not on by posting on EF all day, i can tell you that much
seriously though, every single girl ive done anything with was by a fluke encounter, mostly friends friends and stuff (other than school which did me really well!)... but i mean, ive had a lasting relationship with a girl who walked up to me while i was eating at a restaurant and just gave me her number...
the key thing for me is dont go looking for girls, and they come