My Graduation Cake

[Y_lifter]

Get a Litterbox cake made

http://www.swapmeetdave.com/Humor/Cats7/KLCake1.jpg

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

very hypocritical.
this is reminding me of defendants up on the witness stand who say their defense is that they were raised in a certain environment, that they are a product of that and that other people didn't give them a chance at life. other people judged them and OTHER people held them back, instead of taking responsibility.

that attitude drives me nuts. its never their fault.

IP, nobody has to meet you. nobody has to chill out. nobody has to be nice.

that's life.

I understand that. I'm just going off what a few on here told me. That these aren't always peoples' real persona's, that people have personalities on here that aren't always "themselves," etc. So in real life, IMO, it's different for some people. I know no one has to be nice, chill out, or meet me. That wasn't my point.

 

[stilleto]

i love marzipan btw.

cake is yucky, except for the filling. fondant is very sweet. yuck.

btw, IP has told us she's entertained by what's posted here and never really offended. she's told us over and over again, and said that she doesn't take anything here seriously- its the INTERNET!, so don't any of you worry about her. she's laughing.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

no one DID care.

No one cared. Thats not what started this. Fuck I should get the hell out of here though. lol

Not one person here said they gave a fuck or that she should not get the stupid cake.

Obviously you cared a bit more than you are saying.... and it IS what started this.

 

[stilleto]

I understand that. I'm just going off what a few on here told me. That these aren't always peoples' real persona's, that people have personalities on here that aren't always "themselves," etc. So in real life, IMO, it's different for some people. I know no one has to be nice, chill out, or meet me. That wasn't my point.

but you said it. ?


this isn't meant to be nasty, but... do you always have such a hard time making your point in written form?
i've seen you mention how hard it is to get your point across correctly on the internet... its true that it CAN be a problem to know if someone is joking or not, but you seem to have a MUCH harder time than others and have said a LOT that you were misunderstood.

that's going to be a problem in graduate school, since you'll have to do a lot of written papers.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

That is rolled fondant that it is covered in. Plus, most charge way more for the same cake if you call it a wedding cake than if you call it any other kind of cake.

Additionally, why do you guys care what her parents spend on her graduation cake? It is a special day and they can afford to give her something special.

It will never be looked at in that way. Now if it were a party with a home made cake I'm sure it would be a different story. lol. Obviously because my parents are buying an expensive cake there has to be some bad that goes along with it. lol.

HR how's the baby?

 

[jnevin]

Obviously you cared a bit more than you are saying.... and it IS what started this.

I think what started it was an adult was tee hee heeing about her mommy and daddy buying her a cake for graduation. It somehow went further downhill from there.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

but you said it. ?


this isn't meant to be nasty, but... do you always have such a hard time making your point in written form?
i've seen you mention how hard it is to get your point across correctly on the internet... its true that it CAN be a problem to know if someone is joking or not, but you seem to have a MUCH harder time than others and have said a LOT that you were misunderstood.

that's going to be a problem in graduate school, since you'll have to do a lot of written papers.

My writing was analyzed before I got in as part of the application process. So my writing is fine. And there's a huge difference between writing a research paper and typing on a message board. My style changes when I know it's for a research paper. And, I'm sure it can improve as most peoples' can but I am looking foward to that.

It's different when people are CONSTANTLY attacking you and then sometimes saying they are joking and sometimes saying they aren't. I cannot always tell, and often times people make it very difficult to. People also sometimes, claim it's a joke when I know there is some meaning to what they said. It seems some of you misunderstand me more than others. There are a group of people on here who do get what I'm saying. They leave me karma messages and Pm messages but won't post because I'm sure they don't want to get attacked..although HR and Oceano do post.

 

[cindylou]

Obviously you cared a bit more than you are saying.... and it IS what started this.

No ; why would I care if you got a cake? I was trying to help ppl understand why someone would have such a cake. To impress.

But whatever. You think that trying to impress people is a bad thing and that I was attacking you.

I'm not going to post in this thread anymore so you can continue asking about cake flavors etc.

Ppl understand and all can relate to trying to impress someone. But you are different from everyone and are ABOVE trying to impress.

Dont misunderstand that for caring about your cake or BBQ.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

No ; why would I care if you got a cake? I was trying to help ppl understand why someone would have such a cake. To impress.

But whatever. You think that trying to impress people is a bad thing and that I was attacking you.

I'm not going to post in this thread anymore so you can continue asking about cake flavors etc.

Ppl understand and all can relate to trying to impress someone. But you are different from everyone and are ABOVE trying to impress.

Dont misunderstand that for caring about your cake or BBQ.

You'll be a perfect party planner with that attitude.

P.S. I know wanting to impress isn't a bad thing but that wasn't my reasoning behind it. Open your mind a little bit.. not everyone thinks that way.