I should add that when i first found out that my wife was prego i was so scared and just wanted it to go away. i freaked and flipped and cried too, lol. Now what I thought at the time was a night mare, has turned out to be the 2nd best thing that has ever happened to me (wife being 1st). I have two girls now and love being a daddy more than anything else. plus finding out about #2 was much easier