mean she doesn't occasionly have a drink, or maybe she just doesn't drink to the point where she can't stand.

I don't really drink, but if I go out to a club or to dinner with some friends I'll have a drink or 2. It's just not a weekly thing.

Take her to dinner, get to know her and find out what she likes.
 
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