Need ADVICE EVERYONE

[Meantime1]

Advice EVERYONE


I have been single for over a year and a bit but i have dated, nothing serious, now during that time, i have had my share of people asking me to be their BF, but i seem to turn them down,
Now all the people who asked me out have now met someone new and are happy,
But i am still single, one of my friends asked, me why are u still single, when u have everything going for yourself,
A part of me thinks maybe i should have taken a chance with these people, but a part of me is saying, there is no point trying to go into it, when u know deep down it will not work.
I have been friends with someone special who was kin of me, ok has a beautiful personality, but physically not my type and now, they have moved on and have met someone knew.
The thing is, i want the complete package, since i am the complete package, i am not trying to blow my own horn, But i look good and i am a beautiful person on the inside and out.
But so far everyone, i have met, are not the complete package

I dont know if i am just too picky or am i waiting for something that would never come

 

[Gambino]

i am the same way...spent 2 years completely single, then ms.right* came along and BOOM, relationship time. If they don't feel right to you it's 'cause they are not.


























*ms. right turned out to be ms.angrybitchasshobagg

 

[*MissFit*]

No ones perfect, but we all look for the person we feel is perfect to us

 

[Meantime1]

Thanks, but i sometimes feel a bit sad, i dont know why

i am the same way...spent 2 years completely single, then ms.right* came along and BOOM, relationship time. If they don't feel right to you it's 'cause they are not.



























*ms. right turned out to be ms.angrybitchasshobagg

 

[Meantime1]

No ones perfect, but we all look for the person we feel is perfect to us

I agree Cutie
But it would be nice to meet someone, who is beautiful on the outside as well as the inside, I am not looking for perfection, I guess the older i have become the more, i know what i want

 

[jerseyart]

Toughest thing to find the right person.

Frankly Im not that particular about the looks. She just has to eb attractive to me, not more attractive than everyone else around.

Personality is the toughest thing to find, along with intelligence and a good heart. Peeps are very self centered

 

[CipherLock]

Finding someone is not easy and sadly does not always happen. Here is where people settle and life a very sad life.

Where do you draw the line between compromising and settling.

Wasn't it Einstein who said: "Life's a bitch and then you die."

 

[Meantime1]

Finding someone is not easy and sadly does not always happen. Here is where people settle and life a very sad life.

Where do you draw the line between compromising and settling.

Wasn't it Einstein who said: "Life's a bitch and then you die."

That is sooo true and i see sooo many people do that, give up their highest dream of themselves
and settle for the next best thing
So not me, But i understand why they do it, after all no one WANTS TO END up ALONE

 

[TheProject]

I think JerseyArt must pop wood when he sees the word "advice" in a thread title.

 

[jerseyart]

I think JerseyArt must pop wood when he sees the word "advice" in a thread title.

It's the roids man

It' just the roids

 

[Y_lifter]

If you are waiting for Mr perfect to come along, you will probably be
alone for a very very long time..

Relationships are sometimes about compromises..

I'm not saying it about accepting someone you don't like, just accepting that no one is perfect
and you gotta find that person that meets your MAJOR wants in a mate..

 

[Meantime1]

If you are waiting for Mr perfect to come along, you will probably be
alone for a very very long time..

Relationships are sometimes about compromises..

I'm not saying it about accepting someone you don't like, just accepting that no one is perfect
and you gotta find that person that meets your MAJOR wants in a mate..

Thanks for the advice and i agree with it,
But soo far, i have not met anyone that has met my Major wants
But then again i am only 26 and most people dont meet that special someone until much later

 

[Lestat]

hang in there man. I've felt that way at times, but you'll forget all about it when you finally do meet someone.

It doesn't sound like you have unrealistic expectations. Just keep being social and meeting people. You'll find someone you click with.

 

[CipherLock]

Ok, this thread is getting sappy.

Let's get some goatse on the go to lift the mood.

 

[Sub-Zero]

anyone can go out and settle and start a relationship with an OK (except fxygel) but its not worth the work unless...shes worth the work

hope that helped

 

[Meantime1]

hang in there man. I've felt that way at times, but you'll forget all about it when you finally do meet someone.

It doesn't sound like you have unrealistic expectations. Just keep being social and meeting people. You'll find someone you click with.

Thanks Man, I appreciate that

 

[courtneybcca]

Never SETTLE!!! You need to just date... You are never going to find the perfect person because they don't exist. But you will find someone that you don't mind there faults... Dating is the way to go and try not to have expectations it will just fall into place on its own... You will eventually just naturally start seeing just one person when you find someone that you can't be without...

 

[ChefWide]

It can take a lot of almost rans to get to the MUST HAVE... you might find that embodied in the most unlikely of places..


the key is: do NOT give up, date a lot if you can.

 

[RADAR]

It will happen when you least expect it....trust me!

RADAR

 

[DieselGunz]

I felt the same way, I am picky with my woman I want it all. There were times when I thought I was the problem I wanted too much, that my expectations were too high. I had all but given up when basically my best friend became more. She is everything i ever wanted she knows me she understands and just doesnt look at the cover so to say. It will happen just give it time, dont look it will come naturally before you know it she will be right in front of you. It is hard to find the complete package of looks attitude and sex appeal, but it is out there dont give up.