im so sorry..i hate it when this happens..just makes me realize we all have to go through with it someday...i live with my mom, grandma, uncle, and aunt ever since i was born...i will be devistated when my grandma goes, and she doesn't have much left..she is like my 2nd mom...i don't know how im going to bare with it or deal with it when the time comes...sometimes i feel like i would rather go before they do..you are in my prayers, and just know that everyone has to go through with this, its part of life..something we don't understand right now..but necessary for the after life...Godspeed