My friend is Transgender........

[Wulfgar]

Does he/she do anal?

 

[Wulfgar]

Ive heard transgendered pussies look better than real pussies

 

[jackangel]

is s/he into the vomit scene? that might open up major doors.

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

does her vagina work?

is fully functional?

are her hands all freaking manly?

 

[blueta2]

I tend to look at people's soul. Someone who has the need to go through this surgery obviously wasn't born in the correct physical form. Nature/god really does fuck up every now and then.....shocker.....I know it's hard for some of you OT types to digest that. But reality is reality. When a 5 yr old child actually verbalizes to they're parents that they feel in the wrong body........that means something. So I'm inclined to give this person the benefit of the doubt and just call it a woman. Because when all is said and done, after the surgeries and the hormones........it pretty much is with the exception of the internal reproductive organs. If we want to judge women by their capacity to have children......what of women who have had to have their ovaries removed? I can't say either way whether I would date someone like this or not........I guess I'll cross that bridge once I get there.

Blue...........you said she's had "issues" with her new nanay......could you elaborate?

issue like spotting (blood) and some swelling

 

[nefertiti]

After further thought...my stance on the honesty thing goes beyond just for her safety.

To engage in any physical act with another man, even kissing, and not revealing this beforehand is a violation. It's intentionally withholding information from someone because you know they might not be physical with you if they knew - and while it doesn't pose the same health risks, it's no different in principle than knowing you have herpes and sleeping with someone without telling them. If you're going to be physical at all with someone they have a right to have all the pertinent information. You may not see her transgender status as relevant - but many many others will, and they should be able to make that choice for themselves.

I'm sure your friend is lovely...and it's a brave thing she did, and it's sad knowing how difficult her life will be as a result. She might have some luck with bisexual men? In any case...she shouldn't resort to trickery, and it seems that she knows that. It's unsafe...and it's not fair to her potential partners.

 

[blueta2]

you are serious??

You really think she shouldn't tell the guy right away??

Yeah she should tell that shit up front and you are playing with your friends life by telling her that shit.

She is going to run into like me who would have no problem giving her a Sicilian Necktie over that shit.

nah, I changed my tune. I think she would need to tell them right away.
Better to be honest

 

[blueta2]

Posting this thread on EF is a good idea.

I'm sure you'll get good, honest, non-sarcastic comments and plenty of positive feedback.

you don't give enough credit to some super smart well informed EF members.
Not everyone here is a tool ;-)

 

[binö]

is this bagina fully operational?

 

[blueta2]

i'm a bit confused about your friend/specimen, blueta2. you originally referred to this person as a 'he' that became a 'she.' i'm working off the assumption that this is a dude who wanted to make his physical/hormonal/etc. profile as much like a woman's as possible.

but you're saying that the former 'he' was never really a male because 'he' has had a largely female genetic makeup all along, but wanted to remove some 'minor' external appendages and become more like the woman 'he' already is?

you and myway have crazied up this thread like a motherfucker.

Well I met her when she was in a mans body. She was a she since she was born. She always felt like a SHE and had a penis.
I'm not sure why you're confused